Your experiences with Scorp men?

I have a male Scorp friend. We seem to be well matched in some ways (interests, finances, assets, ambition). He has broken up with his gf because he told me he was thinking about doing it the last time we hung out. He was quite unhappy with the state of his relationship.

He wants to catch up this week and I think he's interested in me. I really have no experience with Scorp men, so wondering:

1. Are they loyal? Last time, he drank way too much tequila and jokingly propositioned a kinky s&m thing to me.

I said "no, i'm sure we wouldn't want to hurt our people." I have an undefined thing with a Cap and it's going badly. Scorp blamed it on the alcohol and asked me not to judge him. Seems like a red flag?

2. How do I subtly let him know that while I'm a supportive friend, I'm definitely not a rebound chick and have high standards.

3. Any tips on dealing with Scorp men in general?

Thanks!

U don’t have to subtly let him know anything.. just don’t hook up with him or sleep with him right now, he’s still in a relationship or just freshly out of one .. keep it platonic for now

Just say this to him that you wrote above

"while I'm a supportive friend, I'm definitely not a rebound chick and have high standards"

If he is a true friend, he won't take offence

Posted by Sofia87
U don’t have to subtly let him know anything.. just don’t hook up with him or sleep with him right now, he’s still in a relationship or just freshly out of one .. keep it platonic for now

Definitely, I'm going to advise him to rest and consider what he's looking for.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Just say this to him that you wrote above

"while I'm a supportive friend, I'm definitely not a rebound chick and have high standards"

If he is a true friend, he won't take offence

True, thanks. The last time we hung out I expressed that at this stage of my life, (I am 34, he is 37), I'm not looking to mess around. I'm looking for the real deal and long term.

I'd be kind of offended if he tried something sexual.

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Posted by SunMoonStars
I have a male Scorp friend. We seem to be well matched in some ways (interests, finances, assets, ambition). He has broken up with his gf because he told me he was thinking about doing it the last time we hung out. He was quite unhappy with the state of his relationship.

He wants to catch up this week and I think he's interested in me. I really have no experience with Scorp men, so wondering:

1. Are they loyal? Last time, he drank way too much tequila and jokingly propositioned a kinky s&m thing to me.

I said "no, i'm sure we wouldn't want to hurt our people." I have an undefined thing with a Cap and it's going badly. Scorp blamed it on the alcohol and asked me not to judge him. Seems like a red flag?

2. How do I subtly let him know that while I'm a supportive friend, I'm definitely not a rebound chick and have high standards.

3. Any tips on dealing with Scorp men in general?

Thanks!

He just wants you in his bed, that's all.

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Really hope not... if that happens, I'd be upset because I told him last time that I'm not looking for casual hook ups. At this age, I'm looking for something long term and "the one". I made that pretty clear.