What do you fabulous Scorps think about this one??

What is his venus in?

hmmm, just to play devils adovcate here- scorpio's are (generally) polite, and slightly obsessive... that he is looking at your profile might be a way for him to reinforce his decision.

I have used this exact strategy.

If I was you mintsprinkles I'd just leave it as you have done. You've been graceful and dignified, move on with your head held high...

Posted by LilliLou
hmmm, just to play devils adovcate here- scorpio's are (generally) polite, and slightly obsessive... that he is looking at your profile might be a way for him to reinforce his decision.

I have used this exact strategy.

If I was you mintsprinkles I'd just leave it as you have done. You've been graceful and dignified, move on with your head held high...

same here.

Posted by LilliLou
hmmm, just to play devils adovcate here- scorpio's are (generally) polite, and slightly obsessive... that he is looking at your profile might be a way for him to reinforce his decision.

I have used this exact strategy.

If I was you mintsprinkles I'd just leave it as you have done. You've been graceful and dignified, move on with your head held high...

I agree, you have been graceful and dignified and you can move on with your head held high... nice going. 🙂

Posted by MintSprinkles Well today to my shock, he actually responded and said "no I think we should leave it".

1.) Your with the guy 3 months. He says I Love You.

2.) You then DECIDE & ASSUME he is not to be trusted, and insecure the relationship would fail

3.) ^^^^That behavior turns him off and he dumps you

4.) Then you do the throw the stuff outside and block him from all social media

5.) Then you realize you fucked up..unblock him from site and start stalking his whereabouts online

6.) You decide for some ridiculous reason you'd like to have coffee and chat with him...

7.) You have the balls to be shocked at him AGAIN telling you to get lost more or less

8.) Please tell us..what "closure" you think you got out of this? Your fuck ups?

9.) ...and finally ...you want to fuck him one more time which will possibly get you back together.




Y O U * A R E *N O T* R E A D Y * F O R * A N Y * R E L A T I O N S H I P ! ! ! !

Grow up...get over your insecurities before you waste another guy's time.

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Omg Mintsprinkles I pulled the high priestess. Traditionally represents the scorpio as well as cancer woman What she means in relationships is use your intuition because its right. Theres something hidden about this relationship. Something more than meets the eye. Look it up some interpretations online may help 🙂 hope this helps!

smh...High Priestess? Does not represent Scorpio, it represents the Moon and the sign CANCER...
The Queen of Cups represents any of the water women.

Ironically when reversed the High Priestess is telling her TO WAKE THE HELL UP, AND STOP IGNORING THE MESSAGES BEING GIVEN TO HER! What's hidden is her ability to grasp that.

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Posted by DMV
What is his venus in?

His Venus is in Virgo.

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Scorpio sun with Virgo Venus..

My two cents?

-You guys started dating, he soon (2-3 months is soon, IMO) realized he wasn't ________.. (Either: feeling it; ready for a relationship; etc.. Fill in the blank).

-He ended things and took some time and a complete break to clear his head..

-He then browsed your profile out of curiosity (both signs, Virgo and Scorpio, are curious by nature - not necessarily out of emotion or longing)..

-You then contacted him and he responded. Probably because he values you in one way or another, or because he's a gentleman and felt the need to pay you the dignity of [his] truth so you wouldn't hold any lingering doubts or dreams or 'what-ifs'.

All seems pretty above board and respectful, from what I'm reading.

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Posted by MintSprinkles

Posted by DMV
What is his venus in?

His Venus is in Virgo.

Scorpio sun with Virgo Venus..

My two cents?

-You guys started dating, he soon (2-3 months is soon, IMO) realized he wasn't ________.. (Either: feeling it; ready for a relationship; etc.. Fill in the blank).

-He ended things and took some time and a complete break to clear his head..

-He then browsed your profile out of curiosity (both signs, Virgo and Scorpio, are curious by nature - not necessarily out of emotion or longing)..

-You then contacted him and he responded. Probably because he values you in one way or another, or because he's a gentleman and felt the need to pay you the dignity of [his] truth so you wouldn't hold any lingering doubts or dreams or 'what-ifs'.

All seems pretty above board and respectful, from what I'm reading.

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Thank you and I also feel that this is closure to me, because there won't be no what if or guessing. I no longer have to wondering how he feels about me.

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Posted by LetltB

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Omg Mintsprinkles I pulled the high priestess. Traditionally represents the scorpio as well as cancer woman What she means in relationships is use your intuition because its right. Theres something hidden about this relationship. Something more than meets the eye. Look it up some interpretations online may help 🙂 hope this helps!

smh...High Priestess? Does not represent Scorpio, it represents the Moon and the sign CANCER...
The Queen of Cups represents any of the water women.

Ironically when reversed the High Priestess is telling her TO WAKE THE HELL UP, AND STOP IGNORING THE MESSAGES BEING GIVEN TO HER! What's hidden is her ability to grasp that.

It does represent scorpio women you wolf queen! Go howl at the moon. The pomegranates on her tapestry represent the Persephone mythology, aka the Scorpio women! Dismissed.

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Go back to studying. You are clearly a beginner.

Posted by LetltB
I go by planets as well for those Major Arcana's that do not depict astro sign and place the astro sign into the planet it's ruled by and the type of reading I do. (also for all 21 major arcana and a 22nd for Chiron)

Such as:

The Fool - Uranus (Aquarius)

The Magician - Mercury (Gemini & Virgo)

The High Priestess - Moon (Cancer)

The Empress - Venus (Taurus & Libra

The Emperor - Mars (Aries & Scorpio)

The Hierophant - Venus (Taurus & Libra)

The Lovers - Mercury (Gemini & Virgo) *could also be communications of love

The Chariot - Moon (Cancer)

Stength - Sun (Leo)

The Hermit - Mercury (Gemini Virgo) Traditional with their space issues

The Wheel of Fortune - Jupiter (Sagittarius & Pisces)

Justice - Venus (Libra Taurus) The rock of justice/truth

Hanged Man - Neptune (Pisces)

Death - Pluto (Scorpio)

Temperance - Jupiter (Sagittarius & Pisces)

Devil - Saturn (Capricorn)

The Tower - Mars (Aries & Scorpio)

The Star - Uranus (Aquarius)

The Moon - Moon (Cancer but also depicts Pisces in my deck)

The Sun - Sun (Leo/strength)

Judgement - Pluto (Scorpio)

The World/Universe - Saturn (depending on reading any sign can be depicted here as it's our end to a journey and it's path)

Multi-Universe - Chiron..the wounded healer and this depicts the understanding and what we learned from the ending path of the World card, and where we go after life lessons/experiences have been learned. Did the Fool absorb the good and bad from his/her journey? Is he/she satisfied with the wisdom gained throughout the journey.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/astrology-tarot-4783643/#4783644

Posted by Rabbit

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Scorpio Whisperer strikes again.

I think she misheard this whisper though...

"-You guys started dating, he soon (2-3 months is soon, IMO) realized he wasn't ________.. (Either: feeling it; ready for a relationship; etc.. Fill in the blank)."

He told her he WAS ready for a relationship and LOVED her she got scared and he mirrored her behavior:

Posted by MintSprinklesHe told me he loved me the day after new yrs things were good...then about 2 weeks later he started acting distant and all that..you know the routine. Honestly looking back he was just mirroring my behavior

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He's not to blame here.

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Posted by LetltB
He's not to blame here.

I don't see where she's blaming him. You just aren't paying attention.

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I laid it all out in black and white through HER words. Go back and reread, and stfu

Posted by MintSprinklesWell the day we split I had him come over to get his stuff, but I was so pissed he was dumping me, I put his stuff outside and told him to leave my key on the floor in front of my door, he claimed he didn't know which key it was, I told him to just keep it and go. Immediately after that I blocked him from everything known to man and we had no contact for about 2 mos.

BLAME^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

dumbass

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I have to say, I'm kind of impressed with how you accepted responsibility in this. We don't see that often on the boards and that could be why you get some of the response you do.

I would suggest standing back for awhile. I don't think there is any reason you two couldn't be friends later on down the road.

Once scorpio/taurus get past all the "crap" they do have the ability to be great friends.

You seem mature and genuinely concerned with him.

Good luck!

Thank you. 🙂

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Posted by LetltB
He's not to blame here.

Nobody is blaming him..you seem to be conveniently ignoring the fact that twice now I've owned up to my insecurities. I even mentioned in the message to him..what else do you want?

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..let's be honest here and stop spinning bullshit. You got dumped, because of your issues...you got pissed pulled a hissy fit, and then suddenly you NOW want to own up to your b.s. and expect him to drop everything. Life doesn't work that way with real men who refuse to be a doormat.

Next time take responsibility for your shortcomings of insecurity and fix what's broke BEFORE you choose to waste someone's time.. It takes a lot for a guy to wear their heart on their sleeve (you can scan all those sob stories here in the forums about the guys who don't), and your insecurities turned his ego to shit.

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Wolf queen you've taken it too far. Apparently since you wanna be honest you havent been honest. The rest of use have including op. You're just being awful!

Call me EDWARD SNOWDEN...lol The awful truth just sucks for those who cannot accept it.

btw...I like the "wolf queen" thingy. I'll take that as a compliment. Thank you. 🙂

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Posted by Rabbit

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Scorpio Whisperer strikes again.

I think she misheard this whisper though...

"-You guys started dating, he soon (2-3 months is soon, IMO) realized he wasn't ________.. (Either: feeling it; ready for a relationship; etc.. Fill in the blank)."

He told her he WAS ready for a relationship and LOVED her she got scared and he mirrored her behavior:

Posted by MintSprinklesHe told me he loved me the day after new yrs things were good...then about 2 weeks later he started acting distant and all that..you know the routine. Honestly looking back he was just mirroring my behavior

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Very true, the part about maybe mishearing this whisper.

I admit. I read the OP. Took some time to digest it, and posted my response without re-reading. :::VirgoFail::: 😢

I read the part about him saying 'I love you', but concentrated more on the part where he said it 'the day after new years'.. And thought in my head - Oh. It was immediately following a major holiday where (stereotypically) copious amounts of alcohol are consumed and everyone's feeling vulnerable. I wouldn't put too much stock in that.."

However, I realize those were my thoughts, and may or may not pertain to the OP or the OP's Scorpio's mindset or thought process.

Posted by MintSprinkles




Omg, nobody is spinning anything lol and nobody is expecting him to drop anything, but damn I'm not allowed to express my interest in wanting him back?

Denial. Let me do what you do and spin ^^that around..

"but damn he's not allowed to express his love and expressing he wants you in his life without you getting all screwed up and insecure over it"—??

You had him...you turned him away and he dumped you. Live, grow up and learn!

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Oh and you're welcome.

😄 (wolf queen smiles)

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Posted by MintSprinkles
Honestly looking back he was just mirroring my behavior

I'm stuck on that ^^^^^^^^^^^^ 😄

I RARELY see anyone admit to that. Yes, she screwed up but she knows HOW she screwed up and it probably isn't going to happen in the same manner again.

I think anyone who has ever tried or been in a relationship with a scorp has experienced this.....it's not fair to cut her off at the knees for one mistake.

Especially when she SEES what she did.

His loss.

Seriously.

....and I don't ever say that.

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Please...lol Tell me, don't you think for one minute when he started mirroring her behavior (ie...stopped showing his emotions which ALL SCORPS do when it's not reciprocated and something you preach about ALL the time in these forums), it pissed her the hell off and things MAY have just gotten nasty as a result? In fact I bet it got real good and nasty because when a Scorp throws in a towel...that's it. So, clear out all that airy shit you got going on elle..you're missing the boat here and you know it.

Posted by MintSprinkles

Ok fine you win, are you done though? You've made your point 100x over. How many different ways are you going to keep repeating yourself?

I'm trying to get you to LOOK IN THE MIRROR just like he did. This isn't about putting you down, this is about waking your ass up. That is all.

I don't know how to sugar coat. (unless you are Andrew Lincoln, at which time I'd turn into a melting slushy)..

See that? I have my shortcomings too. Go figure.

Posted by Juicysbaby214
I believe it. You shld have kept it real from the beginning then wolf queen wldnt of stung you so many times. As far as how many ways we can repeat ourselves. A million and one because the more we think about what you have done the angrier we get at the audcaity of your actions. Hence why everytime you address she comes at you ten times stronger from yet another angle.

Hey! That's enough out of you juicyfruit!

The juicyfruit comment was sarcasm..

in fact I used to chew it way back in the day...😉

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Posted by MintSprinkles

Ok fine you win, are you done though? You've made your point 100x over. How many different ways are you going to keep repeating yourself?

I'm trying to get you to LOOK IN THE MIRROR just like he did. This isn't about putting you down, this is about waking your ass up. That is all.

I don't know how to sugar coat. (unless you are Andrew Lincoln, at which time I'd turn into a melting slushy)..

See that? I have my shortcomings too. Go figure.

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Well I'm awake now trust me lol

Posted by Juicysbaby214
What do you think the wolf queen can do to me? I have cords attached to me that plunge deep into the earth, i move my arms and the ocean come rushing to my back, ready to answer call. You sleeping dog! Go tuck your tail in good night!

The only thing I can do ....is stand up for myself, and thankfully for my brothers, father..i'm a master at it with very little energy.

You however may over exert yourself with all that equipment

To each her own I suppose..nite nite and a "woof" 😉

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Yes go to bed. Dnt frgt to tuck that tail in, bitch. This power is greater than a little pup like you cld imagine.

Don't over do it now. Difference between you and I...

You have to exploit (weakness)

I don't..

Let me know when you want a real tarot reading...

Night night juicy fruit..

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Btw are you trying to intimidate me? When i see that picture i think grab him by the snout, clamp his jaws shut, twist his neck, and hes done! Dsnt evoke fear in me.

What is fear?

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Is that dog speak? Are you the ultimate predator? Are you wolf? Rlly? What can you do sleeping dog?

I'm doing it. I'm standing.

Posted by MintSprinkles


Actually things did not get "nasty"..we didn't. What you saw in that message and how I've described everything was pretty much what the atmosphere of our relationship was. We we're very civil towards each other even until the end, but I was just so hurt and angry that I blocked him from things and didn't want to see him.

Hmph. Tell me, is this how you define "civil"?:

Posted by MintSprinkles
Well the day we split I had him come over to get his stuff, but I was so pissed he was dumping me, I put his stuff outside and told him to leave my key on the floor in front of my door, he claimed he didn't know which key it was, I told him to just keep it and go.

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Throwing someone's belonging outside like trash because you were too hurt to face him---after you created the situation? I respect the fact that you can own some of your crap, but now you're just overplaying your hand.

Anyway, I'm glad you got clarity. I'll leave it there.

I'll keep my money..thanks rabbit.

Messed up in the head eh? Angry too..my specialty.

Posted by Rabbit
*settles in with a bourbon*

need a pillow too?

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I think Rabbit might be slipping that bourbon into juicyfruit's cup.

The Woodford is all mine.

She can have the Old Grandad -_-

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I think you mean the Old Granpappy.. [Van Winkle?]

Which coincidentally, is a brand a lot of retailers seem to suggest, yet no true bourbon drinkers seem to enjoy..

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Twirl, you're one comment away. And in case you dense ding bats didn't notice Rabbit is most certainly not against me.

See this is where I figure you for a nut job..I don't know where you snapped or why. I thought things were going nicely. It was like a cork popping off a bottle. Very sudden like. However I am entertained now, so please.. keep the insult and nastiness flowing.. I can't speak for everyone, but they are watching this and I assume with cocktails, popcorn perhaps and enjoying it.

So by all means...keep at it.

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I think Rabbit might be slipping that bourbon into juicyfruit's cup.

The Woodford is all mine.

She can have the Old Grandad -_-

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I don't have to work early tomorrow...pour me a so-co please. Thank you.

~chilled~

Posted by Juicysbaby214
One, I cld care less what anyone thinks of me and my thghts. Now if you want get back to the challenge youve posed, I'm still here. If you'd rather deflect and change the subject, well, I'm here for that too because at the end I tld you, you weren't ready. Tuck that tail in and go to bed.

Challenge? What challenge?

rofl...so did I..double take

I'm thinking...government approved pharmaceuticals, or something of that nature.

Denial of what? Challenge of what? I also went back two pages and looked to see where you may have popped your lid. I can't find it or what it is I challenged you at.

Your a lost soul.

@LetItB: with a lime, straight up, or on the rocks?

@rabbit: omfg.. Someone actually created a bourbon/WHISKY named "old grandad"? Does it taste like Old Spice and werther's originals mixed with used handkerchiefs ?

And also, why are you, as an, *allegedly adult professional, drinking cheap shitty liquor?!

*JK! I know you're a real professional adult, not a pseudo one.

NO FRUIT EVER!!!!! (thanks)

*you're