Venus in Leo Square Pluto

Scorps, please tell me what this means.

Square Venus-Pluto

Key words: Venus' sensuality and creativity with Pluto's superlative intensity and depth.

The intensity of Pluto penetrating the Venusian sphere of feelings.

This can lead to fiery and irresistible attractions, passion on the edge, nuclear bomb kind of emotions -

loves that takes you to the limit!

Venus-Pluto characters and soul forces:

*Love and destruction:

Pluto's symbolism of death and resurrection, when transposed into the Venusian field of relationships, can make the person attracted to destructive things or people; it can also give a tendency to destroy the things one loves.

*Abysmal sensuality:

Passion over the edge.

Sensuality beyond measure.

Fascination with sex.

Fantasies going deep and far, acted out beyond the norm.

Sex maniac character.

Desire and sex as an unconscious pull to annihilate one's individuality and limitations.

*Creativity beyond limits:

The other side of the combination can be a great creativity - the Venusian creativity magnified through Pluto's irresistible intensity.

Think of Steven Spielberg, for instance (Venus square Pluto).

*Exceptional astral power:

In Hermeticism, Venus is the planet related to the kidney, the organ of creative power, but also of astrality.

Pluto, the transcended Mars, can bring superlative strength to the kidney.

It is in relation to this deep, special kidney energy that the Venus-Pluto combination can have so much sex drive, or make love for days and nights non stop.

There is however, danger of kidney exhaustion, if the Venus-Pluto character is allowed to rule the native's life unrestrictedly and over a prolonged period.

*Transcended sexuality, purity and alchemy:

There is, deep inside, a need to transcend sensuality (but preferably after having gone through it thoroughly).

Can be a combination for extreme purity.

Pluto's phenomenal potential for transformation applied to the sphere of sexuality and sexual energy.

A highly alchemical combination (Venus is the planet of the jing, Pluto that of the Grail).

Potential for a real sublimation of the sexual energy into higher states of consciousness

*Venus eclipsed:

As in the myth of Pluto abducting Persephone into the underworld, a conjunction or major aspect to Pluto always leaves the possibility open for a total eclipse of the values of a planet.

Unacknowledged, unrecognised, depth of desire.

Completely out of touch with their belly, their desire, and their fantasies.

May become aware of their real sexual desire only late in life, perhaps due to the trigger of a particular relationship.

The problem is that by being out of touch with their Venus-Pluto sensitivity, a person is also likely to be completely out of touch with the corresponding creativity.

*If your partner has a major Venus-Pluto aspect:

Perhaps even more than with any other major aspect to Pluto, you will need to descend into your deep Pluto side in order to match your partner. But will you be able to cope?

I have Leo Venus square Scorpio Pluto and it makes me feel rage when my surroundings aren’t the way I want them. For example my roommate has no sense of proportion when it comes to placing decor on the walls, so I’m always angry when I look at things she’s hung up. Or if they don’t keep things tidy. In relationships, I get jealous about any attention given to anyone else, and always think people are flirting with my SO. It seems very real to me that the person I’m with is interested in someone else. It always reveals itself to be true. And if that is not the case then I’m the one interested in someone else. I’ve heard that there are cures for this but hardly anyone actually elaborates on the cure other than “love yourself.”

I don’t know how to love myself unless I’m alone, because anytime I’m in a relationship I feel like I deserve better; No one can love me as much as I can love them. When I get to that point I just let them go so we can both have a more peaceful life.

I hope when I’m older, I will finally be able to just love peacefully, like a Taurus.