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You get the silent treatment, the gem is getting sex from your love. Sounds like he's winning this battle. Which actually is really crazy because from what I hear he is fat, and stupid, and ugly. And he has no personality and he's weak. And he's probably abusive. And he's narcissistic. And after all that, he's STILL GOT THE GIRL. Damn... you must really suck if you're losing to that.
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Posted by Shruikan
You get the silent treatment, the gem is getting sex from your love. Sounds like he's winning this battle. Which actually is really crazy because from what I hear he is fat, and stupid, and ugly. And he has no personality and he's weak. And he's probably abusive. And he's narcissistic. And after all that, he's STILL GOT THE GIRL. Damn... you must really suck if you're losing to that.

how embarrassing.
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I get the silent treatment when things are not going well in her life, pretty sure she's realizing money doesn't make happiness. Don't blame me because you're unhappy, I get blamed for enough things.

I challenge her, I've always have since we met, she doesn't push me around. She gets mad stops talking to me for a little while she comes back again. When I start giving her the silent treatment she gets hurt feelings then it turns into a vicious cycle.

She is the only female friend I get the silent treatment from I don't get it, either there is some feelings involved or its a Scorpio thing. I have lots of female friends none of them get angry with me like the Scorpio.

She lets things slide with everybody else why in the hell does she single me out.

Like said I should be used to the silent treatment by now.




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Posted by Stihl46
Gotta love getting the silent treatment from a Scorpio they get all pissy and pretend you don't exist. I'd think I would be used to it by now. Really makes a person think if Scorpios are even worth all the drama.

I can see some truth to the stories I've read about relationships with Scorpios.



What you post says more about you than about her.

Scorpio women are very soft spoken and gentle with someone they like - not aloof.
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She usually is soft spoken around me she literally whispers I have to ask her to repeat what she says at times. Her voice changes tone around me it's soft, around others she's loud. That was the first thing I noticed with her around me the pitch of her voice changes. That's why I've said she gets quiet as a church mouse with me.

When her and I are alone together its like we are BF/GF she is totally different with me than others.
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Posted by Shruikan
You get the silent treatment, the gem is getting sex from your love. Sounds like he's winning this battle. Which actually is really crazy because from what I hear he is fat, and stupid, and ugly. And he has no personality and he's weak. And he's probably abusive. And he's narcissistic. And after all that, he's STILL GOT THE GIRL. Damn... you must really suck if you're losing to that.



Tis a pity, right? At that rate, I think my horse might have more of a chance with her than this guy.
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Posted by Stihl46
I get the silent treatment when things are not going well in her life, pretty sure she's realizing money doesn't make happiness. Don't blame me because you're unhappy, I get blamed for enough things.

I challenge her, I've always have since we met, she doesn't push me around. She gets mad stops talking to me for a little while she comes back again. When I start giving her the silent treatment she gets hurt feelings then it turns into a vicious cycle.

She is the only female friend I get the silent treatment from I don't get it, either there is some feelings involved or its a Scorpio thing. I have lots of female friends none of them get angry with me like the Scorpio.

She lets things slide with everybody else why in the hell does she single me out.

Like said I should be used to the silent treatment by now.




BWAHAHAHAHA!!! This is some funny shit! ~wipes away laughter tears~
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Posted by Stihl46
She speaks softly around me 90% of the time. When her voice raises when she's telling me a story. I've noticed when she talks to he BF she has the same high pitched voice when she talks to other guys.

When her voice is soft she's acting submissive with me. She even talks softly when we are on the phone.



oh gods, can I barf now? I'm sorry, but this is so insulting to all the wonderfully strong, opinionated, independent Scorpio women that I know.

Scorpio gals, can I use him to clean my horse corrals with? The first human pooper scooper!
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How much money have you spent on this chick, Stihl?



When it comes to money with her and I she pays me back her, BF on the other hand I think he just dropped 2 grand on her. In the last little while he's probably spent 3000 dollars on her he likes to flaunt he has money its all he's got in his life is money. He thinks its normal for a guy to buy his girlfriend what ever she wants. She's not materialistic, he is, he has to have the latest and greatest when she gives X-mas gifts they are homemade.

Pretty sad to think he needs money to compensate for the things lacking in his life, myself on the other hand money is evil, you don't need money to be happy, money doesn't buy happiness and it never will.

Money doesn't make her happy what makes her happy is understand her, listen to her, be there for her, take interest in what she's interested in, she's intellectual she's a wealth of knowledge her and I can talk about various subjects. He doesn't listen to her because he is so starved for attention he wants to dominate conversations he does it with the guys. He would rather spend hours on the couch watching TV she's not into that she likes doing things, he's admitted he is lazy,he will tell you about the latest and greatest TV show.

What makes her really happy is when you learn something from her she likes showing her knowledge she's always trying to impress me with what she knows. Ya I doubt her at times she tries damn hard to prove to me that she can do it. She watches me like a hawk when I'm doing something she doesn't understand she wants to learn or I give her a basic run down and tell her go try it. She gets excited when she learns something new, she's always wanting to further her education and skills.

She loves trying to prove me wrong she knows it gets my goat especially with something I think I know as much as her but she has to prove I don't she has to leave the evidence so I can see she's one upped me.

I'm a Jack of all trades she is a Jill of all trades her BF is not he's only had one career in his life he's only focused on one thing its all he can do. He isn't interested in broadening his skills he has no goals or ambitions he plans on working in the same job till he retires. The job pays him a decent salary he doesn't want any other job.

You really wonder how opposites attract he's totally opposite of her I think she'
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Posted by capricornmoon
What did you do to get the silent treatment? The thing with scorpios is that you have to do something wrong to them that they know is a factual, tangible fact, not those other water signs that live in their heads and perceive you did them wrong. Scorpios hAve evidence of being done wrong, which is why they react the way they do. The other person at the receiving end of the silent treatment rarely own they're wrong doing.



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Posted by Arielle83
Ermm money does buy happiness. You need money to eat, to have a place to sleep, to clothe your body. If you had no money you'd be a naked, tired starving man and your 'friend' would def not take notice of you, or she'd check you into a shelter with some hand me downs.
You seem to exist in another realm of desperation. Ive had male friends who have put my bfs down only to discover their ulterior motives. Your behaviour is self fullfilling and toxic. Do you not see how green with envy you are? The nice guy act is just that, an act.



Ya I know you need money but I don't crave money there is more to life than money.
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I haven't read your other threads, this is the first I have stumbled across, but from what others have said, I think it is safe to assume this isn't your first about this woman.

To be honest I don't believe half of what you are saying, I think you might be delusional. As a scorpio, with my sun, moon, mercury and pluto in scorpio, there is no way in hell I would be having as much chit chat and hang times with another man if I was in a relationship. On top of that, you seem like a nutbar who most likely has some creepy room with a shrine dedicated to this girl. I pray to the universe that she stumbles across this page and uses her intuitive powers to figure out that this is you so she can get that restraining order (and a weapon just in case you choose to ignore that piece of paper) before she ends up in a body bag.

You??ve got me so creeped out, I had to think twice about posting this just in case you some how manage to track me down and turn me into victim number two *Shivers*
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Stihl46,


I am laughing now. I think you spend tooo much with that Scorp chicks and she didn't pay back.

now you are a bitter person. You don't love her. You are just obsessed with her. Set yourself free.

Cry it loud... cry cry cry until you realized how hard you are for yourself. Be gentle to yourself.

love yourself if somebody rejected you... it's not your loss. Think like an alpha male.
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Posted by Stihl46
Posted by KVZZMIR11
How much money have you spent on this chick, Stihl?
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When it comes to money with her and I she pays me back her, BF on the other hand I think he just dropped 2 grand on her. In the last little while he's probably spent 3000 dollars on her he likes to flaunt he has money its all he's got in his life is money. He thinks its normal for a guy to buy his girlfriend what ever she wants. She's not materialistic, he is, he has to have the latest and greatest when she gives X-mas gifts they are homemade.

Pretty sad to think he needs money to compensate for the things lacking in his life, myself on the other hand money is evil, you don't need money to be happy, money doesn't buy happiness and it never will.

Money doesn't make her happy what makes her happy is understand her, listen to her, be there for her, take interest in what she's interested in, she's intellectual she's a wealth of knowledge her and I can talk about various subjects. He doesn't listen to her because he is so starved for attention he wants to dominate conversations he does it with the guys. He would rather spend hours on the couch watching TV she's not into that she likes doing things, he's admitted he is lazy,he will tell you about the latest and greatest TV show.

What makes her really happy is when you learn something from her she likes showing her knowledge she's always trying to impress me with what she knows. Ya I doubt her at times she tries damn hard to prove to me that she can do it. She watches me like a hawk when I'm doing something she doesn't understand she wants to learn or I give her a basic run down and tell her go try it. She gets excited when she learns something new, she's always wanting to further her education and skills.

She loves trying to prove me wrong she knows it gets my goat especially with something I think I know as much as her but she has to prove I don't she has to leave the evidence so I can see she's one upped me.

I'm a Jack of all trades she is a Jill of all trades her BF is not he's only had one career in his life he's only focused on one thing its all he can do. He isn't interested in broadening his skills he has no goals or ambitions he plans on working in the same job till he retires. The job pays him a decent salary he doesn't want any
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Not sure if you have heard about dating woman dog owners? If you haven't read about it, women that own dogs love their dogs a lot if you don't love her dog as much as she does the relationship won't do well. My friend is a dog owner she loves her dog it is part of her life a woman will put her dog first if you don't like her dog. This is the case with her relationship with the Gem guy he is second best to her dog she says it will never change. He hates the dog he hates animals in general he's pretended to have a gun in his hand shooting at other peoples dogs. He won't pet other peoples dogs he won't go near them.

She knows I'm an animal lover she's watched me numerous times play with other peoples dogs she smiles ear to ear. Her dog loves me you want to see a girl tear up love her dog as much as she does. She is a girl that lets her dog sleep in bed with her she is always covered in dog hair she is a woman dog owner. She's always had a dog she loves them she talks about animals.

When I owned a dog he slept on my bed so did my cat, when I used to look after a friends dogs 130 pound dog with a 10 pound dog and 2 cats used to sleep on the bed I slept on. I love animals I always have I just don't have the time to own a dog.

What will end her relationship with the Gem guy is his hate for animals her dog is a big sore point for him. He's second best to the dog, he craves attention so bad he's okay being second best to her dog.

So what do you think of a guy that is second best to a dog, I believe her when she says she loves her dog more than him. I never said about this before gotta leave the good thing to last.

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Posted by Stihl46
Not sure if you have heard about dating woman dog owners? If you haven't read about it, women that own dogs love their dogs a lot if you don't love her dog as much as she does the relationship won't do well. My friend is a dog owner she loves her dog it is part of her life a woman will put her dog first if you don't like her dog. This is the case with her relationship with the Gem guy he is second best to her dog she says it will never change. He hates the dog he hates animals in general he's pretended to have a gun in his hand shooting at other peoples dogs. He won't pet other peoples dogs he won't go near them.

She knows I'm an animal lover she's watched me numerous times play with other peoples dogs she smiles ear to ear. Her dog loves me you want to see a girl tear up love her dog as much as she does. She is a girl that lets her dog sleep in bed with her she is always covered in dog hair she is a woman dog owner. She's always had a dog she loves them she talks about animals.

When I owned a dog he slept on my bed so did my cat, when I used to look after a friends dogs 130 pound dog with a 10 pound dog and 2 cats used to sleep on the bed I slept on. I love animals I always have I just don't have the time to own a dog.

What will end her relationship with the Gem guy is his hate for animals her dog is a big sore point for him. He's second best to the dog, he craves attention so bad he's okay being second best to her dog.

So what do you think of a guy that is second best to a dog, I believe her when she says she loves her dog more than him. I never said about this before gotta leave the good thing to last.






OMG. you really messed up yourself with that chick. Go take shower and go out.. drinks some too

and when you go home. I hope you'll be alright if you can't then just CRY OUT LOUD.

Scorpio don't look back. It hurts us. but that's the only way we have.

You'll be fine soon.
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Yes she is 9 years younger than me. I don't look my age I've never smoked and I live healthy life style so my facial complexion is good and I have a full head of hair. I have young women flirting with me I back off its un-comfortable to have 18 year old girls flirting. When you live a healthier life style you are able to keep a youthful look.

Her BF he's not so healthy the stress is getting to him he's sucking back the coffin nails. His facial complexion is horrible, I see more wrinkles now than ever. He's got blood pressure issues, red blotches all over his face. He doesn't dare quit smoking or he will gain more weight than he has now. He looks 10 years older than he really is.

When he met her he had a youthful look he was fairly slim he looked healthy. He "acted" like a confident man he was charming. The facade ended he's back being weak and needy. Oh boy doesn't that turn a girl on seeing her man change from a guy who she thought he was to a guy he really is.

Watch Corey Wayne's videos on youtube about weak and needy men its the biggest turn off for women. He also talks about never change yourself to get a girl.

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Posted by Stihl46
Not sure if you have heard about dating woman dog owners? If you haven't read about it, women that own dogs love their dogs a lot if you don't love her dog as much as she does the relationship won't do well. My friend is a dog owner she loves her dog it is part of her life a woman will put her dog first if you don't like her dog. This is the case with her relationship with the Gem guy he is second best to her dog she says it will never change. He hates the dog he hates animals in general he's pretended to have a gun in his hand shooting at other peoples dogs. He won't pet other peoples dogs he won't go near them.

She knows I'm an animal lover she's watched me numerous times play with other peoples dogs she smiles ear to ear. Her dog loves me you want to see a girl tear up love her dog as much as she does. She is a girl that lets her dog sleep in bed with her she is always covered in dog hair she is a woman dog owner. She's always had a dog she loves them she talks about animals.

When I owned a dog he slept on my bed so did my cat, when I used to look after a friends dogs 130 pound dog with a 10 pound dog and 2 cats used to sleep on the bed I slept on. I love animals I always have I just don't have the time to own a dog.

What will end her relationship with the Gem guy is his hate for animals her dog is a big sore point for him. He's second best to the dog, he craves attention so bad he's okay being second best to her dog.

So what do you think of a guy that is second best to a dog, I believe her when she says she loves her dog more than him. I never said about this before gotta leave the good thing to last.





You should try dating her dog. You might have better luck. Unless a more career driven dog takes that from you as well.
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Not sure if you have heard about dating woman dog owners? If you haven't read about it, women that own dogs love their dogs a lot if you don't love her dog as much as she does the relationship won't do well. My friend is a dog owner she loves her dog it is part of her life a woman will put her dog first if you don't like her dog. This is the case with her relationship with the Gem guy he is second best to her dog she says it will never change. He hates the dog he hates animals in general he's pretended to have a gun in his hand shooting at other peoples dogs. He won't pet other peoples dogs he won't go near them.

She knows I'm an animal lover she's watched me numerous times play with other peoples dogs she smiles ear to ear. Her dog loves me you want to see a girl tear up love her dog as much as she does. She is a girl that lets her dog sleep in bed with her she is always covered in dog hair she is a woman dog owner. She's always had a dog she loves them she talks about animals.

When I owned a dog he slept on my bed so did my cat, when I used to look after a friends dogs 130 pound dog with a 10 pound dog and 2 cats used to sleep on the bed I slept on. I love animals I always have I just don't have the time to own a dog.

What will end her relationship with the Gem guy is his hate for animals her dog is a big sore point for him. He's second best to the dog, he craves attention so bad he's okay being second best to her dog.

So what do you think of a guy that is second best to a dog, I believe her when she says she loves her dog more than him. I never said about this before gotta leave the good thing to last.





You should try dating her dog. You might have better luck. Unless a more career driven dog takes that from you as well.
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She knows I love animals just as much as she does.
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He's going to ignore these remarks and jump right back into an update/repeat bitch n whine fest about how she melts and talks like a mouse around him, how the Gem bf is sooo intimidated by him, how all the women in the world that he ever meets all want to be with him, how strong and in shape he is, how he's the perfect catch compared to the loser bf who actually HAS a real gf. Psychic Bambie has spoken. 😛
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Posted by Stihl46
Yes she is 9 years younger than me. I don't look my age I've never smoked and I live healthy life style so my facial complexion is good and I have a full head of hair. I have young women flirting with me I back off its un-comfortable to have 18 year old girls flirting. When you live a healthier life style you are able to keep a youthful look.

Her BF he's not so healthy the stress is getting to him he's sucking back the coffin nails. His facial complexion is horrible, I see more wrinkles now than ever. He's got blood pressure issues, red blotches all over his face. He doesn't dare quit smoking or he will gain more weight than he has now. He looks 10 years older than he really is.

When he met her he had a youthful look he was fairly slim he looked healthy. He "acted" like a confident man he was charming. The facade ended he's back being weak and needy. Oh boy doesn't that turn a girl on seeing her man change from a guy who she thought he was to a guy he really is.

Watch Corey Wayne's videos on youtube about weak and needy men its the biggest turn off for women. He also talks about never change yourself to get a girl.




I don't wonder why you kept chasing her and day dreaming of that Scorp chic. My aqua ex for 10 years kept
chasing me until this year. Go figure. It was 10 yrs since I left him. We had 5 yrs miserable life together.
I walked away with forgiveness telling him How sorry I was but I cannot do it.

Did he listened? No.
Is he bitter? Yes.

Why Scorpio leave? Because It's not working anymore. We already did our BEST. now, if it happens that our
partner is a late bloomer then we don't give any consideration. The back & forth thing for a Scorpio is
to see if there is a * chance* if not, then we burn even bridges that keep us crossing the road.
It hurts. It's painful. Yes the same thing you did to a Scorpio.

All I can say. Forgive yourself and find way to make yourself look better.
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A couple buddies of mine were asking about her BF they met him, they know her, they asked me about his age I told them. The look on their faces was priceless they thought he's in his 40s, nope, I told them his age they couldn't believe it. They said he looks older than us, my buddies are the same age as me,they asked is he a heavy drinker? I asked why? they said he has red blotches on his face it's a sign of heavy drinking. I said he smokes, his face is covered in wrinkles it makes him look really old. He has a re-ceeding hair line he tries to hide with a crew cut there isn't much left on top. They asked the question I get from everybody what does she see in him? all I can say is I don't know.

They were on a trip together he usually likes to talk about his trips with the guys he works with he's not saying a word I don't think things went well. A few days before her and I had a spat she takes her displeasure out on him when she's angry at me it soured their trip.

Not my problem if she is un-happy with her personal life, I'm happy with mine, I have my health back, I feel great I've been told I look great feels good to be called hansom. Get complimented by people know me tell me I look great, the ones that knew me before I let my health slip are happy to see I'm back, I've always been a healthy powerful man.

She had her chance to get a job she could live with her BF and live happily ever after she gave that up, she kept her job to work in the same company with me so she better get used to being with me I'm not going anywhere. She says she doesn't want to live with him if she truly loved him she would want to live with him and spend as much time she can with him. Her long term plans don't include him she sticks to her plans.

She is unhappy the guy she met is changing nothing I can do about it I knew it was going to happen men than change to get a woman always change back.

One of his changes is turning back to the 350 pound man he was when I met him 5 years ago, he needed to lose over 100 pounds to keep his job so he did. When he met her he was 190-200 pounds he looked healthy, now he is 250 pounds now 1.5 years later dating her. He will be 300 pounds in no time he keeps gaining weight you would think a guy with an attractive girl would be keeping himself in shape.

She likes slim and fit guys she was attracted to him because he was slim and fit he isn't slim or fit anymore he's getting fat. The guys she flirts with are slim and fit, her ex
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