Why Keep Stinging

Alright after this post i will quit boring you with my life,i promise🙂 why does my ex girlfriend keep just being viscous,i mean the latest is contacting girls i am friends with on Facebook and telling them what a terrible father i am and person,yet she gladly lets me get him every weekend,i pay support,and i have receipts from the things we do and the necessities-clothes,shoes,etc.i know some of the women on this forum are gonna automatically think i did something to reciprocate these attacks,but i haven't.i am very short with her,one word answers for everything,but never bashing her character or any type of slander.i figured since she had a guy move closer to her,ya know,the Scorpio would stop stinging,she left me,i haven't became angry,i mean just one word answers,not rude or friendly,will this stop eventually,not a poor me thread,just really curious,its just evil for no apparent reason.new to the astrology thing,so i don't know,but if you read this long mess i truly am appreciative,thank you

i appreciate your opinions,thank you

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Sextile Mars 0.56 245
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 8.08 112-mine
Sun Conjunction Pluto 6.36 150
Moon Sextile Uranus 3.18 42
Moon Square Neptune 2.33 -63
Mercury Sextile Venus 1.34 182
Mercury Conjunction Jupiter 4.05 308
Mercury Conjunction Saturn 3.52 383
Mercury Sextile Neptune 3.50 8
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 5.36 158
Venus Sextile Saturn 2.18 122
Venus Conjunction Neptune 5.24 165
Mars Square Uranus 3.27 -38
Jupiter Conjunction Saturn 7.56 96
Jupiter Sextile Neptune 0.14 132
Jupiter Conjunction Pluto 1.32 203
Saturn Conjunction Pluto 9.28 14
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.46 33
2353 -101 2252Sun Conjunction Mercury 9.12 57
Sun Conjunction Venus 0.10 468
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 6.58 182
Moon Opposition Mars 8.14 -33-hers
Moon Trine Saturn 2.38 113
Moon Opposition Neptune 0.39 -204
Moon Trine Pluto 2.54 64
Mercury Conjunction Venus 9.22 27
Mercury Sextile Mars 0.04 358
Mercury Conjunction Saturn 5.32 278
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 5.16 170
Venus Conjunction Jupiter 6.48 107
Mars Conjunction Neptune 7.35 100
Saturn Sextile Neptune 1.59 79
Saturn Conjunction Pluto 0.16 253
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2.15 26
2282 -237 2045

j have no idea what any of that stuff means honestly

it will hurt for a while absolutely,of course,8 years on and off,and a child its gonna sting,its out of my hands know either way

Sun Scorpio 1.10
Moon Virgo 25.21
Mercury Libra 18.58 R
Venus Sagittarius 17.23
Mars Virgo 2.06
Jupiter Libra 23.02
Saturn Libra 15.06
Uranus Scorpio 28.39
Neptune Sagittarius 22.48
Pluto Libra 24.34
Lilith Sagittarius 3.19
Asc node
Cancer 26.29 this is mine

Sun Scorpio 11.57
Moon Gemini 24.35
Mercury Scorpio 2.45
Venus Scorpio 12.07
Mars Capricorn 2.49
Jupiter Scorpio 18.55
Saturn Libra 27.13
Uranus Sagittarius 3.31
Neptune Sagittarius 25.14
Pluto Libra 27.29
Lilith Capricorn 15.13
Asc node Cancer 5.26 this is hers

we split early january

(btw, let me apologize to you in advance.) lol ok🙂

dont really know,gotta find a way to keep it moving for the positive though

we were walking around for about 2 months brooding over bills,then her mom offered to let her live there bill free and she decided she wanted to bounce,real abrupt,obviously well thought out though

Posted by brandon24
Alright after this post i will quit boring you with my life,i promise🙂 why does my ex girlfriend keep just being viscous,i mean the latest is contacting girls i am friends with on Facebook and telling them what a terrible father i am and person,yet she gladly lets me get him every weekend,i pay support,and i have receipts from the things we do and the necessities-clothes,shoes,etc.i know some of the women on this forum are gonna automatically think i did something to reciprocate these attacks,but i haven't.i am very short with her,one word answers for everything,but never bashing her character or any type of slander.i figured since she had a guy move closer to her,ya know,the Scorpio would stop stinging,she left me,i haven't became angry,i mean just one word answers,not rude or friendly,will this stop eventually,not a poor me thread,just really curious,its just evil for no apparent reason.new to the astrology thing,so i don't know,but if you read this long mess i truly am appreciative,thank you

dealt wit scorpios like this before, she just cant let go and is angry at either herslef for being incapable of detachment or you for abandoning her


and im not saying you did but scorpio women that are fucced up mentally(not all of them are, i know i couldnt believe it at first either)will do the typical water sign thing and victimize themselves, theirs is just more malicious and they blame you for shit.



i wouldnt even give her any answers but yall have kids together, so kinda hard not to keep some form of contact

Let me guess, her mother never liked u? EXACT OPPOSITE,FAMILY LOVES ME

Bill free, it wasn't working out anyway...you didn't give her a good enough reason to stay. YOUR PROBABLY RIGHT, I GUESS I HAVE TO LIVE AND LEARN,NOT SURE

i wouldn't even give her any answers but y'all have kids together, so kinda hard not to keep some form of contact

I mean we speak,but i give one word answers,maybe a little hurt and bitter for sure no problem admitting that,the positive is i will NEVER bad mouth her in front of my son,i believe parents that do that reap the consequences in the long run,i want him to think his mom is superwoman,and i honestly don't think she bad mouths me in front of him,and that is a huge positive for him,i am thankful for that

Don't take anything I say to the bank. Take it with a huge grain of salt. I'm just an anonymous Scorpio chic on a message board.

thank you for doing all that,i appreciate it,sincerely,no sarcasm

Posted by brandon24
Let me guess, her mother never liked u? EXACT OPPOSITE,FAMILY LOVES ME

Bill free, it wasn't working out anyway...you didn't give her a good enough reason to stay. YOUR PROBABLY RIGHT, I GUESS I HAVE TO LIVE AND LEARN,NOT SURE

hmmmmm...if you say so i was good as hell with the family, was in th same situation, stayed bill free, and im not talking about the family i was talking about her


i wouldnt post things on here that im defensive about tho only hurts yourself

Posted by brandon24
i wouldn't even give her any answers but y'all have kids together, so kinda hard not to keep some form of contact

I mean we speak,but i give one word answers,maybe a little hurt and bitter for sure no problem admitting that,the positive is i will NEVER bad mouth her in front of my son,i believe parents that do that reap the consequences in the long run,i want him to think his mom is superwoman,and i honestly don't think she bad mouths me in front of him,and that is a huge positive for him,i am thankful for that

well hey, i was giving m two cents i dont know the situation completely, hope that work 4 you tho

well hey, i was giving m two cents i dont know the situation completely, hope that work 4 you tho

i agree with everything you said,thanks,might have rambled a lil,my fault

hmmmmm...if you say so i was good as hell with the family, was in th same situation, stayed bill free, and im not talking about the family i was talking about her


i wouldnt post things on here that im defensive about tho only hurts yourself



dont get it boss,what do you mean,guess i am slow lol

Posted by brandon24
hmmmmm...if you say so i was good as hell with the family, was in th same situation, stayed bill free, and im not talking about the family i was talking about her


i wouldnt post things on here that im defensive about tho only hurts yourself



dont get it boss,what do you mean,guess i am slow lol

nuthing, i thought i offended u or something no biggie tho

nuthing, i thought i offended u or something no biggie tho


not at all no worries,i didnt take no offense in nothing you posted,appreciate it

you are welcome.

you have a interesting battle in front of you Mr. Scorpio.

but I think you have the tools within yourself to master it.


i might mess around and get it right🙂one of these days

When everything is going great, you are the charming most wonderful person. In fact I bet everyone thinks that about you even when you are having a very bad day.

When people don't have all of you completely and feel you aren't giving them your everything, they start treating you bad. They take it out on you, because they are so upset they can't have even more of you. So when you are quiet, or shy, or taking time for yourself, the upset emotions they have go into a worked up frenzy.

If you look at it very technically you probably were innocent in so much that happened. Or perhaps more blame was on her each time there was an issue.

If all you are asking is for her to leave you alone for good, then give her closure some how.

She simply cannot get closure that she can't have you in any big or small way. Let her talk it out to you, you may not want to hear or listen to her, but attempting it now and again can let her say what she wants to say to you and let her heal.

She sounds like the type of person that the more you avoid her, or the more quiet space you put between you and her, she will just get more angry. Those same people get things worked out on their own if given a way to get that out of their system.

Just my thoughts on this. Good luck.

Posted by ellessque
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You know we are mirrors. So, if she's acting like an ass..............well, just saying.

I haven't read the end of this thread, but I had to comment on this.

That comment really sounds like such a cop-out to me, as to say scorpios take no accountability since it's all the OTHER person's fault how the scorpio CHOOSES to act.

His inattentive behavior is pissing her off (and he knows it), and she knows (or is definitely hoping) her behavior will piss him off. And each one will blame the other for how they are acting. So, there. ! (smh)

His behavior is mature, though.

Posted by ellessque
Okay, first lets talk about you.

You have a nice chart. I'm not being sarcastic.

Plus, you are a cusper? October Scorpio....born close to or on the cusp of libra. This makes you an awesome guy. Seriously, scorp/libras are very laid back kind of guys. Very fair and not as intense as some of the later scorpio decans.

I've got a cusper. I'm not in awe of him, never finishes anything he starts. Fair? Depends on what he wants.

Posted by brandon24
we were walking around for about 2 months brooding over bills,then her mom offered to let her live there bill free and she decided she wanted to bounce,real abrupt,obviously well thought out though

Her family LOVES you but yet her MOTHER steps in and breaks up your happy family just on GP? Even without marriage, you two were building a home together.

Posted by ellessque
I apologized pathfinder. 😄

I was wrong.

Nothing personal, Elle.

🙂

Her moon in Gemini is definitely showing here...she is already winding down, the lashing out will stop soon..once it does your out for good buddy- i am sure that's probably the best for all parties involved,thanks for your insight🙂

She's always wrong.

She's always wrong-whats this mean

Your moon dictates your emotions.....so if that's the case, she is rolling on Gemini territory on blast..she still loves you, or she wouldn't be doing these last ditch efforts to get your attention. Do u want her and your child or not?- my child will always be a part of my life even if she dates the pope lol,she didn't really flaunt her behavior honestly,i found out through someone else,so i don't really see the last ditch efforts,she specifically wanted the split and that's OK,just hurt she went to someone so fast,but i guess that's life.i didn't really care for the texts after she was with someone about i miss my best friend and the whole i will always care for you,that made me feel like the guy you just want to be friends with speech,ya know.its not negative by no means,i guess the writing might just be on the wall,Elle pointed out the negatives i was saying about her,and she was right,even if i got a bad deal,its not worth the negative energy,and i am far from perfect,it always takes 2 to tango in any relationship,i love the idea of a 2 parent household,i was blessed with that growing up,but i realize its not enough of a stable foundation to keep 2 people together,especially for my lil guy.maybe 1 day she will realize what i was worth,maybe not,only she will ever know the answer to that,i know i am not perfect,but i know i mean well,and i am a really decent guy,so i have to treat myself as such.i just have to move on,because the world is not going to stop because i am heartbroken.you know someones trash could always be another s treasure.one day at a time🙂thank you for your comment and what seemed to be genuine concern,that's kind of you,i appreciate it