Lyse
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When a Scorpio is distant but...Not really
From my own experiences with Scorpios, they tend to be far more diligent with affection and attention when they're pursuing a person. Once they have you, they settle. Scorpio is a sign that needs a lot of space and time to deal with their own feelings, thoughts and life. And it can be hard for a Libra who's the most lovey-dovey, affectionate air sign there could possibly be lol I have Leeb placements, so I get it. However, I can also deal with a Scorps distance probably a little bit more than you, because of other aspects of my chart. Unless you have other placements that help you. I'm nto sure, you seem a bit worried.
I'm in my own world a lot, and it really helps distract me from obsessing. Granted, I have obsessed about certain things that confused me with Scorpios lol but one thing I know is that they will come back to you. He's not being disloyal to you, just dealing with his own shit. And he's also a fixed sign, so he'll be dealing with these things on his own and he'll probably dig his heels in about that.
Don't worry, he will return. Especially if he makes sure to send you a morning text or you've been with him every morning, you're fine. He's yours. Just allow him his process.
And please, don't ask him to get rid of female friends. Scorpios males are loyal as shit if they've chosen you, and asking him to get rid of female friends won't help any. He may even feel insulted that you don't trust him enough to have them around. So just take a breath, he's not going anywhere.
I'm in my own world a lot, and it really helps distract me from obsessing. Granted, I have obsessed about certain things that confused me with Scorpios lol but one thing I know is that they will come back to you. He's not being disloyal to you, just dealing with his own shit. And he's also a fixed sign, so he'll be dealing with these things on his own and he'll probably dig his heels in about that.
Don't worry, he will return. Especially if he makes sure to send you a morning text or you've been with him every morning, you're fine. He's yours. Just allow him his process.
And please, don't ask him to get rid of female friends. Scorpios males are loyal as shit if they've chosen you, and asking him to get rid of female friends won't help any. He may even feel insulted that you don't trust him enough to have them around. So just take a breath, he's not going anywhere.
Posted by flowingwaterWOAH! Knock it off you two! I’m NOT pregnant. Lol. Maybe my co-workers were using the wrong choice of words, shoot.Posted by GetMistedI was thinking the same lol no guy I'm in love with makes me "glow".
Are you pregnant?
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Ironic though he mentioned I looked about two months pregnant when he saw me this past weekend, but I had on this fitted dress and I don’t exactly do sit-ups or go to the gym so I have a little pudge that magically goes away when I suck it in a little.lol. But no I know I’m not pregnant.This may be TMI (My apologies in advance) but last time before this weekend we weren’t that careful when we were intimate I’ll admit it, but he didn’t (you know) in me, but that was last month and I’ve gotten my period since then. No STD’s either. So I think I’m straight on that end.
This past weekend we used a condom, so no loop hole there either.
Posted by ReincarnationYou better not secretly be him lol. He's so blunt and straight to the point just like you. haha
He's busy.
Work and boxing.
Posted by LyseThat's a Scorpio for you. They're different than air signs. We talk a LOT. They're people of few words, but man can those few words carry intense weight sometimes. You just gotta go with it.Posted by ReincarnationYou better not secretly be him lol. He's so blunt and straight to the point just like you. haha
He's busy.
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Posted by blackphaseI'm either talkative or totally silent, because I have an air moon mixed with the twelfth house. Can be unnerving but it is what it is.
That is true. I am very quite for a Gemini. I listen more than I talk, thanks to those Scorp placements 😉
Posted by RabbitLOL. But water signs cant get enough haha! This is the 3rd scorp i've attracted, amongst like 6 Cancers, and my first love was a Water sign, first Crush Water. High school sweetheart, Water.
Needy ass air signs.
but then again i have a water moon. I KNOW water signs aren't calling US needy. lol. Sheesh, at least we dont expect our partners to read our minds. lol
Crazy ass emotional water sings. Now. LOL
Posted by LyseI think he was just messing around, Lyse.Posted by RabbitLOL. But water signs cant get enough haha! This is the 3rd scorp i've attracted, amongst like 6 Cancers, and my first love was a Water sign, first Crush Water. High school sweetheart, Water.
Needy ass air signs.
but then again i have a water moon. I KNOW water signs aren't calling US needy. lol. Sheesh, at least we dont expect our partners to read our minds. lol
Crazy ass emotional water sings. Now. LOLclick to expand
Yep. See, he was. Relax 😛
I was too on some parts lol. hence that's why i put "lol".
Apparently he's the one that cant take a joke.
Apparently he's the one that cant take a joke.
Posted by xomelindabelle🙂
Yep. See, he was. Relax 😛
Posted by flowingwaterLol!!! We forgive you
Maybe it's just the Pisces and bit of cancer in me... Sometimes I can't get enough.
Sorry air siblings!
Posted by LyseScorps are cruel mofos....you can listen to me and learn the easy way, or not listen to me and suffer....
I know my title is confusing but it's exactly whats going on lol.
He's distant but not gone. Like he still takes me out. Will text here and there.
When he's around me he gives me hugs and kisses on the cheek, but then there are other times where i only get a good morning text. But sometimes like this morning, when i dropped him off at work, there was no hug or kiss. I'm like ooookayyy. Nontheless i was happy i got to be in his presense and see his handsome face so i still went to work happy as hell, and i guess my co-workers noticed because they said i had been glowing for two days straight. Both days i started my day with him. So decided to text him other people are saying i'm glowing and i believe it's because i got to see him. He sent me smiley faces. I guess i expected more.. Did i do too much?
Most of the time I hear from him once out of my day when we dont have plans to see each other(during the week we both work full time and he has boxing practice after), Other than his normal good morning text, i dont hear from him unless i have a meaningful topic. When we first started dating he would check on me throughout my day, or let me know he's thinking of me and it seems he doesn't do it anymore.We talked about where we want this to go, we both agree we want a relationship eventually.Here's the tricky part, as much as i like him so far, i'm not so sure i trust him enough to be his girlfriend. He has ALOT of female friends, and I cant honestly say i trust him enough to get rid of them if we start being exclusive. But then again, he honestly may feel the same way. UGHHH! LOL. But i dont have sex with other guys tho. And i'd drop them in a heartbeat for him.
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Posted by bricklemarkWait. I'm confused.I'm not sure what you mean. You are warning me that they are cruel and thats it? Or is there more to your advice? I'm just asking...Posted by LyseScorps are cruel mofos....you can listen to me and learn the easy way, or not listen to me and suffer....
I know my title is confusing but it's exactly whats going on lol.
He's distant but not gone. Like he still takes me out. Will text here and there.
When he's around me he gives me hugs and kisses on the cheek, but then there are other times where i only get a good morning text. But sometimes like this morning, when i dropped him off at work, there was no hug or kiss. I'm like ooookayyy. Nontheless i was happy i got to be in his presense and see his handsome face so i still went to work happy as hell, and i guess my co-workers noticed because they said i had been glowing for two days straight. Both days i started my day with him. So decided to text him other people are saying i'm glowing and i believe it's because i got to see him. He sent me smiley faces. I guess i expected more.. Did i do too much?
Most of the time I hear from him once out of my day when we dont have plans to see each other(during the week we both work full time and he has boxing practice after), Other than his normal good morning text, i dont hear from him unless i have a meaningful topic. When we first started dating he would check on me throughout my day, or let me know he's thinking of me and it seems he doesn't do it anymore.We talked about where we want this to go, we both agree we want a relationship eventually.Here's the tricky part, as much as i like him so far, i'm not so sure i trust him enough to be his girlfriend. He has ALOT of female friends, and I cant honestly say i trust him enough to get rid of them if we start being exclusive. But then again, he honestly may feel the same way. UGHHH! LOL. But i dont have sex with other guys tho. And i'd drop them in a heartbeat for him.
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Posted by flowingwaterPosted by RabbitIt's about time someone says this lol I'm very needy, I needs LOTS of love and affection.
Needy ass air signs.click to expand
I don't wanna give you the wrong impression
I need love and affection
And I hope I'm not sounding too desperate
I need love and affection
Love Love Love
Love and affection
Love Love
L-o-v-e-e-e and affection
Oh baby I'm not asking for the world maybe
You can give me what I want baby
Come hold me tight and when I'm drowning save me
Give it to me on a daily
You can give me what I want baby
Come hold me tight and when I'm drowning save me
Give it to me on a daily
Okay, so I’m still in the same spot with him.
He came over after boxing training yesterday. I was affectionate to him, he was staring at me while I did it. Lol. He seemed to like it. I kept asking “What?” he would just smile at me.
Then he had me massage his muscles because they wore sore.
Then when I took him to work this morning still no hug or kiss.
I mentioned that I don’t want him to date other girls, he told me that he doesn’t. He says the girls that text his phone are only on a “hi” “bye” “wyd” or “how you been” type of thing, nothing deep.
I don’t know, at this point I’m starting to get lazy. I’m feeling like maybe we want different things. He started saying how girls and relationships are stressful.
I asked what’s stressful about me? He said, nothing. Yet. He always says I’m good right now, but it’s like he thinks the moment we become boyfriend and girlfriend a switch will go off and I’ll become like his nagging ex or something. That frustrating for me, and makes me feel like if he’s going to continue to compare me other girls, and not give me a fair shot then what’s the point?
He came over after boxing training yesterday. I was affectionate to him, he was staring at me while I did it. Lol. He seemed to like it. I kept asking “What?” he would just smile at me.
Then he had me massage his muscles because they wore sore.
Then when I took him to work this morning still no hug or kiss.
I mentioned that I don’t want him to date other girls, he told me that he doesn’t. He says the girls that text his phone are only on a “hi” “bye” “wyd” or “how you been” type of thing, nothing deep.
I don’t know, at this point I’m starting to get lazy. I’m feeling like maybe we want different things. He started saying how girls and relationships are stressful.
I asked what’s stressful about me? He said, nothing. Yet. He always says I’m good right now, but it’s like he thinks the moment we become boyfriend and girlfriend a switch will go off and I’ll become like his nagging ex or something. That frustrating for me, and makes me feel like if he’s going to continue to compare me other girls, and not give me a fair shot then what’s the point?
I think men are sneaky based on my past, but I don’t let that stop me from wanting to giving him a fair shot. I’m a Libra for those of you that don’t know, so the imbalance in this thing with him is starting to make me want some air. Guess I’m just looking for some insight on this so far. I just don’t think it should be this complicated. You like someone, you get to know them, you date them, you take them off the market! Lol
He mentioned that while I was in Chicago without him he saw my pictures and thought about driving down to snatch me out the club and bring me back. Lol. I think he was joking though. I think… Like Rabbit said I guess I’m truly not good with sarcasm unless it’s coming out of my own mouth. lol
He mentioned that while I was in Chicago without him he saw my pictures and thought about driving down to snatch me out the club and bring me back. Lol. I think he was joking though. I think… Like Rabbit said I guess I’m truly not good with sarcasm unless it’s coming out of my own mouth. lol
Posted by IrresistableScorpHe is a man of few words, and i'm okay with that part. I just dont like the lack of affection. I mean dont get me wrong, he's affectionate to a certain point on dates. He's never like all over me in public. He will do suttle things like hold my hand, or wink at me, or i'll catch him blushing and staring at me. He'll kiss my cheek or forehead. Then there are times where i'm like ummmmm hello? A hug would be nice. I guess i'm tripping because i haven't seen him in almost a week and i didn't even get a kiss or hug. Like i said i was kissing and hugging him. He hugged me back, but no kisses. Maybe i'm tripping 😢
Could he just be a man of few words? Shrug.
Don't let your airy bits translate few words into not caring.
Posted by LyseUh...wut? Why would there be more? Yes I'm warning you about them. They're bad mofos. They will mess you up just for the fun of it, they'll make it seem like there's a reason behind it, they will make you think it's your fault, but don't buy into any of it. It's like trusting a hungry snake.Posted by bricklemarkWait. I'm confused.I'm not sure what you mean. You are warning me that they are cruel and thats it? Or is there more to your advice? I'm just asking...Posted by LyseScorps are cruel mofos....you can listen to me and learn the easy way, or not listen to me and suffer....
I know my title is confusing but it's exactly whats going on lol.
He's distant but not gone. Like he still takes me out. Will text here and there.
When he's around me he gives me hugs and kisses on the c enough to be his girlfriend. He has ALOT of female friends, and I cant honestly say i trust him enough to get rid of them if we start being exclusive. But then again, he honestly may feel the same way. UGHHH! LOL. But i dont have sex with other guys tho. And i'd drop them in a heartbeat for him.
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Posted by bricklemarklol. i wish you would've responded before this past weekend explaining what you meant.Posted by LyseUh...wut? Why would there be more? Yes I'm warning you about them. They're bad mofos. They will mess you up just for the fun of it, they'll make it seem like there's a reason behind it, they will make you think it's your fault, but don't buy into any of it. It's like trusting a hungry snake.Posted by bricklemarkWait. I'm confused.I'm not sure what you mean. You are warning me that they are cruel and thats it? Or is there more to your advice? I'm just asking...Posted by LyseScorps are cruel mofos....you can listen to me and learn the easy way, or not listen to me and suffer....
I know my title is confusing but it's exactly whats going on lol.
He's distant but not gone. Like he still takes me out. Will text here and there.
When he's around me he gives me hugs and kisses on the c enough to be his girlfriend. He has ALOT of female friends, and I cant honestly say i trust him enough to get rid of them if we start being exclusive. But then again, he honestly may feel the same way. UGHHH! LOL. But i dont have sex with other guys tho. And i'd drop them in a heartbeat for him.
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Posted by LyseYeah? Why what happened? 🙂Posted by bricklemarklol. i wish you would've responded before this past weekend explaining what you meant.Posted by LyseUh...wut? Why would there be more? Yes I'm warning you about them. They're bad mofos. They will mess you up just for the fun of it, they'll make it seem like there's a reason behind it, they will make you think it's your fault, but don't buy into any of it. It's like trusting a hungry snake.Posted by bricklemarkWait. I'm confused.I'm not sure what you mean. You are warning me that they are cruel and thats it? Or is there more to your advice? I'm just asking...Posted by LyseScorps are cruel mofos....you can listen to me and learn the easy way, or not listen to me and suffer....
I know my title is confusing but it's exactly whats going on lol.
He's distant but not gone. Like he still takes me out. Will text here and there.
When he's around me he gives me hugs and kisses on the c enough to be his girlfriend. He has ALOT of female friends, and I cant honestly say i trust him enough to get rid of them if we start being exclusive. But then again, he honestly may feel the same way. UGHHH! LOL. But i dont have sex with other guys tho. And i'd drop them in a heartbeat for him.
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