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Montgomery
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Posted by Infinite8
PV&J'd dream man:

Physically: Height not important but he needs to be built, have meat on him. He hugs her - she needs to feel enveloped by him. I see him tanned or dark as well.

This guy NEEDS to be balanced between conservative and open-minded. Conservative looking in public - a freak in bed. This guy loves the stability of having a partner, household, normal paying job/security but he also LOVES to let loose in bed and be super creative and explore.

He is the initiator and likes to lead but sensitive enough to know when she is not in agreement and flexible enough to come up with another plan.

He is a home body but also a social person and pushed her a bit out of her comfort zone.

He is consistent, reliable, serious but has an AWESOME sense of humor.

He has a better memory that her and remembers everything about her.

He is a perfectionist sometimes too - so really appreciates her Virgo moon ๐Ÿ˜›

He's sensual and gives the best massages.
Aquarius sun- Taurus moon.

Cap Mars. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
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Posted by Infinite8
Hmmm... Let me see ๐Ÿ˜•

This man would physically have to be tall (6' +), athletic looking - Aaah, just the typical tall, dark & handsome.

In personality: outgoing with the ability to hold a deep conversation as well.

Ego can and perhaps should be low. Pisces or Taurus-like. BUT have the inner strength and maturity to shut her up when she's gone too far.

Chatty and creative (romantic)

A man that loves to talk about a million different subjects.

A man that is protective and has eyes for her only.

A man who insists to pay for her when on a date.

That's all I can think of for right now ๐Ÿ˜› but, it's a good start!! Let's not limit ourselves when wishing!

I also have to add, I like the idea of a man that likes to be hand-cuffed by Agent ๐Ÿ˜ˆ let's add a little spice in there while we're at it!
Yup yup yup... all spot on, I like a little submissiveness in the bedroom! Yes funny is a must. I'll nick a few off PV's list too!!! Just to be greedy!!
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Posted by faceroll
agent you're venus in scorpio right? do you have any experience with a mars in scorpio? i'm trying to' think of my ideal woman and i'm down to a masculine sign woman o r a scorpio. i'm actually probably most compatible with a scorpio woman but i'm afraid of venus in scorpio. ๐Ÿ˜ญ
What is it you're afraid of with vis?

Yes I'm a vis.

I have some experience of Mars in Scorp.
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Posted by faceroll
i was texting with pvaf earlier and was talking about maybe a scorpio with a leo moon. would be a good thing for me.
I recently had a couple of dates with a Scorp sun/Leo moon. More relating to the moon - I found he embellished quite a few things but in my opinion this was more nerves/ego/personality rather than for sinister reasons. They were not major things as such but you could say he liked to ham things up a bit or a lot for dramatic purposes. He really didn't need to. I'm not a good person to lie to but this was my experience here.

The Leo moon might liven up the Scorp intensity in a nice way though. Not so feeling sorry for themselves.
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Posted by faceroll
my mom is a scorio with venus in scorpio. and she was married to a taurus when i was a kid. that dynamic kind of traumatized me. it's that i'm a taurus. idk how well that would go with a venus in scorpio. but BD has said it works out really well. maybe it's just my moms shit taste in men and not the taurus/ViS combo.
I have shit taste in men ยข

ViS - I feel like I want to wrap the person I like in my little spidey web and take them back to my little spidey cave so I can have them all to myself! I don't like to share. I want to have them completely and touch them and look at them all the time.

Some might find the possessiveness too much but that's how I felt today about someone. It's like I want to keep hold of my favourite toy and no one else can have it. It's different to the Taurus possessiveness I think. Or maybe it isn't.

It's like a cloak of love and protection, and I'm only interested in that person. I think that's where the intensity comes from - so much focus on that one person.

BUT... we are VERY sensitive and we will remember EVERY THING... Don't piss us off on a deeper level because we have the ability to tear you and your life apart on a regular basis... If we choose to.
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Posted by faceroll
i attract a lot of water moon scorpios as friends but i think my aries moon would make them cut themselves at night. i think a fire or air moon would probably be best.
My ex is Virgo Sun/Aries Moon. I struggled with how he would get angry so quickly and it would be hurtful but the up side is he'd forget about it just as quickly. Still hurt though ***sniff*** he gave him pizazz though, a bit dynamic, bombastic, lead from the front which was nice.

My good friend and college is a Scorp Sun/Aries Moon/Scorp Venus and Merc with Leo Mars. He doesn't have the same Aries Moon qualities or it's less apparent. He is action first, think later but that's most men I guess.
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Posted by faceroll
i dated probably the hottest person i've ever seen as she was a scorp and i essentially friends placed her cuz she was a scorpio. though i told her it was because of her age. she was a sag venus though.
Noooooo! Her sag Venus might go well with your Aries Venus.

Scorps are fine. You might find a Scorp sun with not much else in Scorp to be ok. Maybe an October Scorp, the Nov ones can be odd.
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BUT... we are VERY sensitive and we will remember EVERY THING... Don't piss us off on a deeper level because we have the ability to tear you and your life apart on a regular basis... If we choose to.
^^^^^^
Wow this made me think back to when I dated this Scorpio girl when I was younger I'm convinced she had a vis because after I broke up with her she made damn sure to tear my life and health apart on a constant basis any way she could i couldn't figure out at the time why she was constantly trying to make my life shitty when she knew that I was already crushed without her I understand why scorps are the sign for vengeance because they get it
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Before I scrolled down to read I8's words I thought to myself 'she loved you very much'. The extremity of all the negative stuff such as vengeance comes from us showing and sharing and opening up to you... And you not wanting us. Not wanting what we have to offer you. Not wanting to be with us. Rejecting us, spurning us or breaking up with us etc. If we have opened our little spidey heart to you, and that doesn't happen often, you had better accept it... For your own health and sanity!!

This vengeance and negative stuff doesn't come into play if we're not serious about you. If a break up is on amicable terms then no problem. If we haven't yet opened our hearts to you and you reject us then you won't get WW3!

The sensitivity rather than vengeance comes into play with things we perceive as a rejection or hurt. It's like a very much scaled down version of the above. We have a habit of wearing rose tinted glasses too. For example, dude I recently had a couple of dates with said we'd meet up again and indicated as much with words/action. He didn't contact me. It wasn't devastating as such but it still hurt more than it would for other people. It took a couple of weeks to let the 'feelings' subside. It was just two dates. That's all. The odd thing is I saw a number of 'red flags' along the way from start to finish. They get ignored because often I'm concerned my 'intuition' and gut feel is over analysis and paranoia. I'm beginning to learn it isn't. In my line of work it is classed as intuition and gut feel yet in my 'romantic' private life it becomes over analysis and paranoia.

Anyway, for your ex girlfriend to have behaved in that way is likely to have meant she loved you and didn't agree with the break up and also wanted you to feel the pain she was going through.
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@ agent yeah I understand now why she went to the extremes. At the time I just couldn't figure out how someone could love you but at the same time want to destroy you from the inside out when they already know how devastated you are without them(she saw me break down in tears when I dumped her).I knew how much she loved me because I've never had a girl be so possessive over me it would normaly turn most guys off but I honestly loved it nothing is better than your better half showing you how much they don't want to lose you it's what a Taurus needs imo that constant love and affection. I would never do the things she did to me to someone I love no matter what they do to me I just don't have the heart I guess that's what's make Taurus and Scorpio so different truely the zodiacs odd couple.

The odd thing is I saw a number of 'red flags' along the way from start to finish. They get ignored because often I'm concerned my 'intuition' and gut feel is over analysis and paranoia.
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Posted by LentoBull91
I would never do the things she did to me to someone I love no matter what they do to me I just don't have the heart I guess that's what's make Taurus and Scorpio so different truely the zodiacs odd couple.
Yes, I don't understand how you can flip from love to hate like that either. But that's what they say - that love/hate are two sides of the same coin for them.....
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Posted by faceroll
it's actually the easiest thing in the world. the trick is to catch yourself before it happens. because the desire to completely destroy everything about someone and ruin their next relationship is strong.

i've felt that way even when i've done the rejecting because i felt so betrayed over the relationship having to end in the first place.
I guess it depends on how things end. When a person has broken up with me in the past, I usually already know in my heart that this relationship has run its course. I already feel remorse over that, have accepted it on some level, but am still loyal to it nonetheless, knowing I committed to this person, and holding out hope that things will get better. If they don't have that same hope, I don't get angry with them. I feel hurt, but I can't be angry at someone for falling out of love with me. And its usually SO obviously due to our incompatibilities. I understand I am a very strange sort of guy and difficult to be with. For instance, I spend a lot of time working on projects I'm interested in and I could never give Cancer women the time/attention they seemed to need.
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Posted by faceroll
it's hard to explain the impulse to destroy to a taurus that doesn't have mars in scorpio. not trying to be insulting. it's not some bfd to have it. it just is a different thing. sometimes keeping it in check takes more willpower than you think you have. and it's a matter of grinding yourself to the ground to do it. i have very vindictive evil thoughts about things. like my throwing people under the bus thread. just it would be so nice to destroy people sometimes. which is not very taurean. i know. and it's not even really very scorpio sun. but it is very scorpio venus and mars.
No, I get it. I can see how that placement would give that disposition. I guess it is just so against my own nature, but in some ways, I have to confess my own motives to reconcile at least a friendship are not *entirely* pure. When my ex wife ended with me, one side benefit of maintaining a friendship is that eventually I got to hear her express regret, a desire to be together again, etc., which was healing for my ego. I guess I would rather be loved than hated by an ex. I also like to keep the peace because you never know what the future holds, and you do have an important history with this person....You know each other deeply and I hate feeling like all that was for naught.
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Posted by Infinite8
Why does he care what happens after that? He gave up on her!
This is another head-scratcher for me. Just because you decide a relationship won't work, doesn't mean you didn't want it to, or that you don't love them deeply and still want to have peace and maybe even friendship with them. Rejecting a person is not always about the individual, but sometimes simply about the dynamic of the relationship. We'd have to see his reasons for "dumping" I guess...
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Posted by faceroll
if we can't be friends i'd rather them hate me. because then they don't come back around trying to get back together. i am sick of giving second chances. i used to give none. but i got into a weird on again off again thing with my pisces ex. and then it continued on into my present situations. essentially everything that is currently wrong with how i am romantically is somehow the fault of my pisces ex. but damn. i loved her so. even enough to develop all these terrible habits. ๐Ÿ˜
I guess, I still hold out hope in some sense a lot of times, and I do give second and third chances when I really love someone. Even if I'm over someone myself, I still don't mind them attempting to come back. My Leo parts love the admiration I guess, and want to be held in high regard by everyone, particularly someone I care about.
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@ I8 your making it seem like it was the easiest thing for me to do when I dumped her maybe if you consider pulling out teeth without any anesthesia easy then yes it was easy. She was and still is the only girl who I made a promise too that I had to break and when I make promises I keep them or I don't make them. The only reason why I let her go was because I couldn't handle anymore of her emotional manipulation it was slowly killing me from the inside she was slowly tearing my beating heart out and I would beg her to stop and she would tell me she would because I warned her that I couldn't handle what was happening I was turning into someone I did not like. But by the next day it was back to the same shit she had the power over me and she knew it and used my love for her against me pushing me and pushing me closer to the hole which I fell into. Even after I broke up with her I was still madly in love with her so when she began her rain of terror on me it hurt deeply to think I had loved this girl like no other ever would and for her to pull some messed up shit right after our break up like you meant nothing to them and enjoy as you sit in silence completely devastated torn to pieces lost in the shadows. It was the first time I ever felt depression anxiety loss of identity my world was no longer complete apart of me died when I left her and I never got it back.
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Posted by LentoBull91
as you sit in silence completely devastated torn to pieces lost in the shadows. It was the first time I ever felt depression anxiety loss of identity my world was no longer complete apart of me died when I left her and I never got it back.
And this is why I hesitated myself. I could tell, if it didn't work, I wind up like this....Kinda went through the same thing although I never spoke a word to her. I can't imagine having her in my grasp, and then losing her...
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Posted by Infinite8
Dumped

Definition: deposit or dispose of (garbage, waste, or unwanted material), typically in a careless or hurried way.

Yes... I DID get the impression it was easy for you to get rid of her, based on the descriptive words you chose to use.
I understand now there might have been more to it. She was intense and you couldn't calm her down. Instead, her energy over-powered yours. So, what makes you think you are ready for it now? Why are you still looking for... Not ONLY a Scorp but a Scorp with a VENUS IN SCORP?!?! That seems crazy to me...
He sounds like she exhausted/overwhelmed him. And I'm not sure that's due to her "power". Sounds like he perceived that she was immature, distrusting, and so needed to control/manipulate. That is fear-based, and a weakness to me....
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Posted by Infinite8
Now, now TLS... No need to misinterpret what I meant to say.
Ok, it just sounded like you were attributing it to his failure, in saying he "couldn't" calm her down, and phrasing it as her energy overpowering his energy, sounded like a greater/lesser comparison of energy, and/or power. I see your point more clearly, and I guess what I am trying to point out is that it really sounds to me, from the very brief bits we're getting, like he felt it was unnecessary negative drama (not just unqualified "intensity"). And that is definitely something a Taurus will not abide over time. You went on to ask what made him feel ready for it now, but he may have even been ready for a relationship with a Scorp then, just not one that was overly manipulative/distrusting/immature. I've read that typically Scorps are less like this as they get older; do you agree?
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@ I8 I said dumped because that's what I did one day I finally had enough after I caught her in a lie I just snapped and told her that I've had enough of her power trip and dropped her cold turkey it was the best thing for me to do even though my heart was shouting don't let go. It wasn't the intensity that got to me I loved it kept things between us exciting and passionate it was her abusing the power I let her have over me and her misusing it to hurt me when ever she pleased that killed this bull. The reason why I want a scorp or a vis is because I miss that intensity and passion they have I'm a Taurus Sun cancer Venus and from what I've read cancer Venus and Scorpio Venus are pretty ideal for each other and I assume it would be true not including the suns.Though I would prefer to find a Virgo with vis if they even exist seems better for me less risk of power tripping.
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Oh gosh, I am reading Infinite8 posted comments .It's really true. When Scorpio gets hurt and we put our heart into it... revenge will follow.
Scorpios extreme rage will send a person to the grave. And if that happens Scorpio will die itself - a total destruction is a must and rise again.
Never trust a man anymore. Fears interfere. Not when someone came along and prove that we are wrong to our new perception... but it will take decades for a Scorpio to believe.. and now I have this motto *To Love someone is like giving them a power to destroy you*.

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When I read Lento's story, the first bit where he 'dumped' the Scorp, I actually didn't read into his choice of word. I just took it as dumped, ended, broke up etc. It was obvious there was more to it and obvious it wasn't easy to do. Hes on here talking about his experience both positively and negatively so I didn't feel anything untoward there.

My view on that particular Scorp is that she probably was just young, immature, couldn't handle her own intensity, resorted to manipulation and control because it's all she knew, she got reactions with it so why change? She probably didn't want to lose you but her behaviour resulted in the one thing she didn't want to happen. She was stuck in a cycle so it would never have changed. She probably has a different dynamic with a different person but forest ever reason, with you it was as it was.

Part of what you wrote about how her actions and behaviour made you feel reminded me of a few things my ex Virgo Sun, Venus, Mercury with Aries Moon, Gem Mars, Libra rising used to say. It's a bit like spitting venom and hitting you where it hurts and that tears you apart. He deserved it all though because he was... A bit of a cunt! No really, he was! I tolerated far too much but then that's the whole not letting go thing.

Admittedly, that one hurt rather a lot so he got the full suite of Scorp Sun AND Venus ลฝ lucky bloke, eh!

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I'm an October Scorp. The best ones. None of that November inbred crap here โ€ฐ
๐Ÿ˜ฑ TAKE THAT BACK MISSY!!! I'm November 5th!!! ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Hmmmmmmmmph

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You've GOT to be kidding me! LMAO!!
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Nov 5th Scorps are ok... I spose... ยค
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Oh... I was just getting some fresh air. We've been roasting here all day in California, ๐Ÿ˜›
hahahaha.... aha... sure... that's what is was ๐Ÿ˜‰

How's it going on cloud9?
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I'd say I'm a solid 6 on the Cloud chart, 7 when we talk on the phone. I'm trying to pace myself and not lose sight of the bigger goal. I've always taken it extremely slow, but with Abby it's different and we both feel it. We're still Taurus though and we seek stability ultimately. We don't know if we'll end up together for eternity, but when she comes back to town we're going to hang out, date and give it a shot. Until then talking on the phone daily affords us the opportunity to embed in each others lives and re-establish that bond. We're going to take it a day at a time and savior the moments. ๐Ÿ™‚
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This thread has derailed into Taurus/Scorpio obsession thread #254. Zzzzzzzz.

Post to the wishing well or gtfo. ๐Ÿ˜› Better yet, let Infinite suggest someone.
I suggest/Nominate Lento for Agent ๐Ÿ˜„
I dunno. From what I seen on dxp Scorp/Taurus is a trainwreck. Highly obsessive union though. Scorched dangled the Scorpio/Taurus carrot and things got heavy real quick.
Aaawwww... ๐Ÿ˜ข I do have to admit, I acted on instinct and NOT logic ๐Ÿ˜›

But it was worth a try... Right ๐Ÿ˜„

To be honest... I don't even know how old Lento is, might be too young. All I know is that I really like him and Agent, PLUS wanted to conclude this thread with a proper ending...lol
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Are you saying I'm old? ยก
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