SEX + SCORP = BABY? (Page 2)

Tnx, scorched. Dazed has a blind spot for his sign's issues but expect others to see theirs

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by Xin
Fireass - Yeah and your face stands for shut the hell up! 😄

Anyways, Watercup he might poke holes in that thing. I wouldn't put it past him.
Get on some BC girly or try the IUD.

ummm, Not sure what that's all about.

They used/use them over in the Middle East.
First they bury them, then when the army comes, they explode.
Very simple strategy.
Effective?
Not particularly as the army keeps on goin', though, a few fall.

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LMAO

Lol. U r talking like im some paedophile after a 5yr old, he is 10 years older and he should have known better as my senior. But nooo, i guess i was too cute & hot to let me slip by

Watercup,
Dazed is making some very valid points on this matter. AND.... they are in your best interest.
He is basically describing a lot of points I simply summarized at the beginning of this thread.
It's not that I am taking sides, but I think you're getting some good advice to add to
the food for thoughts.

Remember what I said? It's "Risky Business".
I trust that you will give thought to these things in your own time.

MrFire, daze is blaming my being with the scorp on me- i can read well. The scorp is as much into this relationship as me, if he is unhappy or whatever, why not leave? He knew about the divorce from day 1, why should i care that it bothers him now?

Capgirl, im not waiting for him to break it off or anything like that- we have arguments like other ppl but it doesnt mean that we are unhappy, believe me i wouldnt stick around. I know what u mean about the deal breaker and like i said ive stopped the sex and we are back to only talking now.

Melly, im not retarded so please dont project on me. Why would i do something as dumb as that? Im not fucking him simply bcause i dont trust him anymore due to the fact that he wants a baby and i dont. Desperate ppl take desperate measures, u know

Pech, i dont get ^^^

Posted by WaterCup
MrFire, daze is blaming my being with the scorp on me- i can read well. The scorp is as much into this relationship as me, if he is unhappy or whatever, why not leave? He knew about the divorce from day 1, why should i care that it bothers him now?

Does it take Three to Tango?

In my opinion many arguments in just a couple months isn't normal, but that is for me. (In reference to your "normal arguments like other couples" or what have you).

I'm just not into fighting so I will avoid it at all cost.

I dunno tho, everyone is different.

I do wish you the best of luck though, watercup. If you feel you deserve a loving, drama free relationship, you can have it. If you like to keep things interesting though, then by all means.

Cheers.

Posted by LouLore
In my opinion many arguments in just a couple months isn't normal, but that is for me. (In reference to your "normal arguments like other couples" or what have you).

I'm just not into fighting so I will avoid it at all cost.

I dunno tho, everyone is different.

"many arguments in just a couple months isn't normal"
No, it's NOT normal.
That's a sign of trouble.
What's worse is when one initiates the argument then blames it on the other, THEN..... bring
up how many times the arguments occur: The "Keeping Tally" type. And EACH time, that tally person
was the one that caused the argument to begin with. As though, searching for a reason to hate someone.
If that person searches hard enough, they'll surely find a reason.
That's someone with some issues.

Watercup - Just kick both of them bitches to the curb and yell NEXT. Shit. I'd be like I don't have time for this mess pack your shit gtfo. You too bitch *points at ex* Everyone get the hell out.

Dazed - You mad? Calm down it's like you're putting yourself in his shoes. They are getting a divorce both of them are "free" so to speak but not by legality as in a written notice. She can do what ever she damn well pleases. She doesn't have to tell her EX (emphasis on EX) any damn thing. If she wants to drag her va jay jay up and down the street, good for her. But guess what? It's none of your damn business including her ex or who she is dating. It's not your place to tell people what to do and how to act and what is right/wrong. If anything NO one needs to be taking advice about the aspects of good and evil from a Scorpio.

I think this is bullshit. Not sure why people are getting all heated about her ex. They had some issues im sure who knows. I don't know the story, but IF and I said IF (are you reading that) it was his fault they are getting a divorce maybe he should have acted right in the first place and miss hot pants over here wouldn't have to be giving it up to some other man. Yall need to sit your asses down.

Posted by MellyMel
...and so Maury Povich created DXP... and Maury saw every thing that he had made, and behold, it was very good. And evening passed and morning came, marking the sixth day.

hahahaha




and the church say AMEN

Lmao @ the vjj drag race oh my god, the mental image, the mental image!! Haha. Xin u r killing me here for real. Me and him are now back to where it all began..friends. We havent done anything relationshipy for a wk now as i previously mentioned. He is making a party for himself this saterday, his birthday is on monday so he asked me to help him organize it all together. We havent talked about us yet bcause the party is taking up all the attention, he is so excited that i dont wanna spoil things for him by discussing us and our issues. But we are both aware that things arent the same and i think we are using the party thing as an excuse to avoid facing things once and for all. We will see how things get once this excitement passes.

Like i said here many times before, the guy is not a bad person, he only gets bad when he lets his insecurities and paranoia get in the way and spoil our litte happy vibe. I dont like being accused and suspected so i of course lash out at him when he starts getting all suspicious at me over nothing. Am i wrong for losing it instead of assuring him? Maybe. But again i dont think its my place to make him feel secured if he is insecure with himself. In all honesty im more than ready to wrap this one up bcause it seems like we always end up fighting about the same thing over and over again...suspicion and jealousy. Maybe its not even about his sun, but the age thing.

I dont know. He flipped out about me spending a night at my ex's house. My son was sick and no relationship can make me stay away from my child, it rather end. What i dont understand is that he spends time at his ex's house to spend time with his own son and i cant, why? Yeah maybe he doesnt spend the night there, but its not my fault that his ex stays nearer and mine doesnt. My ex stays hours away by car and my reasons for going there were a matter of must, i never spent a night there before since the split or since being with him, why he doesnt get the urgency of the matter for that day is beyond my grasp

"im more than ready to wrap this one up."
Good! Wrap it up!
🙂

MrFire, im waiting for his birthday party to pass, when he is relaxed and more attentive then i'll break it down to him. I dont want misunderstandings or to spoil his special day for him. I've been doing a lot of thinking since yesterday, went throu everything said here over and over again in my mind and a split sounds more attractive the more i think about it. Im tired..

at least he had the common courtesy to tell you his plans to knock you up instead of just poking holes in the condom.

Posted by scorchedearth

Posted by Xin
Watercup - Just kick both of them bitches to the curb and yell NEXT. Shit. I'd be like I don't have time for this mess pack your shit gtfo. You too bitch *points at ex* Everyone get the hell out.

Dazed - You mad? Calm down it's like you're putting yourself in his shoes. They are getting a divorce both of them are "free" so to speak but not by legality as in a written notice. She can do what ever she damn well pleases. She doesn't have to tell her EX (emphasis on EX) any damn thing. If she wants to drag her va jay jay up and down the street, good for her. But guess what? It's none of your damn business including her ex or who she is dating. It's not your place to tell people what to do and how to act and what is right/wrong. If anything NO one needs to be taking advice about the aspects of good and evil from a Scorpio.

I think this is bullshit. Not sure why people are getting all heated about her ex. They had some issues im sure who knows. I don't know the story, but IF and I said IF (are you reading that) it was his fault they are getting a divorce maybe he should have acted right in the first place and miss hot pants over here wouldn't have to be giving it up to some other man. Yall need to sit your asses down.

dazed is convinced that everything bad that happens in scorpio/whoever else relationships is entirely the other persons fault. couldn't be that the scorpio is being a psycho. nope, not at all.

and dazed projects himself into everything he reads. he's probably the least objective poster on the site. other than elle, but elle is wonderful and it's mostly her moons fault. 😛

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I haven't really seen anything other than this but a first impression is a lasting one, so I'm sure you are correct regarding Dazed. I felt like he was speaking for whoever it was that she was seeing. Kinda strange.

^^agreed. But still it doesnt mean that he wouldnt have tried it thou, which is what concerned me. He said he wouldnt do such a thing to me, but who knows. Plus i know how much he loves kids and always talks about wishing to have more kids and whatnot. He was in a 10 year long relationship and he says they tried so hard to conceive without success until early 2009 (in their 7th year together). He says after the child was born they tried again once more without success until their split in january of this year. The lady wanted to get married, he says he couldnt do it bcause of certain reasons (i suspect its the pregnancy issue, i may be wrong). He even refers to his son as a 'gift child' and he is from a large family himself, 8. When he comes over to my place he always plays with the kids around my flat, he just loves kids and im sorry that i cant give him that. Somebody else may..

The comment was for dmv's post, oopsie

you don't trust him, he gets on your nerves, it annoys you that he can't understand why you feel the need to spend the night in your ex's house because your son had a very common childhood illness such as an ear infection, you don't forsee the relationship lasting, you have had many arguments in the first couple of months together - why are you wasting any thought time, let alone online air time on this, unless you're enjoying the drama and attention it brings you. You should leave the poor man alone, sounds to me like he deserves better.

Posted by WaterCup
The comment was for dmv's post, oopsie

geez guys i was being facetious. trying to lighten up the mood in here 😛

Posted by MellyMel

Posted by celticlioness
you don't trust him, he gets on your nerves, it annoys you that he can't understand why you feel the need to spend the night in your ex's house because your son had a very common childhood illness such as an ear infection, you don't forsee the relationship lasting, you have had many arguments in the first couple of months together - why are you wasting any thought time, let alone online air time on this, unless you're enjoying the drama and attention it brings you. You should leave the poor man alone, sounds to me like he deserves better.

Because she "likes" him and can't imagine how anyone could think she doesn't! I mean, she's dating him (on her terms) and spends time with him (when she feels like it).. what more could he want?! Damn him for being needy, or even having needs in the first place!

By page 8, the tongue is now firmly entrenched in the cheek, after slowly making its way in that direction for pages 1 - 7..

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besides, poking condoms is sooo 1990s. i think people are using turkey basters these days

Ok now the attention seeking part is seriously cracking me up...and exactly what would i be getting in return for getting attention from faceless, nameless people on the web? Im way too content in my life for that so sue me for posting that. I forced nobody to reply, all those who chose to did it at their own accord. Even if i didnt get any replies i would still be the same person i was before i posted, the replies dont boost anything in me. I feel all those things for this guy bcause that who i am and thats what is happening inside of me..the swirl of all kinds of different emotions @ different times depending on what is happening and im not gonna apologise for that. Im a human not a machine and its a human thing to have different feelings about certain events since feelings arent programmed, u get me? An ear infection may be normal to u, but it isnt to me and since my child is currently away from me even a cough from him will send me in a next bus to him- thats how much i love him. And im thinking bcause i can and since im not using your brain to do that i dont see why you are bothered about it. Yeah maybe he does deserve better and i hope he gets it too, you know. I am who i am and im not gonna be apologetic or ashamed of my shortcomings just bcause somebody else has a problem with it, I DO NOT FUCKING CARE. Good for u if u r a perfect human being, im not and im not bothered by that so i dont see why anybody else is

Melly, lol, please. Your posts arent worth my time, so i'll pretend i didnt see them. You are so confident of the crap that u r writing that its laughable..your little analysis didnt even come close, but thanks for trying and for giving me the sooo much needed attention. Psssh..

You talk about your emotions and not being a machine, well being a scorp your unlucky man has a hell of a lot more emotions than you have and you are happily playing with them, and if you can't even begin to try to see how he would be effected by your choice to spend the night in your ex's house then you should just leave him alone, and LOL at ear infection normal to me, I have a real sick child but I trust his father to take care of him when he has another episode, i'm not perfect and I know it so I also know that he doesn't need his mother their professing her love by her mere prescence when he is in the capable hands of his father, sounds like an excuse to me, and it probably did to the scorpio too. Also sounds like you don't trust your ex-husband either to take care of his own child when he has a simple infection. You are beyond help.

Elle, no thanks to cancer and pisces. Like i mentioned earlier today, i've been thinking about everything said to me yesterday and have decided to end things with him..but only after his party since i dont wanna spoil his day for him, didnt u read what i said? The other air signs 'support' me bcause they know how we process things (which is btw different from how u guys do it) and they are also in the same boat as me regarding scorps- they are relating, not supporting as u put. Lou 'supported' u guys to bcause her pisces sun relates to the emotionalism of scorps..how is air sign support different from water sign support and why is it weird for them to support me when other water signs can pitch in and support scorps?

Celtic, thanks doctor, about the seeking help part, but i'll seek 2nd opinion if its ok with u. YOU have a sickly child, *I* dont, my child never gets sick, he is a lively little aries so when he does get sick of course i freak out bcause it doesnt happen often..and to top it all im away from him to know the seriousness of his infection- i had to be there to see it for myself. My husband didnt know what to do either since the child never gets sick..if he did i was there to deal with it and now im not and the child gets sick..i dont blame him for his confusion since its all new to him. I just had to be there no matter what. And i dont really care now about how deep scorps feel, not my problem anymore..so he can feel as much as he wants now since that chapter is about to close.

Elle, im just not dealing with this anymore..maybe i am 'toying' with his emotions but that wasnt my intention and to prevent any more harm i'll take the 'fuck him' approach and just float away. I'll still do it after the party thou bcause thats when i feel like doing it and i will deal with whatever outcome

Oh my god some of you need to shut up. Getting all emo about this crap. Seriously. None of you really know what is going on and assuming all this bullshit about nothing. It's amazing how some peoples emotions get so tied up that they literally believe whatever fantastical story they come up with.

Let's look at the facts. Let me repeat. FACTS. This goes for you water signs, since you simply just like to ignore them entirely and omit them.

1. She's going through a divorce. That to me means she's free game. FREE GAME. Obviously emotional ties have been cut. If you're an ex that should mean just that, AN EX.

2. Her recent conquest (Scorpio) obviously has insecurity issues which is NOT her issue. It's his. It's his responsibility to man the F up and calm down.

3. So she went to her exes house for her son. Ok. That doesn't mean she's over there being a hoe bag and sexing this other dude up.

I read over her paragraph again previously and it's all very vague. So how are some of you coming up with some crazy ass stories? With no facts to back it up? All we know is a generalized idea about what is going on.

Watercup - I guess my advice would be to you (as another air sign) is how much are you willing to put up with? Are you willing to be his emotional crutch? Are you willing to soothe these insecurities? To me it's a second job and I'm not really willing to compromise with someone that is that insecure. As much as we would all like to come with no baggage I know that is impossible.

But when something is hashed out over a period of time as in even if you constantly told him and did everything you could to try to dismiss those doubts he has about himself, it's not going to do any good. This is HIS problem. Not yours. It's all about perception. You could go to a girlfriends house and he would think "she's cheating on me", or you could go on a FAMILY vacation with your immediate family and all the sudden "she skipped town to work at a strip club" doesn't matter. You see what im saying?

Xin..its all his(tory) to me now, i just couldnt be arsed about it anymore...its too much work and im lazy. I almost gave myself a stroke thinking about it the whole night, im too young to be on disability bcause of stroke paralyses so i stopped and said 'fuck it'. I feel relieved already and life will resume as usual. It was cool while it lasted, but again all good things come to an end. Im fine and will continue being fine.

Posted by WaterCup
Xin..its all his(tory) to me now, i just couldnt be arsed about it anymore...its too much work and im lazy. I almost gave myself a stroke thinking about it the whole night, im too young to be on disability bcause of stroke paralyses so i stopped and said 'fuck it'. I feel relieved already and life will resume as usual. It was cool while it lasted, but again all good things come to an end. Im fine and will continue being fine.

I know right. That's why I said what I did in my last paragraph. Too much work for me. I think about these things too, to an alarming degree but that is what goes on in our heads.

Spoken like a true air sign. NEXT. Roll in the stand-ins. I mean no reason to stick around when they aren't acting right. I hate to be the one....wait no I don't LOL! Yeah ill be the one to be in everyone's face about this stuff, don't care. If you aren't acting right you aren't acting right, period. You're gone. NEXT.

Lol @ 'NEXT'. Its not how i do it personally. Right this moment im turned off relationships and it will take a while bfore 'stella gets her groove back'. This relati?nship stuff is just not for me as much as i try to make it be, it just isnt. Im too my own person to just magically change over night, at this moment in my life im NOT willing to and its not about to change any time soon. It feels unnatural to me when i have to alter myself so i'll stick to being natural and stop striving to be a plastic barbie for the sake of getting along. I am done

Understood. For me it's like that especially when I am on my last leg with them. Of course I shouldn't say that entirely because of the Scorpio I let get to me, but right now I am very angry with him, so NEXT is easy to say (at this moment). But I totally understand.

I wish i could say NEXT as fast as u could, lol. The thing with me is this, if i end a relationship then enter another in quick succession i come with little tolerance for bs as is proof now with mr.scorp. Most of my previous ones ive waited it out to calm down and be more friendlier. Dont know why i rushed so much this time, bt the transition with the ex came too easily and i was bored wanting companionship and he was there..

Elle, what, who is leaving? Im in this forum to stay, its too nice and cozy here i like it. If i leave it will be for a very short vacation, not for good. Never!

Yeah I know. That's why I am taking some time out right now not looking for anyone. I am in a very crappy position emotionally and mentally right now so I have no business dating either.

Elle, (;

Xin, its time for us to breathe, breathe in the element that rules us. Being with a scorp actually feels like wearing a corset (a very tight one at that), its sexy..but u cant breathe. Hahaha

^^^ +1

Posted by WaterCup
MrFire, im waiting for his birthday party to pass, when he is relaxed and more attentive then i'll break it down to him. I dont want misunderstandings or to spoil his special day for him. I've been doing a lot of thinking since yesterday, went throu everything said here over and over again in my mind and a split sounds more attractive the more i think about it. Im tired..

Someone could write a song with that approach....

Happy Birthday, Babaaaaay,
Tomorrow's a new day to shine,
Yesterday's was your day,
How could you be so blind?
You're on your own, now and tomorrow is mine!

But this song is probably more apropos. The only question is, who is really singin' it?

Probably the one who can sing, i cant sing to save my life and am not sure about his vocal abilities. The only plaussible answer is...IDOLS?

Hey now.. that's WAYLON. Don't be hatin' on Waylon. *arms crossed*

Posted by Nefer
Hey now.. that's WAYLON. Don't be hatin' on Waylon. *arms crossed*

Hoss, to the uninitiated.

😉