...is it usual for it to take on a dance-like rhythm? So that disclosure is followed by backing off to regroup, before telling a few more personal things and then running again and hiding for a while?
This is what a friend of mine is doing and he seems to be relishing the opening up bit - telling me deep things and trusting me a lot. But then he sort of disappears for a little while. I'm guessing this is normal..? Any insight would be much appreciated. (Yes, another Scorp! How could I?!)
That's interesting (you aren't a man, right?! lol) - once I begin to open up I stick around to see how it goes, how it's been taken - but then I don't open up until I'm really ready to do so. You're saying most people run when they've thrown the first grenade into the self-disclosure arena? Must be really scary stuff for people to need to do that...
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This is what a friend of mine is doing and he seems to be relishing the opening up bit - telling me deep things and trusting me a lot. But then he sort of disappears for a little while. I'm guessing this is normal..? Any insight would be much appreciated. (Yes, another Scorp! How could I?!)
Thanks!
SAV