Scorpion Character

Hi All

In my experience, scorp males turn out to be wonderful allies in general. But most of the females of this sign are insecure,secretive and unrelaible, including my ex who got married to somebody w/o givin me even a whiff. In fact she never broke the newz to me and I got to know of the same from some distant cousin of hers !
And this too aft years of declarations of undying love !
Can any of you shed light on what makes scorp ladies so cold and ruthless ?

Warm ...yeah many of you would be. But dont U think most of the scorp females prefer pragmatism over emotions ?
Now that kind of practicality is good for self/self interrest but not always wholesome for others.
And why would you exhibit your sunny side to somebody whom you actually wouldnot want to ?

Hey Cap !

Well said !...Now that makes me feel all the more sad that maybe I wasnt gud enuf 😉

"most of the scorp females prefer pragmatism over emotions?"

I kind of agree with the above point but if we want you, theres no power in the world that can stop us coming after you and acquiring you..unless of course you don't want us..in which case we'll just kill you 😛

Or get bored of you..then as Cap said, go onto something else..lol..

Sane advice Cap ....very much appreciated. Itz only human to crave for the lost world though. Yup. I understand the deeper implications.

And in my case it wasnt a question of level of desire. I was talking about the transparency part.Secrecy and manipulations destroy faith in general.

I was just trying to get some view on why scorps treat emotions/naivete as inferior. What is the drive behind such behavior ?

LOL MM ....No one doubts your perseverance here ! About the "killing" part...You make that killing out of our generosity 😉

Gaurav: "You make that killing out of our generosity"..LOL...its for your own good..trust us!..

Are you new to the boards? In which case, welcome to our world..Belt up and enjoy the ride 😉

Cap: Good morning girlfriend..How are you?

Thanks MM ....I have been a mute spectator here for a few months and this place roks !
And am here to ruffle a few featherz 😉

Ruffling doesn't even begin to describe what goes on here...so yeah...Ruffle away...

Which festivalz cap ?...Diwali ?...Id-ul-Fitar ? 🙂

Wow, impressed with Gauravs knowledge...

I am fine Cap..A bit tired from the weekend..spent it with Mr Scorp..need I say more!..lol

I am off work tomorrow and Wednesday..need a holiday..

Yeah I kinda figured he was indian..the name did give it away!..lol..Do you think he qualifies to make the "spice girl" band? I heard Aries men are a bit metrosexual anyway!..He can be sporty spice...LOL

Yes trouble...don't spill the beans...keep it shhhtum!

"Cap"itulated ?....Have some spine 😉

LOL..actually you are right..we have our band..his services are not required..rockchick was our 5th member..I remember now..

So how was your weekend Cap? What did you get up to?

Never mind Cap ...MM has already vetoed me out 🙂
I am still to figure out what would you be doin in that band though 😉

Should have guessed.

Cap's first luv- Money

LOL...

Bran...that cappie stuff was of my making. U misdirected the burst.

Bran ..Does that mean U have no status ?

LOL ...meant to be caustic ?..OK.
BTW I was just kiddin...Yup ! Egalitarianism is the concept !

Cap, Bran ....caste system still pervades most of the regions in India ,yup. Things are changing though....gradually. About discrimination, caste is a mere manifestation/pretext. U can find it happening in every corner of this world.

Cap...Guess we need to wait for results to pour in out of the research being done on areas of brain driving wild/cruel thoughts. Guess conditional stimulus plays a big role and even the brain shud be evolving on the EI part as well apart from IQ.

Gosh Archer..I just looked at your profile..and you have my favourite season up there..the colours of Autumn...YUMMMMMMY

Oh so beautiful

LOL ...Just wanted to say that we cant blame our ancestors for all those atrocities. Evolution has itz own schemes.

U cud articulate it well. Well maybe...hope so.

Cap: "Yeah from being imperfect to perfect"

Not to sure about that, given the current climate...

Hmmmm....The last loud hiccup ?

Archer ...scorp in the coffee must be ?

Yes Archer..Me love autumn..very much...The colours, the wardrobe, the Scorp season...

Even the leaves shake out of fear 😉

LOL..I hadn't thought about it like that..but yeah..

Cap ...exactly where ?

Hmmm....Sags move too fast leaving no trail though 🙂
Caps are tuf teachers...Aloof yeah !
Scorps ...Carey Scary 😉

Hot in India ...?...Itz all fine down south at least 🙂

Yupp...North ppl r in for shivers now. West may still be dry.

Thanks for the weather report you guys!

LOL....MM...This can rival the CNN forecast !

TC ...Cap.

Bye MM,Archer,Gaurav.

Gosh this sounds like an episode of The Waltons..

i remember my friend when the time she like my advice she came to me then one day i realize that she's not kind of good friend of mine nobody knows why i dont call her or even to answer her call.. so one day she call to my friend asking us then when i heard my name i said dont botherd me anymore or call its better for you so she want to know why? so i talk to her i said dont disturb me anymore you dont make anything and i dont make anything for you.. this is me i can do what i want i will talk the person i want so i hang the phone in her face....

' including my ex who got married to somebody w/o givin me even a whiff. In fact she never broke the newz to me and I got to know of the same from some distant cousin of hers !'

i can see why she wouldnt tell you, she didnt want you to know because she didnt want to hurt you and she wanted you to still be available. i dont think she even thought it would be bad not to tell you.
does that make sense? my mom(virgo) pointed out to me (scorpio) that sometimes the way i manipulate is by not disclosing specific information on purpose to keep someone else's picture looking a certain way. i think she was triyng to do the opposite of hurt you, she probably still has undying love for you,,,,somewhere.
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"she probably still has undying love for you,,,,somewhere"

I have no reason to doubt that. But that hidden thing doesnt fetch world-peace.
I dont want to rake up issues here...But am not an iconoclast and I dont feel like making heroes out of ordinary people.

I think she would've told him about the marriage..whether she wanted to hurt him or not is beside the point..I know at times we assume the other person understands our disappearance acts..but in this situation, you can't just disappear and announce your marriage..theres an underlying issue here..

Anyway, not here to discuss Guru's ex love life..

oh yes that is true i guess a marriage isnt something you can really leave out..

Awww, G. You never told me this! 😢


I would never do that to you. 🙂

I agree with kiki..she just didn't want to hurt you..despite what people say, we do care about other people's feelings unless they have hurt us and then we will strike back, it is our defense mechanism...but in your case she just didn't want to hurt you...and we always want to leave the door open so that we can come back when and if we feel like it...