Scorps, were you wanted?

It seems to me that with Scorps there is often some kind of an issue with regard to whether or not they were originally a wanted child or not (this seems often to apply to some extent with Moon in Scorpio and Scorpio rising as well). For example I have observed that many adopted children seem to be Scorps, and if this whole issue is a real one for Scorps in general that would obviously help to explain why Scorps are so slow to trust others (i.e. if they have been adopted they may feel that even their own parents betrayed them). With regard to Moon in Scorpio, for example my ex has this and her parents had to get married (back in the day) because of her mother's pregnancy with her (so I'm not sure how much she was really wanted) and my own son has Scorpio rising and he was not totally wanted at the time (his mother decided to have him against my wishes but I have now accepted him).

to sum it up
I was born out of lust and my mother religious convictions.

@TachiMichi: The reason I opposed it was because of our difficult financial situation at the time, not because I never wanted fatherhood.

I was wanted my mom and dad planned me.

Posted by virgodog58
It seems to me that with Scorps there is often some kind of an issue with regard to whether or not they were originally a wanted child or not (this seems often to apply to some extent with Moon in Scorpio and Scorpio rising as well). For example I have observed that many adopted children seem to be Scorps, and if this whole issue is a real one for Scorps in general that would obviously help to explain why Scorps are so slow to trust others (i.e. if they have been adopted they may feel that even their own parents betrayed them). With regard to Moon in Scorpio, for example my ex has this and her parents had to get married (back in the day) because of her mother's pregnancy with her (so I'm not sure how much she was really wanted) and my own son has Scorpio rising and he was not totally wanted at the time (his mother decided to have him against my wishes but I have now accepted him).

No.

??_ and my own son has Scorpio rising and he was not totally wanted at the time (his mother decided to have him against my wishes
but I have now accepted him).

This ties in nicely with your Population Control thread.

:/

Posted by virgodog58
It seems to me that with Scorps there is often some kind of an issue with regard to whether or not they were originally a wanted child or not (this seems often to apply to some extent with Moon in Scorpio and Scorpio rising as well). For example I have observed that many adopted children seem to be Scorps, and if this whole issue is a real one for Scorps in general that would obviously help to explain why Scorps are so slow to trust others (i.e. if they have been adopted they may feel that even their own parents betrayed them). With regard to Moon in Scorpio, for example my ex has this and her parents had to get married (back in the day) because of her mother's pregnancy with her (so I'm not sure how much she was really wanted) and my own son has Scorpio rising and he was not totally wanted at the time (his mother decided to have him against my wishes but I have now accepted him).

Since you say you did the research regarding "many adopted children seem to be Scorps", do a reality research...ask women (all signs) you meet if their Father was a part of their life. Most women without a Father in the home or had a Father who walked out behave this way too.

I read about that too, and I found it very interesting. I was actually conceived two months after my mother had a miscarriage. Apparently, if she hadn't then I wouldn't have been born. But she was quite sad about it at the time and I was really a surprise for her. But my dad had wanted me to be a boy, so they contemplated giving me a sex change. Good thing they didn't, because for nearly a decade, the family and even relatives could not conceive a girl.

Weird how things work out. 😛

I was born wanted and waited. thus the youngest and only girl after 3 elder boys in the family. So no I dont have that feeling of being not wanted.