The Bitter End

Scorpios are famous for the "sex" aspect of the signs. Is this just your main way of expressing interest/affection/love, and how can you tell between sex as a positive expression and just another booty call?

Sorry, Sagi, not sure I got the best buddy comment.

Even after things go down, the way you will know if he is REALLY interested is if he tells you and show you there are other things about you they love and admire besides your PARTS.... LOL!!!

When they say things like. "I just want to be around you" can you guys go on dates without having sex? Like he drops you off and kisses you and go home? Does he talk to his friends about youj etc?

Oh dear, I meant this as a general observation. I'd love to titillate you with details about me and some hot Scorp man (oh wait, I can), but alas, it's nothing specific. It's just tough to tell with Scorps b/c the sex and intimacy bit can get all tangled up, esp. when they are talking about your parts 🙂 and that's their way of saying "i like you." What does drive me crazy is a man who says, your breasts look appealing, and nothing about personality/brains/etc., i.e. no real compliments, and then later a friend says, hey, he thinks you're (fill in nice compliment). I just think Scorps are passive-aggressive.

I find Aqua men to be passive as well (not too hot on the aggressive side, unfortunately).

I agree that what drives the P-A is wanting to please the other person even if it goes against his (selfish) nature. I remember joking with a friend of mine, why are you suddenly always agreeing with me? when we would often spar and fight. i could tell he wanted to avoid conflict, but i really (to this day) don't know why. he tries very hard to be nice to me, but then, boy when he's mad at me, watch out!

Spot on, Sagi! The guy who made that comment WAS 40 going on 18....

LOL Sagigoat, I only ever seem to meet the unevolved men in their forties of any sign! I'm not sure it's fair to blame Scorpios on this one.

I'm beginning to understand the whole toyboy thing a lot better these days; it's less about their bodies and more about their maturity compared with men my age! lol

That's sort of how I was thinking... lol

No kidding, SG - bundle of contradictions!

I did give this Scorp an ultimatum, and I have yet to hear a reply -- famous Scorp retreat! 🙂

I know scorp women's word is our bond. The men in my experience, not always.