? Why is he so Contradicting ??

we had a misunderstanding.... he didnt answer my text and i said...
"u ignoring me? 🙂 k u dont hv to answer that ok"
he immediately replied "dear i will never ignore u...never"
but he was! and then....he started ignoring my messages(nope not bcos he was busy) for days


i asked if i can call him, he said yes dear sure..
but when i called him later, he didn't answer....it was expected. but y didn't he just say no— ughhhh


WHY the contradictions?
pls help me u'stand my scorpio,scorpio moon man 😢

Well, from my own personal experiences, the person with the worst double standards that i've ever come across in my life was a scorpio (sun). He had a pisces moon, mercury & venus both also in scorpio.

I'm not saying they're all like this (since mine had quite a heavy water influence throughout his whole chart), but you'll probably find that if you ignore him, he'll crack the shits at you. He's allowed to do all the things you're not - and don't ever forget that!

Best not to let it bother you. If you call and he doesn't answer, then it's his turn to call you and you're best to busy yourself with other things than sit around worrying about him. Once he comes out of his mood, he'll be in contact again.

Have you 2 talked out the misunderstanding?

you'll probably get a text soon saying "why haven't you called me?"

I've no clue .. the whole communication between you seems in contridiction, based soley from your thread here.

For example, you would send him a message saying .. "u ignoring me?" ... which would imply that you are upset, or concerned about him ignoring you, since this is the question in your mind.

Then say .. "k u dont hv to answer that ok" ... which would imply that you don't really care if he answers you or not.

^^^^ mixed signals within just one sentence or train of thought.

So, if your whole style of communication with this man, and his with yours are like this, then I can see why you would be confused.

I agree .... this does appear insecure, or maybe even desperate.


Asks a question .. then gives impression of almost an apology by inferring he doesnt' have to answer if he doesn't want to.

Then asks if she can contact him

"he started ignoring my messages(nope not bcos he was busy) for days"

That ^^^ implies that numerous contacts to him were sent out.

And then asks if it's allowed to call him


and by his answering with all these "dears" sounds very condenscending.


You know, virgo_loves_U ..... you are setting yourself up to be treated this way, you are giving all power of the relationship to be at his terms to make relationship decisions.

And he responds with "dear", just after you prompting him to contact you for days.

If walking in your shoes ... he would be put on total and complete ignore until he realized I wouldn't be treated that way, if he never learned .. his loss .. the sea is huge, and good men are available, swimming in it.

the reason i asked if i can call is bcos he can be too busy at times..so if i call him straight, he wouldn't be answering.if he's busy and i ask if i can call, he will respond and let me know that he's engaged & will get back to me later.i just don't like to interrupt him. he does the same sometimes cos he knows i might be busy at the time.i'm not feeling insecure


he's a very sensitive man(scorpio moon, and ) sometimes i don't realize that if i've hurt his feelings...if he's hurt and i call,he will either ignore or reject..

"u ignoring me? k u dont hv to answer that ok"
i was referring to the question i asked him earlier...not the "u ignoring me?" i meant don't have to answer now..i was telling him that i won't push

hi virgo lovesU

scorpio MOON ? no wonder..double intensity sensitivity double eveythg. mine has scorpio moon too..and he's not easy. i think he's keeping something inside...are u both having an issue? u said there was a misunderstanding?..? i don't think he's angry at u...he will ignore u totally if he was..but i can't say much cos u didn't tell much

applemint..yes he's not easy to deal with..you're right about the double dose of everything...i've scorpio friends or friends with scorpio placements....but they're not as intense as the scorpio moon.how long have u been with yours?

irish...yes i don't think it's a wise thing to do

i'm a scorp moon and we're emotional and fall deep for someone. don't make us jealous because we'll think you don't want us and we'll walk away. tell him you like him and want to be with him. ppl pls let's try not to play emotional games

>>are scorpio moon only faithful if they have met the 'one'? do they fear commitment? or are they generally very faithful? I have a friend who is scorpio moon and she is very emotional, sensitive, etc., but, would not hesitate to fool around (even with a married man)....i think that scorpio moon expects a lot, but doesnt always give in return...is this correct??]]]


they are faithful when they have met the one... but being faithful,to Some of them -> emotionally but not physically. i've a double scorp friend who has found the one,they've been an item for 6years now...BUT he still flirts/sleeps around whenever the gf is not in town. and he proudly said to me "when i give my heart to a girl...its forever"


hmmmmm


my libra,scorpio moon friend did the same... the ex left him bcos of that...and he's having a hard time getting over her now 😢