So what happen?

We introduce ourselves via text, get to kind of know each other, say we can't wait to meet in person so we set a date, send selfies - both really like what they saw, flirt and be charming...great! She says "text me later k? 🙂"

I text her the next day, no responds. Two days pass, I text her "How you been", no response... The day of our date I texted "Do we need to reschedule?" Nothing! It's been two weeks and Im certain it's no more lol. So anyway, in just truly amazed with you scorp chicks, truly dumbfounded to make me believe i might have found something great. Bravo ladies.

I wouldn't put to much stock into it. I thought ladies were like this around my way. I guess they the same all over. Just chalk it up and do you, is all I can say.

is this through online dating?

maybe she had cold feet or was nervous??

What happen?

Sounds like someone set us up the bomb.

We get signal!

Main screen turn on!!!

@ OP,

You just experienced what 99/100 girls do to men these days.

97 more letdowns to go, and then you will finally meet one that isn't a damn idiot and actuallyfollows through with what they speak of.

Oh come on SF! 99% of the whinging on DXP is because a man of whichever astrological flavour happens to do a disappearing act/ slow fade or go incommunicado to a woman...

Unfortunately dating these days seems like a whole game of snakes and ladders, and neither sex is playing fair.

I don't know what the answer is but I can assure you that women have to trawl through 99 idiots too 😛

Hey yo, all I know is that my Taurus is on again and off again due to her incessant need for contact with psychopaths, the girls I talk to are fickle weirdos who dont follow through with jack shit, and I feel like I am speaking a lost and archaic langiage when I mention the fact that I want marriage and babies on the online forums such as DXP.

😢

Posted by LilliLou
is this through online dating?

maybe she had cold feet or was nervous??

No it was my friend introducing me to his friend-friend lol. He gave me her number, and kept telling me she was waiting for my response, so I did!

I'm over it, if she does reply I'll ignore it because a huge disappearing act like that, is something I don't want to deal with from a day-day basis.

Posted by ScorpioFish
@ OP,

You just experienced what 99/100 girls do to men these days.

97 more letdowns to go, and then you will finally meet one that isn't a damn idiot and actuallyfollows through with what they speak of.

Women these days are real bitches. Everything's a game, and if you don't play their game, they'll leave your ass. I'm 24, I got my career, and I'm ready to start a family. But WTF is wrong with these women this generation, I was stupid to believe that they would have matured as they got older...

Posted by Kalvinhere

Posted by ScorpioFish
@ OP,

You just experienced what 99/100 girls do to men these days.

97 more letdowns to go, and then you will finally meet one that isn't a damn idiot and actuallyfollows through with what they speak of.

Women these days are real bitches. Everything's a game, and if you don't play their game, they'll leave your ass. I'm 24, I got my career, and I'm ready to start a family. But WTF is wrong with these women this generation, I was stupid to believe that they would have matured as they got older...

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Women these days are real bitches? Perhaps her Scorpy intuition tuned her into your poor attitude. She shouldn't have left you hanging, I agree that much. A simple decline to talk anymore would have been good. But point number 1, you'll never find the wife you so desire with this attitude!

Umm OP, 24 isn't old!!! But it is hard if you are ahead of your peers in that regard. It is a shame she's proven to be fickle but I doubt you'll have another 97 to go.

Also, look at it this way; you've gotten off lightly. Imagine if you were a year into the relationship and about to propose and she disappeared.

What is your sun sign OP?

And scorpiofish, in my 30's and would love to meet the right man, settle down and have babies too- so I don't think you are odd. I just think relationships are difficult and meeting the right person at the right time seems nearly impossible!!! But still hoping for a minor miracle

Posted by Kalvinhere
We introduce ourselves via text, get to kind of know each other, say we can't wait to meet in person so we set a date, send selfies - both really like what they saw, flirt and be charming...great! She says "text me later k? 🙂"

I text her the next day, no responds. Two days pass, I text her "How you been", no response... The day of our date I texted "Do we need to reschedule?" Nothing! It's been two weeks and Im certain it's no more lol. So anyway, in just truly amazed with you scorp chicks, truly dumbfounded to make me believe i might have found something great. Bravo ladies.

smfh..
So..let me get this straight. You text someone who you haven't met in person, believe that in fact this person is even a female based off a picture, and then decide to assume all the real life Scorpio's are like this? Bravo jackass. Think before you assume.

Posted by Kalvinhere

No it was my friend introducing me to his friend-friend lol. He gave me her number, and kept telling me she was waiting for my response, so I did!

I'm over it, if she does reply I'll ignore it because a huge disappearing act like that, is something I don't want to deal with from a day-day basis.

LOL..So your friend hands you a piece of paper with a phone number on it and you decide to text instead of call? I'd disappear too. If a phone number came from a trusted friend who knows this female, AND she was standing by..why not dial it?

Posted by LilliLou
Umm OP, 24 isn't old!!! But it is hard if you are ahead of your peers in that regard. It is a shame she's proven to be fickle but I doubt you'll have another 97 to go.

Also, look at it this way; you've gotten off lightly. Imagine if you were a year into the relationship and about to propose and she disappeared.

What is your sun sign OP?

And scorpiofish, in my 30's and would love to meet the right man, settle down and have babies too- so I don't think you are odd. I just think relationships are difficult and meeting the right person at the right time seems nearly impossible!!! But still hoping for a minor miracle

Leo sun, cancer moon, aries rising.

I've always been the type to want to start a family a.s.a.p haha. It's fine though, it's already history to me. I've done this type of meetNgreet before, it's just this one seemed so promising! So I blamed her sign, which was the easy route 😛

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Posted by Kalvinhere

No it was my friend introducing me to his friend-friend lol. He gave me her number, and kept telling me she was waiting for my response, so I did!

I'm over it, if she does reply I'll ignore it because a huge disappearing act like that, is something I don't want to deal with from a day-day basis.

LOL..So your friend hands you a piece of paper with a phone number on it and you decide to text instead of call? I'd disappear too. If a phone number came from a trusted friend who knows this female, AND she was standing by..why not dial it?

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All I can say is, what kind of friends did you have—

Maybe I should have called, but at the moment I felt like it was unnecessary - mostly because we agreed on a date to meet.

I would never just disappear on someone. If I wasn't feeling it I'd find a polite way to let you know. However it seems men and women alike are guilty of the disappearing act these days. I don't understand it but I have experienced it and many of my single friends have too.

Was your selfie of you cock?? Biggest turnoff in my book when a man does this, and these days it happens way before some are ready to see it!!

I'm just curious OP, do you come from a large town/city or a small one?

I ask because I'm wondering if the quality of people you date depends on location. Like for instance if you are located in an asian country like China you are more likely to find a women who will cling to you like no other and they are very loyal, but also very jealous. Obviously that's due to culture, but the location in which YOU live will probably determine why you keep running into girls like this...or why anyone runs into people like this. Just a thought..