Any Bull Experts Here?

Was seeing a Taurus man and he has me so confused. Anyone have an idea why this one is acting so crazy?

At first he was all over me - couldn't keep his hands to himself..very attentive, calling me several times a day - open and communicative then all of a sudden he went cold. Didn't call as much and would arrange to get together but not follow through. When I called him on his behavior and he said he was confused about what he wanted and needed some time to figure things out. He invited me to stay in touch with him because he definitely wanted to hear from me. I told him to take whatever time he needed...I did contact him a couplr of times to say hi but he didn't respond so I stopped trying. I figured I would hear from him sooner or later.

About three weeks later he left me a message that if I still wanted to talk that he wanted to too...I told him we could and he promised to call that night and then nothing...I didn't hear from him for 2 weeks. I texted him and told him I missed chatting with him...no response. Well this bothers me as I hate being ignored so I sent him a text and told him if he was busy or not interested to say so but not to ignore me... What man contacts a woman to say he wants to continue and then ignores her? ...He called almost immediately and said his grandmother suddenly became very ill and he was dealing with that. He said that I could call anytime but he wouldn't really have much time to talk to me because of his grandmother and that he would call when he could. No way was I going to call him after hearing this so I waited. Well after another week of not hearing anything. I tried contacting him and ended up leaving him a message that said I hit my limit with the situation and I didn't think this was going to work out. Now I know this pretty much guarantees that I will never hear from him again and that is ok because I don't deserve this kind of treatment from anyone no matter how much I liked him plus his behavior was driving me crazy.

Still, I can't help wondering about this behavior. I thought maybe was seeing someone else but why contact me? What man contacts a woman just so he can ignore her? What is the point? Is this typical Taurus behavior?

"any bull experts here?"

I should say so !

you see the bull, in it's natural habitat, will not charge unless angered.....

*giggle*

okay okay I'll read your post and be serious....geez.....

this is not typical taurus behavior - I think your bull has contracted "mad cow disease"......

he is mental - leave him alone.

I just went through a similar thing with a Taurus male. the no contact thing seems to be common with Taurus males. I don't get it either and I made contatct to ask for honesty. Which I sort of got...I guess. Infuriating. Lots of posts about Taurus' lack of contact.

Im a Taurus female, but I agree Merc...put the phone down, stop pushing buttons and come see me! It must be something else in my chart but when Im interested in someone and I know it (after dragging my feet to run all my diagnostics and tests) then I persue it with a vengence. Maybe he's still feeling you out.

I've been seeing a Taurus on/off for the past 4 years. Mines is exactly the same as yours. In the beginning (whenever we start seeing each other again) he can NOT keep his naughty little hands off me, feeds me the perfect lines to get whatever he wants. When I cave in (I'm a stupid emotional cancer that falls for BS >.> shame on me) he'll start being cold and distant (as in not calling/texting as much...not picking up the phone/answering texts even though he asks me to call/text whenever). My Taurus has a taste for multiple women~ (even though he claims he has "changed" and now wants to be in a relationship yadda yadda) and yes I finally caught him red handed 😉 perhaps yours is the same?

misu, i know where you are. my taurus is just like yours. when we first started dating, he wouldnt stop touching me and kissing me and he does say the sweetest things for me to fall for him. but word of advice! dont fall for it! bulls know how to shovel the "bull." when he texts me, i usually wait 4-5 minutes before texting him back and i usually never text him first. and yes, he does have a need for lots of women near him. (he's had a lot of girlfriends and hook-ups) but i know he won't cheat. well, i hope not... (;

actually, TORO, i think you're right in that it's not a taurus thang. That joker just doesn't know what he wants. becuase when a taurus man knows what he wants he's very consistent, firm and predictbale in his reliability.

Yo Merc, RIGHT on point. Ironically, email is an irritant too. People use communications too much as a copout for rela interaction.

Didnt realize that not liking this was a Taurus trait though.