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This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Daydreamer on Friday, November 4, 2005 and has 12 replies.

Understanding Taurus Behavior in Personal Boundaries

Taurus individuals are often stubborn and may struggle with respecting boundaries, especially when influenced by alcohol. Ignoring unwanted calls is a valid way to assert your limits and protect your well-being. Clear communication and firm boundaries are essential to ensure your needs are respected in any relationship.

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@Daydreamer
20 Years

I send a letter to my Taurus friend. In the letter I strongly stated he cannot call me for late night sex anymore. And if he doesn?t want anything more than that, he should leave me alone. He e-mails me and said he cares and?. blah, blah, blah?.
That was about 2 weeks ago.

The other night he called me at 2:30 am, of course, I didn?t pick up his call. I don?t know what he is thinking! The letter I wrote was very upfront and clear. Dose he not respects my decision or takes me seriously? I think he probably was drunk that is why he has the nerve to call me. Do you think I did the right thing by not answering his call? Actually, I feel kind violated.

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

What an A-hole! Leave him & good ridance! Some men have no respect & never learn it. I guess this goes for women too, but ya, good choice. You being brutally honest with him should avoid any questions or regrets, girl.

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@Daydreamer
20 Years

Thanks taurusgoddess.

I don't see him as a Taurus anymore, I seem as a jerk! I'm very disappointed. That shows his lack of respects for me. I found something that I thought I lost when I was answering to his late night calls.......I found my-self respect and that is going to be my top priority when it comes to men. If he ever wants to see me again, he is going have to treat me like the respectable lady I am.

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@Daydreamer
20 Years

I never cling on to him. I have given more space than one person can give to a free man. Since we bonded from childhood, he thinks I will always be around. He subtly let me know that too. By him calling me at that late hour, makes me sick to my stomach but I?m sure he was wasted.

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@tauruschic
20 Years1,000+ Posts

You told him what you had to tell him and you did the right thing. He calls late night then don't answer if he calls during the day then you can. It either evolves into something else or ends- simple. Let things take their course.

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@Daydreamer
20 Years

Yes. You are precise, tauruschic.

I said all I have say in the letter. Either he didn't take my letter seriously and think he can sneak one up on me by testing me or he so dam drunk, that gave him the nerve to pick up the phone and call me at that hour. From here on, I will see his true intensions., but right now, he is is not on my wish list.

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@misty
20 Years

yeaa iv learnt that if ur feelin a bit horny b4 u start drinkin best to delete n e numbas from ya fonebook n put them back in the mornin... or else u do feel tempted to give that ex of urz a bit of *hay how youuu doin (joey style s off friends lol)*

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@misty
20 Years

lol haha u cant go past that face..... hahaha hmmm im a big southern comfort fan or rum n diet coke....

hahaha n watever... i know he scratched them... hahaha itz alryt i wont tell... lol