@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts
Why does it hurt so bad??
Amen to that, sister.
I am still slightly damaged from the emotional fallout of my break-up.
While it was a four year relationship, I am still sometimes falling into the trap of misery, self-pity and anxiety over the end.
The best advice I can give you is that it will get better with time, and you will find someone even better when you least expect it.
Awwww thanks ladies....its a sticky situation. Have made the decision to bow out BUT it still make me sad sometimes.😢
Its ok that it hurts. I think once you stop fighting it, you'll heal faster. When it starts building, go somewhere and cry as hard as you can. You'll feel better the more you do this and you'll need to cry less and less.
I'm hurting now too if that makes you feel any better. Ok, that probably wouldn't make you feel better, but maybe knowing that you're not alone will.
Its ok that it hurts. I think once you stop fighting it, you'll heal faster. When it starts building, go somewhere and cry as hard as you can. You'll feel better the more you do this and you'll need to cry less and less.
I'm hurting now too if that makes you feel any better. Ok, that probably wouldn't make you feel better, but maybe knowing that you're not alone will.
I know i could call/text and it will end the anquish but i really dont want to go back there.
I swear men can be so bloody stubborn @ times.
Yeah....just need to cut him loose for good. Not rekindle anything. Its bloody hard thou.
Yeah....just need to cut him loose for good. Not rekindle anything. Its bloody hard thou.
Yeah....just need to cut him loose for good. Not rekindle anything. Its bloody hard thou.
Yeah....just need to cut him loose for good. Not rekindle anything. Its bloody hard thou.
Hehe, DXP is broken right now.
Yeah, don't give in! I know its hard, but you'll get to a much happier/more peaceful place much sooner if you let this one go. If you give in and rekindle...you're only asking for more of the same (I'm talking to myself here as well as you!) 😄
Didn't purposely posted the same msg. The system went haywire.
Well have made the decision to walk away,either that are have another 2yr rollercoaster ride.
He's not happy with me but as ms aquilera said its impossible to love you,if you don't
let me know what ur feeling! How can I give u all my love,if ur hot n cold with urs!
What sign is he? The Libra, the Aries?
Posted by FemmeScorpion
if you don't
let me know what ur feeling! How can I give u all my love,if ur hot n cold with urs!
Yup...sounds about right.
Come here! ... let me hug you close, ScorpFemme
not sure what to say to ease your pain.. unfortunately only time heals.... it heals our wounds OR it heals the decisions we made and we may repeat them. Sometimes pain can get unbearable, so we start finding excuses and remember all the good things.
Your decision was possibly the right one. What comes after is up to him, either he will want to rekindle his relationship with you, or he will be clueless as to what happened.
(I usually tell this to myself. Sometimes I can hold my promise and sometimes not to stay away, especially if he means a lot to me) 🙂
Dear FemmeScorpion
1 - You don't love him - you are JUST USED TO him
( and we don't like change - and we have DEVOTION )
2 - We are MOST attracted to things that are bad for us
because THEY TASTE SO GOOD. Chocolate, Fatty foods, Fire Signs, etc.
They all stimulate us and make us feel alive...even the bad stuff.
3 - The Retrograde is over - this is the perfect time to break up
and become self aware of the issues that drive your mind,
your UNSPOKEN needs and therefor RESENTMENTS in relationships
and learn to overcome the fears that hold you back.
A good first step is to send me ( lots of ) nude photos of yourself.
Of course I am being totally serious.
See - I've privately asked most of the Scorpio women here for nude photos.
So far, only 3 have send nude photos - and of those, only
two were legit ( the other just grabbed a random pic from net
and though I wouldn't know - so I even doubt she was Scorpio )
But ... the two that DID IT ...lived through it
and I proved to them this notion ( half the motivation for my asking )
"You'll only get what you ask for".
Hahaha Scorpio pics...you never cease to crease me up. The aries and i are still good. Thanks for all who asked.
Its the libra i decided to bow out from. How can someone expect you to give up your relationship/livelihood for a emotional affair.
He said i hurt him but i doubt that very much. He is a nice chap and i will always have a soft spot in my heart for him.
But sometimes one just need to say enough is enough
FS I recently broke up with someone who I cared about but who I knew wasn't right for me. I hate to admit it but I have moments where I'm like "WTF have I done? Have I made a mistake?" because I can't help but think about him and I miss him.
So yeah I know how you feel. It sucks, but I just keep telling myself that I've done the right thing.
"But sometimes one just need to say enough is enough"
Amen to that. 🙂
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Hahaha Scorpio pics...you never cease to crease me up. The aries and i are still good. Thanks for all who asked.
Its the libra i decided to bow out from. How can someone expect you to give up your relationship/livelihood for a emotional affair.
He said i hurt him but i doubt that very much. He is a nice chap and i will always have a soft spot in my heart for him.
But sometimes one just need to say enough is enough
Well if he was a Libra
then you should DEFINITELY send nude photos.
lol
Ermmm scorpio pics ur losing me....if he's libra i should send you nude pics? What would that acheive.
WIITFM....whats in it for me??
FS - forget about him, that's an unbalanced request. He keeps his cake but you can't keep yours ....WTF?!? He's got one woman on the right and one on the left. I know it's hard for you babe, but put that energy into Aries. I always say Libras don't die, we multiply, he will miss you, we never let go completely.
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Ermmm scorpio pics ur losing me
You missed the "lol" at the bottom of my last post. It was subtle.
Posted by FemmeScorpion....if he's libra i should send you nude pics?
ABSOLUTELY. lol
Posted by FemmeScorpionWhat would that acheive.
I would get to see you nekkid. lol
Posted by FemmeScorpionWIITFM....whats in it for me??
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Nothing! haha.
@ scorpiopics No nude pics from me am afraid.
What kind of girl do you take me for.lol
Posted by JOJOJO
FS - forget about him, that's an unbalanced request. He keeps his cake but you can't keep yours ....WTF?!? He's got one woman on the right and one on the left. I know it's hard for you babe, but put that energy into Aries. I always say Libras don't die, we multiply, he will miss you, we never let go completely.
Yeah your right. Thanks for the advise.🙂
Posted by ScorpioDreamerI Will Smile Again!
I will smile again
Though tears flow from these eyes
I will smile again
And trust tomorrow the sun shall rise
Though darkness may enfold me
Though heavy rain can't help but pour
Though shattered, lost and broken
Though heart could barely bear it all
Though tired and weary and confused
Though badly hurt and bruised
I know that I will smile again
And I will smile again!
Awww thats so sweet...my moto from now.🙂
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Why do i feel so sad,i thought that i was over you but i keep crying when i dont love you!!
Arrrghhh there is always one...you know they are bad for you but you still want him/her.