This sting is destroying me! (Page 4)

Hey juicy!

Hi Juice box!

ok, thanks Pluto!

Kavi,

What brought you to the boards? Relationships?

General curiosity...been reading posts for a while and became interested- great place to just chat with people from all over....it's interesting to hear people's opinions on things- good to get a different perspective, ya know?

I like how it's like a small community

Yep I am

where?

No

hi hi hi hi everyone

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Hi Juicy I thought you and Schoen had ran off and pm'ed each other all night!

oh no i'm here... i'm just sleeeeeepy

Where are you K? in NV? in OR? in WA? Where——?

OK, everyone is going sleepytime now. It's getting quiet. How was your strawberry zin, Juicy?

Juwana- I want to keep that on the downlow until we all know each other better- nothing personal- I'm just a cautious kinda person 🙂 But west coast, yes 🙂

OH, ok. I wouldn't want someone like Brahn from GA to stalk you or anything. By the way, I'm from Vegas. Come find me if you can! LOL

Pluto, you live a fucked up life!! Good luck with that!

Right on! I love Vegas! I know I've read some posts that are kinda scary! But yall seem great!

Promise I won't keep my location in the dark for long 😉

Awww- let her bask for a while DB 🙂

Night m&m 🙂

Night! Really nice to meet yall- thanks for the hospitality DB and Juwana- gotta love those scorps!!

my bad m&m! I'll talk to ya later! night!

Saggit, I'm no scorpio. But I do know that, with this girl, your going to have to make some decisions. It sounds like your attracted to this girl, however, you like playing the class clown (being a sag, I can understand that). If you want to go on playing the clown, joking around all the time. Listen to the scorpios on this board and forget all about her. If you want to get serious, go for it! The first thing you have to do is set your mind on winning her. Make a decision! Do you want to go for it or not? (Despite all the obstacles that you think there are in the work place) A scorpio woman is never going to give you respect if you can't even decide if you want her! That would be first and foremost. If you do, let me know, and I'll give you some advise in winning her over. (Just a tip, be more positive about yourself. Don't let the fact that she's pretty make you feel you don't have a chance) In other words, Get cocky!

Well I got my chance to flirt with another chick in front of her today, at one of those office birthday party things.
A new girl that just started there, her checking me out, me checking her out, chatting a little, all the while in front of the scorp who was playing with her hair furiously, acting all ansy. This new girl followed me out after work, and I asked her for a cig and we talked for a little as the scorp came into the parking lot and stormed her way into the car. So whatever.

I took what Dancing Bread said to heart today, about not being the victim, I was apprehensive about going up there just to be ignored by this chick but I said fuck it, I'm going laugh and joke around with everyone like I did before this girl got into my brain. And I had a blast.

So thanks to you guys for helping me to laugh at this situation and giving me some perspective.

"Saggit, I'm no scorpio...."

Thanks sun. I did try to go for this chick. I asked her to lunch first. Later I asked her out for a drink. Then she told me she refuses to do anything that even resembles a date. I told her let's just call it two people hanging out. She said no no no that is a date we are friends.

Then she started making out with me and getting all over me. AT WORK. It made me feel weird. I was still into her, and we just started to be friends though, at work. Then a few weeks later the topic came up again. I won't date. Coming out of a relationship. I want to be friends. Just going around in circles. If a chick keeps telling me, I don't want to date, no dating we are friends, then I don't know how to handle that. How many times can I get rejected like that? She KNOWS I want her. And she's using that to beat me over the head. All she had to do was say let's get coffee after work or something, and I would have taken it from there. But she didn't.

She's ignored me for over a month. When she stopped coming down to visit, like a wuss I started going up to visit, which I never did, and she just gave me a dirty look. I saw her walking my way, and I waited for her, and she whipped out that stupid cell phone and just walked in front of me laughing. She knows I feel bad about it, she sees me and I look at her and smile and she just looks down at the floor.

I may not be the most forward man but I went for it, got denied, went for it again a few more times. Now it's her turn.

Also about being the class clown, I do kid around a lot. But with her I have been nothing but honest. I have told her explicitly how I feel about her. That I really enjoyed being with her and we seemed to have fun together. That I didn't want to pressure her into anything, I just wanted to spend more time with her. But not as friends, as something inbetween. She refused.

I never hold back when it comes to telling someone exactly how I feel or what I'm thinking. I'm always genuine and straight to the point.