Scorpio Women (Page 4)

Um - I can't exactly grow for the next 7 years and hope things work out.

Posted by zosopage17

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by caligula


you say that you've said cutting things to her and that you get how destructive your interactions were, yet, you want her back and i can't figure out why she'd come back...because you sent a cuddly text or because she develops amnesia and forgets the past?

what im trying to say is, you're asking how to get her back and you're not getting the answer to that here...no matter how much you think you are. you're talking about the things you need to do outwardly and have yet to explain/acknowledge what you have changed inwardly. are you asking her to return to more of the same and if so, why would she do that given how cruel you've spoken to one another?

as i said in the other thread, fixed signs don't leave. if they do, they do so because they're seeking change. as long as you represent more of the same, feelings aside, she'll eventually move on and up without you.

I have to agree after reading your exchange with Caligula. She hit the last 2 paragraphs right on the head. Other than your girl's venus-cap, we have the same sun, moon, merc and mars. With that said, I generally stay put until it's just not healthy anymore or you've really hurt me. If I have figured out it just gonna be much of the same (esp after loving you and trying to make it work) then I will never return, no matter how much it hurts to be away from you. Will I miss you? Immensely, but I will not return. Now, if the "inward" changes occur I may entertain us being friends again. What comes out of that friendship will come with GREAT caution. Any sign the old you is still present, I will retreat again, probably for good.

Fuck.

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My post wasn't meant to discourage you, it was to give you a dose of reality. It's not gonna be easy, but doable if you truly plan to make changes and move your ass already. Action trumps words.

Well, I see the path to personal progression. I don't see the path to reconciliation.

Thanks. Thread has been helpful!

I'm just gonna go to the gym twice as often, that way I can let some of that fucking energy out!