Should I question my equation with a Scorp?

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Mountain_crab
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Guys, just need to ask whether I should ever straight up go and ask a Scorpio about where we stand and if he sees a long term future for us? So, I’m dating one since 6 months now and it’s great. He makes me feel like we are married already. I have zero doubts about his loyalty or love, he’s pretty devoted and always there. But neither of us has talked about the future... I’d really like to, since I’m serious about this.. but he’s a couple of years younger, so I’m not sure. I know he loves me, he’s been there enough, for me to know it’s beyond words. But still, should I rock the boat? I don’t wanna mess up stuff, or be pushy, cuz I’m the happiest with him around & things are as good as it gets. Please, any advice would be great!
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Girl dont start tip toeing your feelings already! If you wanna know, ask! You could wait until maybe a tender moment comes up and slide in, "What do think about a future with me in it? What are your thoughts? Bc I love this and I feel like you do too." I think they kind of like to be claimed so to speak, so make it clear you pick him for the long haul and ask if he is feeling the same. There is no harm in expressing your feelings for him as long as you dont put too much pressure on him. There really is no rush if you two are happy how things are. But its nice to know you are on the same wavelength, and a good way to find out if you are unsure is to talk about it. Ive found Scorpio men really appreciate a strong woman so expressing your passion could only be positive I would think. Best wishes!
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Posted by Mountain_crab

Guys, just need to ask whether I should ever straight up go and ask a Scorpio about where we stand and if he sees a long term future for us? So, I’m dating one since 6 months now and it’s great. He makes me feel like we are married already. I have zero doubts about his loyalty or love, he’s pretty devoted and always there. But neither of us has talked about the future... I’d really like to, since I’m serious about this.. but he’s a couple of years younger, so I’m not sure. I know he loves me, he’s been there enough, for me to know it’s beyond words. But still, should I rock the boat? I don’t wanna mess up stuff, or be pushy, cuz I’m the happiest with him around & things are as good as it gets. Please, any advice would be great!


how do YOU see the future? you want to talk about it and asking him, but you dont articulate what you want. You only say you are serious about this

what does it mean? to be exclusive, to be official, to be girlfriend-boyfriend, to have children, to apply for mortgage together, to get married? - what?

why after only 6 monthg together where he proved he is a loving partner you want to rush things? he is not all that loving after all and didnt prove himself?