Scorpios flirtatious to people they don't like?

Like is it ever possible for a scorpio to give they're number out.... talk to you and be all nice around you.... but not actually be into you? like EVER?

Alright nice some responses w00t! I would say that there has not been any talks of polotics... there have not really been much of anything talked about that I would say me and her necessarily disagree on other than.... She has read those hunger games books and I told her I watched the movie and really ..REALLY didn't like it I mean damn! That movie has like nothing positive to take from it at all. The only slightly positive parts really REALLY bittersweet. I can't Imagine how the books could be much better.

I told her this and she didn't seem to be turned off by it ...she seemed more intrigued by it to be honest. I later asked her why she liked that damn story and she tells me errm something along the lines of how it can be related to society today however she says she doesn't believe in conspiracy theories or w/e.

And truth Hunger Games is objectively a very creative story with a lot of thought put behind it I just hate overly depressing movies or stories that don't even cause change at the end. About the most negative stuff I read is Edgar Allen Poes short stories cause well He writes some damn good stuff and it's not all DEPRESSING lol ^.^

Anyways back to the point of this post is... This girl gave me her number was the first to talk to me ... not the other way around... and general it was pretty obvious she liked me! That's Why I decided to sit next to her in class eventually. I honestly was not really expecting much but boy was I surprised.... the more I talked to her the more I WANTED to talk to her.

BUT damn she like I could swear I never met someone who could seem like she could care less if we don't see or talk to each other for like could be a week LMAO ..... That is first girl I ever had do me that one. I mean that is more space than I take myself. I only go for long strokes like that when someone is like adding pressure to my life whether intentionally or not. I avoid stress if it is hard for me at the moment to see how to handle it..... I want to figure out how to handle the stress first then I can handle the person and their feelings or w/e. I mean I don't see how I would be stressing her out at all I like what at the most have texted her 3 times in one day and have gone days without contact as well... When I'm around her she is a sweetheart and we get along great as far as I can tell. But damn I thought if they into people they like to talk on the phone for hours or text or w/e... I mean she is a little shy yes... hell maybe more then I realize I guess dunno but she knows how I feel... I always look into her eyes when I'm talking to her... she has not told me about how she feels but jeez she shows it all the time. If I was around her everyday than I wouldn't mind so much but when she is gone for days.... And does not respond to texts... =_= that is mind boggling stuff there... I mean if she responds it's like two days later LOL.

I just wanted to know what ya'll thought am I just getting reading her wrong and she just sees me as a freind or do you think I'm right. IF you do think I'm right what should I do ....give her more attention or just back off? I don't really care if she doesn't respond to texts they are usually declarations of what I'm thinking at the time and are not questions requiring a response and all.... Just damn you'ld think she would be more responsive ..... Are some scorps aloof on the regular like this— Or do you think maybe it is related to something else?

Oh thnx Impulsv I'm glad I was straight up with her... just makes me feel like all she gonna do is try to use it to manipulate me in some way though! Cause despite all that she has actually told me she has not necessarily .... well I dunno maybe she has told me a lot and I'm just feeling my situation is so much more to say cause it is a trainwreck situation for a guy my age 7 times out of ten....10 times out of 10 for any girl I would actually really want to get to know.

At least I got some decent looks I presume... Cause I'll be damned if every girl at school has got to try and stare me down or w/e... I hate saying that cause it sounds conceited but the truth is it actually feels very uncomfortable especially in knowing most really just THINK they are interested. I have had women stay behind at the store I work at until everyone leaves just to flirt with me because they think I own the damn store LOL.... -_- GAWD that is the most uncomfortable embarrassing situation I can honestly think of. I really am not depressed just bitter and lonely I guess w/e all I know is this girl has brought out feelings I thought I would never really feel again ... she has made me start believing in stuff I have written off... One thing is for sure if it doesn't work out I have her to thank that if she can to do that maybe there is hope for me after all hah!

Just wish I could understand why the hell she doesn't want to talk more outside of school?? I have been able to only get her on the phone one damn time and I asked to see if she was free this one night I knew she didn't work and poof she magically is working that night! She said she was free on Sunday though but I work 16hours all day on Sunday.... and it isn't at all clear if she knew this before hand or not but I think she did!! I just never thought of it till today!

Well I have been up front with her .... So nothing for me to be mysterious necessarily I mean obviously there is more.... Obviously my life cannot be put in a few texts but there should be no feeling of me trying to to tell her stuff first off.... She has not asked me many questions especially lately after the fact of me being more open with her.... Bought the most she asks is a question about school that's it??

I just really am trying to figure out should I keep giving attention or more even though she does not necessarily always reciprocate?? I mean do all scores get off on that and NO this not a manipulation to get her to like me more.... LoL I honestly want to talk to her but I guess I just like to talk a lot.... Obviously...

So what you guys think should I go the attention route .... Or the back off route that feels more like a manipulation than texting however it could be acceptable to me if you guys think she would rather the ultimate space or if you guys really think she might not be into me.... Honestly I really want this to work lol it is hard to focus on school because I have her on my damn mind! Like some serious self-control is being exercised here and it's finals FUCK =_=

I dunno man ...... I hate this crap lol! They aren't like this all the damn time are they— I mean like just drawing away for like w/e weekly— Like what I wish she would do is if she is really not interested in me stop talking to me in class shit be rude or something....lol don't be all nice and sweet to me.... that gets stupid confusing

It's not so much the rejection part I mean she offered to do it on a different day technically.... Its the fact that she is going to be like super cool like I told her nothing in class and not mention it and .... be all sweet on me I guess I dunno.... I don't go around flirting with a every girl that talks to me I think its superficial. I am older than her maybe that has something to do with it I guess. As I said earlier she can be how she is at this moment if I saw her everyday but I don't so w/e... I dunno what I'm gonna do just yet.

All I know is I wish she would have just left me alone from the get go if she knew she was gonna have issues with it granted she is not just using me lol which is what I auto assume from every chick that talks to me pretty much... If that is in fact what she is doing she is a very VERY good actor. I never seeked her out in class till she did it to me like at least 3 times or more.... Like honestly I do think there is either some dude she can't make her mind up about or...he can't make his up about her... OR she is so hurt from the last dude she dated and is kinda hesitant about anything.... or could just be she doesn't trust me. I suppose I do appear like the creepy old guy there.

NYAA, the scorp/aqua combo starts with the intrigue on both parties, the "never wanting to stop talking" bits and then BOOM...not so fun anymore. Aqua let go easily and scorp doesnt...pray that you guys dont get into an arguement (which is hard not to get into btw) because if yours is anything like my scorp x...that one arguement will be brought up OVER AND OVER AGAIN...leading to what you mentioned...DEPRESSION!!! In my case, its like scorp didnt like to be happy or didnt like happiness to last, he ALWAYS brought up something that ruined the "happy vibe". Its like he got satisfaction from misery, I DONT, so i ended my relationship with him. Plus there's one thing with aquas (at least im like that), loving THE IDEA of a person, but not the REAL PERSON. I swear I thought i really liked the scorp...AWAY FROM HIM and different story when together...I COULDNT WAIT TO GET AWAY! Just be sure the feeling is real and not the figmentation of your thoughts. I wish you both a non-depressive relationship.

And to clear your confusion, i have a scorp moon so i understand SOME of the moves made by scorps. Scorps do the opposite of how they feel, a bit like aqua (thou i cant be completely sure since i have both signs in my chart), they act like they dont give a damn on the surface, but actually do give a damn on the inside. If you wanna see how she really feels about you, do what the leo guy said and ignore her...that will send her into action. She'll start making small talks just to test the waters, to see if you still feel the same about her and i think they also like the idea of being chased...if they like you, but it does get old tbh. The push and pull is part of the scorp makeup, but as an aqua you probably wouldnt care or be bothered, BUT... SOME OF THEM SEEM TO LIKE WHEN U SEEM BOTHERED and will probe just to see if your are bothered...ANNOYING REALLY. Im obviously not a fan of this pairing, but miracles happen.

NYAA, Is it possible that you "might" be reading too much into this Scorpio woman's friendliness?

That's what I was thinking... I mean I never even texted her first she texted me first. I guess what it could be is she just isn't interested anymore. Oh well... I think overall I like scorps the most at least the core scorp!

I say that cause I've had to live with one for a long ass time my mom! Dear lord she used to drive me insane with her stubborn attitude towards stuff.... even when she is in the wrong! I mean I'm stubborn to I guess but if I know I'm wrong I'm not about to make an ass out of myself. Who knows she's older than me and maybe I'll see it her way when I'm her age but as of now haha not so much.

And YES my mom has apologized to me like ONCE my whole life... Yeah I remembered it because it shocked me to death. I mean she might say she's sorry for doing something small but when it comes to something BIG haha in big matters she never does so yeah that is the only time ever she has admitted she was in the wrong. What I really appreciate about scorpios... if this whole astrology thing has anything truelly to it... She could have fucking thrown me out on the street a long time ago... She could have just given up on me... Other people told her too... told her I was a lazy worthless shit I'm sure... but nope she saw what I could be... You got to admire the fierce loyalty!

I was wondering if maybe it COULD be that. You know maybe she perceives me treating her like everyone else or w/e. Honestly I don't talk to many people at school at all... as a matter of fact most people who I talk to... they have approached me and not the other way around. She is the only person I actively would seek out. But she is not around me 24/7 so0o0 she might not look at it that way. The only girl she has ever seen me around lol... is some girl who like constantly has to have me help her with her damn math... let me emphasize that girl is ANNOYING as hell! But I do help her.... heck girl has a boyfriend and definitely not even close to my type. As a matter of fact if I knew she didn't have one I probably would avoid her like the plague.

LIKE the scorp I am pining for lol... if she was to get jealous over that hmmmm well I dunno to me to explain the one or two times she has ever seen me with this girl would seem like I would have to explain myself because of the need to hide something when I really don't. I dunno I really don't give anyone attention much but her but I'm generally nice to everyone if they talk to me.

See my natural inclination would be to give her attention and make her feel special (well I would like to think it would) however it could just annoy her but it would be me... after all what can I be but myself. I always read taurus guys will do this to scorps when they clam up or w/e and supposedly it annoys them at first but they begin to really love and appreciate... but I suppose it depends on the person.

Posted by Impulsv
Ok so she texted first but what have you done about. If i show interest crearly but i see that hes not respondimg i back off. Maybe shes waiting for you to take the lead. If she off eres a replacement date she's interested. But if we see that our efforts of showing you we like you didn't pan out we lose interest or just stop. We can get our egos bruised too lol, we like to be pursued. Describe how you have been perusing. She might think he's just talking being nice like with all the women. Sheikhs not know your not like that and it's just her. So hence the signals your interested might not be strong for her too.

In case I didn't full answer your question "how have you been pursuing her"

I first decided to call her which I learned very quickly is probably not the best way to communicate ^.^

So I went to texting which she can read when she has time to.
And Ever since I told her what I thought about her and other relevant details... I will text her whenever the feeling is so great to want to talk or I have something on my mind about her... I just send it in a little text to let her know it what it is and that obviously I do think about her outside of school...

NOW granted If I was to text everytime I had the urge it would be annoying the most I have ever done to her in one day is probably 3 max and that was like hmm once twice most.... at least when we are talking about her not responding to them.

When she has immediately responded we may do more... although that has only happened two or three times and only in one instance of those did we text back in forth for good while the others where only a few.

Either way one could make the argument the second I decided to sit next to her in class and get to know her I was pursuing her; however, that was more really to find out who she was I guess you could say it was that.... I mean she had been giving signals of interest and pursuit before this so I figured why the hell not?

Ahh well she gave me her number before she found out I was poor as shit...

I was not gonna use it... because of that... but BUT I'm dumb I guess... and she contacted my phone first... oh man she hasn't texted or anything. Guess the jig could be up. IF she only knew how I felt wow... and telling her is not going to prove squat. Hah I have the best luck... nothing I can do that won't make it look like I'm trying to manipulate the situation or control it or w/e

I guess I'm going to have to just let it go... wow hope I'm wrong

No - I would find it repulsive to flirt with someone I do not like.

K..... I asked her if I could call her tonight after I got off from work and she says "Sure!"

When I call her she does not pick up

I try once more still does not pick up LOL

So I resign to leave a voice message although I probably should not have... but for now Im going too look at it as hopefully she just wants to get to know me more and this is just her way of doing it. Would be so much easier if she just asks me straight up.

Scorpios flirtatious to people they don't like?

Sometimes...But not often.