Why do Scorpio men treat their women like crap??

So I've been friends with this guy for a very long time like 11-12 yrs. We have never been romantically linked always fr
female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon
So I've been friends with this guy for a very long time like 11-12 yrs. We have never been romantically linked always friends. He has always been nice to me, kind, caring and has been there for me during some of my roughest times and vice versa. Being that I am a friend I assumed he treated everybody like this including any woman he's dating I would think even better. Well I guess that's not the case. I've heard of the games Scorpio men play and have read some horror stories, but I didn't think my friend was like that at all.

So me and my friend's current girlfriend of almost two years have grown somewhat close in the last yr or so. She's very nice and caring towards him and would give him the world..but he treats her like crap. This girl is forever sending me fb messages crying about how when he gets drunk he flirts with other women online and asks for nudes, and how he's forever giving her back handed compliments. He's very argumentative and sometimes he can just be plain cold to her. Like honestly this a huge shock for me as I don't see any of that from him..it almost makes me see him a bit differently as being a woman I can relate to what she's going thru.

Does he treat her like crap because he feels comfortable enough with her in doing so? I just don't get it, he has a wonderful woman but he just doesn't care. I'm just an ear for her to sound off. I never make comments about my friend nor do I give her advice on what to do specifically when it comes to him and I also never speak to him about it unless he brings up their relationship, the most I tell her is to just be upfront and bring any grievances she has to his attention. I guess I could just ask him myself, but I get the feeling he'd tell me a completely different version of the story. Anybody out there who's dated Scorp men...are most of them like my friend?
female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon
Nope, lol I don't date Scorpio men *sticks tongue out* so it doesn't apply to me
male from Sunny California, USA
Scorpio male to the fullest / Libra Moon
Posted by Neurotoxin
We still hate you.

So take your dumbtreetrunk over generalization and get the treetrunk out.


LMFAO!!!. Got a good laugh outta that one!!!!!!
female
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Posted by MintSprinkles
I guess I could just ask him myself, but I get the feeling he'd tell me a completely different version of the story.


Well there isn't just one version of a story, so why wouldn't he have a different one? I'm not quite sure what you're asking here. Are you trying yo find advice to support you friends, or a lot "yes my Scorps a douche" feedback? If it's the latter, check pages 2-64, plenty of material there.

or just wait for it in 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2......
female
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I like the username btw. That's all.
female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by MintSprinkles
I guess I could just ask him myself, but I get the feeling he'd tell me a completely different version of the story.


Well there isn't just one version of a story, so why wouldn't he have a different one? I'm not quite sure what you're asking here. Are you trying yo find advice to support you friends, or a lot "yes my Scorps a douche" feedback? If it's the latter, check pages 2-64, plenty of material there.

or just wait for it in 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2......
click to expand


Honestly I was just curious because I've never dated one before *shrugs shoulders*. And I apologize for the generalization. It seems by Neurotoxin's butthurt replies, Scorp men must get a bad rep when it comes to dating.
female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon
Posted by PhoenixRising
I like the username btw. That's all.


Why thank you!
female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon
Posted by Neurotoxin
We still hate you.

So take your dumbtreetrunk over generalization and get the treetrunk out.


Aww but I love youuuuuu! lol
female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Honestly from my limited experience, it seems Scorpio men/women respect people who stand up for themselves, and aren't doormats. My father and bestfriend can both be very domineering if you don't stand up to them. I suppose no matter who you date it's about demanding respect. Your friend may not even feel that he is treating her bad. Honestly the scorpios in my life...woo they can say some things that cut. Don't expect an apology either. They usually don't even think they have been mean, it's just a matter-of-fact attitude. Is his girlfriend a water sign?


Actually she's a fire sign..Sag I think. Yea I think she feels like he's treating her bad or else I don't think she'd be sending me messages upset because he got drunk and flirted with a couple of chicks online again for the hundredth time. I almost feel torn sometimes because while I'll always have my friends back, I know what it's like to be a women in a situation with a guy who isn't treating you all that great..it's like hmm where does my allegiance lie..I usually just go with neutral.
27 years old female
Sun/Sag Rising/Cancer Moon/Leo Venus/Aqua Mars/Scorp Dec 15th
He sounds like he has loose screws. There are PLENTY of MEN who aren't scorpio's just like that.

I actually notice taurus enjoy watching others in pain a lot
female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon
Posted by Sag89


I actually notice taurus enjoy watching others in pain a lot


Care to elaborate on this?
female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon

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female
Leo Rising; Taurus Sun; Virgo moon
Posted by Sag89
Maybe men really do just prefer c!!kiemonsteres.


I'm beginning to believe this, like for real lol
27 years old female
Sun/Sag Rising/Cancer Moon/Leo Venus/Aqua Mars/Scorp Dec 15th
well both people in the relationship (regardless of their signs ) seem to hate themselves. It's nothing new just depends on what you do about it
27 years old female
Sun/Sag Rising/Cancer Moon/Leo Venus/Aqua Mars/Scorp Dec 15th
Yeah you want to be respectable. Thats really as far as it needs to go. But these days it seems being a self indulgent cookiemonster is what people want to strive for lol
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