Posted by Taurus93
I recently just started talking to a Scorpio women, but i ended up giving her my number and told her that she should text me sometime, if she wanted to, was this move a turn off? i was too shy and wanted to giver the decision of giving it to me or not.was this a wrong move? lol
Posted by Taurus93
I recently just started talking to a Scorpio women, but i ended up giving her my number and told her that she should text me sometime, if she wanted to, was this move a turn off? i was too shy and wanted to giver the decision of giving it to me or not.was this a wrong move? lol
Posted by Taurus93
@Scorpiochica
I guess Im going to have to, but would it be awkward if i ask her for her number if she has not texted me? lol, wow i messed that one up
Posted by Taurus93
@PhoenixRising
The thing is we go to college, its a summer program which is about a month, the only time i have with her is during a 20 min break, she has tutoring after class because she failed an exam, so i figured ill give her my number, and as a taurus male, im usually the one being chased so this is new to me lol, but lets see if she gives me another chance to redeem myself lol
Posted by Taurus93
@PhoenixRising
The thing is we go to college, its a summer program which is about a month, the only time i have with her is during a 20 min break, she has tutoring after class because she failed an exam, so i figured ill give her my number, and as a taurus male, im usually the one being chased so this is new to me lol, but lets see if she gives me another chance to redeem myself lol
Posted by cappy129Posted by Taurus93
@PhoenixRising
The thing is we go to college, its a summer program which is about a month, the only time i have with her is during a 20 min break, she has tutoring after class because she failed an exam, so i figured ill give her my number, and as a taurus male, im usually the one being chased so this is new to me lol, but lets see if she gives me another chance to redeem myself lol
Are you more comfortable with being chased than doing the chasing? And if you are, are you willing to step out of that comfort zone?click to expand
Posted by MellyMel909Posted by Taurus93
Should I had manned up and asked for her number? I gave her a piece of paper with my number and told her she should text me some time, as a man this was pathetic lol, and i cannot seem to regret this decision
This was not pathetic. But the fact that you have a GIRLFRIEND OF 4 YEARS and are giving your number to other women - effectively trying to "monkey bar" your way into another relationship before you'll even contemplate ending your first relationship - is pathetic.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by cappy129Posted by Taurus93
@PhoenixRising
The thing is we go to college, its a summer program which is about a month, the only time i have with her is during a 20 min break, she has tutoring after class because she failed an exam, so i figured ill give her my number, and as a taurus male, im usually the one being chased so this is new to me lol, but lets see if she gives me another chance to redeem myself lol
Are you more comfortable with being chased than doing the chasing? And if you are, are you willing to step out of that comfort zone?
I'm lazy. I prefer being chased . Naw, I'm playin'.
I guess I don't see it as being chased, and more about a man going after what he wants. I actually respect people that go after what they want (regardless of sex) honestly. A man that let's me know what he's he wants and that he's not afraid to go after it, without coming on too strong, will get my attention. His mission after that, is to hold my attention.
FWIW Taurus93, if you do ask her out have a plan. I can't tell you how many men have struck out big time asking me out for a date, we meet and he's like "Uh.....what do you want to do?" I even had one guy tell me "I didn't really plan that far. I just knew I wanted to see you again". Dude had a week to plan!
As for the second part of your question, I am being forced out of my comfort zone as we speak. I didn't like it at first, fought it tooth and nail . I'm still alive, so I guess it isn't so bad.click to expand
Posted by MellyMel909Posted by Taurus93
Should I had manned up and asked for her number? I gave her a piece of paper with my number and told her she should text me some time, as a man this was pathetic lol, and i cannot seem to regret this decision
This was not pathetic. But the fact that you have a GIRLFRIEND OF 4 YEARS and are giving your number to other women - effectively trying to "monkey bar" your way into another relationship before you'll even contemplate ending your first relationship - is pathetic.click to expand
Posted by MellyMel909Posted by Taurus93
@MellyMel909
Your right, and that is why I did end it, I knew I had to so i took the initiative. Whether it goes smoothly with the Scorp or not.
Ended it when? Within the past 2 hours? Cause the thread I was referencing:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/taurus-a-scorpio-and-virgo-4160043/
was created earlier today. And going by your words and the responses, it appears you were still in a relationship as of the last posting.
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Posted by Taurus93
@PhoenixRising @MellyMel909
It is not easy breaking someones heart. And i am not the preson to break others hearts, i rather be miserable and see her happy than break her heart. But I understood that in the long run, i would only hurt her more. And now im thinking is it even worth chasing this girl who i dont even know belongs in a relationship, and just stay single till i feel better.
Posted by ConfusedScorpio
Haha. I had the same thing happening to me with a guy. He told me to "call him if I ever felt like going out". Yeah right! Ain't gonna happen because I don't chase people. I seriously took this as a major lack of interest and never called him although I was very very interested.
Which leads me to list what turns me off:
- When a guy is passive (i.e. does not do any chasing and waits for me to do all the work. Unless I really really really like the guy, it's called NEXT!)
- When a guy does not show me directly he's interested and acts detached/cold even though he's interested (how am I supposed to know you're interested? I'm not a psychic. Communication is important. You're interested, then show me)
However, there's a fine line between being hard to read and acting very pushy.
- When a guy tells me he "likes" me or "loves" me after a few dates (1-10 dates). I seriously just run away. It seriously freaks me out.
- When a guy is clingy and is constantly texting me or calling me, and freaks out if I don't respond within 5 minutes.
- When a guy seeks reassurance and constantly asks me how I feel about him
I dated a Taurus male and he was passive as hell! He was so slow, it's insane. He took me on a date, kissed me and never called me because he was waiting on me to call him. I had to do all the work. Once I left him, he came back crawling and asking for a second chance.
If you can't chase a girl properly, don't go for a Scorpio woman because there's no way she's going to chase you!
Posted by MellyMel909
From your OTHER thread:
Posted by Taurus93
I have been with my Virgo for 4 years, she has always been by my side. I am currently in college where I fell into the trap of the Scorpio female, at first i did not quite notice her until i took a second look, now she is always on my mind, usually I ignore other women but I cannot shake this one off, and it is really bothering me how low I feel. She in my eyes is a goddess, I try to fight it, but these feelings for her are only getting stronger, I have manned up and have taken the first approach which is not usually me, but for some reason I did. I usually Can read people and their every move, but with this one, it is complete darkness, a mystery, and it is just driving me crazy lol, I want to know her inside and out, not in any negative way, just her emotions and thoughts, I have had small talk but cannot figure if she is in a relationship and i dare not ask, not yet. Any advice would be of great help lolclick to expand
Posted by Taurus93
@PhoenixRising @MellyMel909
It is not easy breaking someones heart. And i am not the preson to break others hearts, i rather be miserable and see her happy than break her heart. But I understood that in the long run, i would only hurt her more. And now im thinking is it even worth chasing this girl who i dont even know belongs in a relationship, and just stay single till i feel better.
Posted by Taurus93
And now im thinking is it even worth chasing this girl and just stay single till i get my head and heart together.
Posted by MellyMel909Posted by ScorpioChicaPosted by MellyMel909
From your OTHER thread:
Posted by Taurus93
I have been with my Virgo for 4 years, she has always been by my side. I am currently in college where I fell into the trap of the Scorpio female, at first i did not quite notice her until i took a second look, now she is always on my mind, usually I ignore other women but I cannot shake this one off, and it is really bothering me how low I feel. She in my eyes is a goddess, I try to fight it, but these feelings for her are only getting stronger, I have manned up and have taken the first approach which is not usually me, but for some reason I did. I usually Can read people and their every move, but with this one, it is complete darkness, a mystery, and it is just driving me crazy lol, I want to know her inside and out, not in any negative way, just her emotions and thoughts, I have had small talk but cannot figure if she is in a relationship and i dare not ask, not yet. Any advice would be of great help lol
Ain't that a bitch -_-
I find the bolded part especially offensive. "Fell into her trap".. like the Scorpio female is responsible for all of this. He was just plucking along, trying to do the right thing and SHE pounced on HIM with a rag soaked in chloroform and eau de sensual snatch.
If you want to explore your options and play the field, that's understandable. But at least own your shit instead of dumping it in other people's toilet and making them flush.click to expand
Posted by Impulsv
The thing is u want another to bring the excitement for u. Until u figure out that no one is responsible for u all the relationship will get boring cuz ur boring lol. Get it_—. The taurus I dated something that's a lot of burden to put on them to be ur entertainment. So as fteinds we had that discussion how the women hes dating are not exiting enough i told him u be exiting. seriously i love him to bits but how exiting is he! Lol
So my advise to u is seek within otherwise u will never be satisfied.
Posted by Taurus93
To be honest my ex was always there but there was no excitement, she would always stay home and babysit, i work and got to school, i want someone wild, someone who shares the same passion as me, i want to be in a deeply intimate relationship, not some get off and im good, its boring.
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