What should I expect?

I'm kind of new to this board. Although I've been reading your posts trying to figure Scorpios out. My issue is I have a blind date with a Scorpio next week that is being set up by a mutual friend. He has seen my picture and from what my friend says he is "taken" by me. He is having a cookout and asked our friend to bring me because, "he cant wait to meet me." She said he's always asking her questions about me. Now I have not seen a picture of this man but my friend tells me he is very much my type so I'm not all that nervous about that. I'm just wondering how will I know if its going well?

My dad is a Scorpio so I know what they are about and that I get along with them but I didn't have to go through the whole thing of wondering if he liked me or not, he had to. lol Any insight would be great. Thank you

Just be natural.

If he is to like you, he should like you for who you really are, not for who you think you should be in order for him to like you (does this make sense?)

So just be yourself, relax and focus on enjoying the evening rather then focusing on making him like you. I mean, you may not like him, why do women always worry about being liked. Perhaps he should worry whether you will like him.

Just have fun, it is only the first date. Nice skirt and top (not too revealing, but nice, perhaps a bit curve hugging) and a good attitude should do.

Just my 2 cent

Oh, and a bit of mystery always helps. Not too many revelations about yourself on the first date. Ask him questions, to see what he is like.

hmmm, do I...??

haha expect the worst then you wont be let down

Its just a date...for now.

lady m gives shoe advise not scorp adise

lubenica

I'm not that worried about if he likes me. Its more about being curious. I've heard so many different things about Scorpio's and this board seems to be on target thats why I asked on here. I have learned a lot over the years about relationships. If someone doesnt like me for me then thats ok and I move on.

I think I would get along with Scorpio's because I'm very laid back and in the beginning I dont like to reveal too much about myself. When I start feeling comfortable I open up a little at a time. I'm also not clingy but do show affection and then I need my space to. Once the relationship progresses I like to spend more time but not all the time. Maybe growing up with a Scorpio father helped.

Thanks for the input its appreciated. I plan on having fun and am looking forward to it. Most guys I've met lately are jerks and this one sounds like a nice guy. Finally!

Notso

Who is M.?

ask her what shoes to wear

Never mind, I see who M is. As she said, its just a date... for now.

LOL@ "I'd say something like 'she's cute' ,and they'd relay that back to said person as 'he's frothing at the mouth over you!!!'"

Blingy is Scorp, he has good advice.

I also think that Scorpios, being increadibly intuitive and perceptive, only get "dangerous" when they sniff a fake or incencere person.

Other than that, it is like for any other man. You sound completely normal, it this is the right word (I hope I don't get misunderstood), so the date should go well. Let's hope he is fun and interesting, so the date is fun or you, too. Good luck!

Blingy,

All depends where they are going for a date.

If it is a cafe or a bar, I think a great pair of jeans and nice T-shirt is perfect.

But if it is some more "upmarket" place, then I wouldn't turn up in jeans. I wouldn't overdress either, I find most men like a nice skirt and a nice top.

Oh, I missed that, thanks Blingy. I wouldn't have know what it meant anyway, OK, then jeans and T-shirt or some nice top is perfect.

Hello fans!

😛

A nice summer dress is fine too. With some sandals. Wedges are still here...although flats are my style .


Boot cut jeans with a cute top, wedge or flat will do.


btw, I just read your posts bling...::gags:: 🙂


Scorpio men arent as evil as the women...but just as crazy. You dont have to worry about the craziness just yet. Besides aquas can pretty much deal with anyone...to what extent is the question...

Lady M,

I was just going to say a nice summer dress would be nice if it is very hot.

So, can I be Assistant Fashion Editor now?

yeah go with the dress, but only if thats your style . if u never wear dresses then don't start just to impress.

hi Lady M.....I could not get up for work today!!! I'm going to try and sleep a lil here at my desk now.

oh yeah....Hi Lubenica

Hiyya!

Yeah, I agree, whatever is most comfortable for you, that's the best.

hehe, sure L, you all fashion comments are welcomed.



Hey there LS...you were here late with that Negative dude. Get some rest in the supply closet or something 😛

I agree, doesnt start what you cant finish....I just got into the dress thing, trying to break up all the jeans & slacks in my wardrobe.

QuirkyOne .. I should think that he'll treat you according to the impression he got from your pic. If the one he got was the same as what's on here, then that looks seductive, so you should expect him to treat you as though your a sex object. If the pic he saw was one of you wearing a cheerful, full warm-hearted smile, then he will likely be expecting a person to whom he is expecting to have a simple, yet, honest experience with.

Of course, it will then be up to how you carry yourself once your there as to how his second, third, fourth, etc impressions will be. To intrigue or impress somebody is usually the goal .. just remember that IF it so happens that there is chemistry, you are now BOUND to that impression you gave him.

Lady M...me too i'm getting into the dresses for the summer....but the really nice ones are sooo expensive. i just bought a black straplesss mini bubble hem dress....super cute!!

Quirky....did u see a picture of him yet?

Well said, P-Angel

How someone treats us is how we present ourselves, and not only the clothing. Our choice.

its so nice to see intelligent people here on the scorp board....

Hi Bling....I'm Lady Scorp....nice to meet u

....and the clothing is a huge part of first impression.

So, no "second-skin" jeans/leggings, anything lurex, ultra mini, too low-cut, shovel applied make-up.

Quirky, we are not assuming anything about you, you sound like very nice person. It is just that we don't know you (like anyone else on this forum), so all these advices are very general, not aimed at you personally. You probably know this, but I just wanted to prevent any misunderstandings.

And it is so nice to see polite, well mannered people on this board (that was a really cute exchange LS and Blingy)

yes ... cookout = barbeque

It's just hard to tell what is going to be appropriate .. some men like dainty fem women and so a nice delicate sundress with a demure expression could be a winner .. some men like the tomboyish kind of gal with a pair of trainers and loose tee-shirt for playing badmitten .. some like the kind who's hovering over the food preparations (like the BlingMiester would) in which case an apron would be the proper attire ..

There's no way for us to tell .. just be your normal sweet self and that will go very, very far.

Wear what you want. Carry yourself the way you see fit.

So what are u going to wear Quirky

Yum yum,i like MILFs.

Bling,don`t get her bad advises..wear short skirt and something that reveal the top a little..and he is down.
Tested with me and worked.

Well, in all fairness, this is the first milf to visit this forum.

Maybe in Ukraine...

...but the cookout is (presumably) in NH....

how do u all know she's a milf??

How do Scorpios and Aqua's do in relationships?

You know, I can't recall anyone mentioning that they are with an Aqua in here.

Is this a good match? Nevermind .. Gawd, I'm such a retard, somtimes. My mother was Aqua and dad Scorpio .. overlook me .. I'm apparantly smoking crack again.

What's milf?

It works everywhere,even in Finland.

"What's milf?"

It means:you are so innocent.

hahahahaha .. you're laughing at me !!!

what's milf?

Mom. I'd. Like. to .Fuck.

Hmmmmm, O.K. then (haven't been to either countries)

As for Aqua-Scorpio......"it could be heaven or it could be hell"

mom i'd like to fuck .. hmmm

why mom?

Man, I'd like to fuck?

I also don't know what milf means

Where is the continuation Lady_M.?

Dad Id like to Fuck is DILF

what continuation?