Any Taurus man with some insight?

My Taurus exboyfriend and I broke up because he has to work on himself, heal some pain he hadn’t processed, find himself again and get his life(career) straight. He thinks it’s better to not be together because he was more focused on me and my happiness than in himself( I told him that that wasn’t his fault, my happiness is my responsability and I believe he was focusing on me to avoid working on himself) it was devastating to say goodbye. There were no major issues in the relationship and we were still in love. As the Taurus man he is he doesn’t really express how he feels. He did say I will always have a special place in his heart. I don’t really know what that implies. (Any suggestion—) I’m mad at him for it being able to go though this hard time with me next to him. I feel bitter because I feel I wasn’t good enough... I wanna know if any Taurus man around here can give me some insight on how he might feel... good or bad I need to understand to move on..

Thats just nonsense breaking up because of his personal situation. If he has personal problems he shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. And focusing on you instead himself is bullcrap also. Why not both at the same time? You know, with good times I don't need anybody but with bad times having someone on your side is always good.

Being in a special place in his heart is like a farewell to me (or for the time being). You should have felt his feelings if he really loved you otherwise he never (really, deeply) did.

You shouldn't feel bad at all about yourself for not being good enough, this is clearly his decision/fault.

Im not sure how he would feel; Lost interest, really has problems, wants to be alone, has someone else.. Hard to read with that kind of answers from his side. We are normally very clear with what we say but in this case its different.

Give it some time for now I would say.

I don't understand some of these weird type Taurus guys.. Im one too and I definitly wouldn't do like him. But hey, not everyone is me.

How long were the both of you in a relationship?

Is/Was he unemployed?

This past hurt, where did it stem from? An ex-girlfriend? Family Trauma?

Here we go again, typical taurus excuse - when they cannot blurt it out like a man.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

How long were the both of you in a relationship?

Is/Was he unemployed?

This past hurt, where did it stem from? An ex-girlfriend? Family Trauma?

About 8 months...

yes he is.. he finished his master in finance before the summer...

annnd I do know the ex he had 3 years ago cheated on him but I hope for him he’s over that...

and indeed it was family trauma being he didn’t really processed when it happened and it’s sort of coming back now

Hope this gives you more insight

Posted by Majin

Thats just nonsense breaking up because of his personal situation. If he has personal problems he shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. And focusing on you instead himself is bullcrap also. Why not both at the same time? You know, with good times I don't need anybody but with bad times having someone on your side is always good.

Being in a special place in his heart is like a farewell to me (or for the time being). You should have felt his feelings if he really loved you otherwise he never (really, deeply) did.

You shouldn't feel bad at all about yourself for not being good enough, this is clearly his decision/fault.

Im not sure how he would feel; Lost interest, really has problems, wants to be alone, has someone else.. Hard to read with that kind of answers from his side. We are normally very clear with what we say but in this case its different.

Give it some time for now I would say.

I don't understand some of these weird type Taurus guys.. Im one too and I definitly wouldn't do like him. But hey, not everyone is me.

Thanks for the insight. Actually helpful.

I’m sort of mad at him for pushing me away when he needed company the most. But I have also come to understand that to find oneself I believe it is better to be alone..

But indeed the only thing I can do now is give it time.. I wish him the best but positive part.. now I have more time to work on myself!

Thank you for your time! Appreciate it

Posted by LibraCancer05

Posted by Majin

Thats just nonsense breaking up because of his personal situation. If he has personal problems he shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. And focusing on you instead himself is bullcrap also. Why not both at the same time? You know, with good times I don't need anybody but with bad times having someone on your side is always good.

Being in a special place in his heart is like a farewell to me (or for the time being). You should have felt his feelings if he really loved you otherwise he never (really, deeply) did.

You shouldn't feel bad at all about yourself for not being good enough, this is clearly his decision/fault.

Im not sure how he would feel; Lost interest, really has problems, wants to be alone, has someone else.. Hard to read with that kind of answers from his side. We are normally very clear with what we say but in this case its different.

Give it some time for now I would say.

I don't understand some of these weird type Taurus guys.. Im one too and I definitly wouldn't do like him. But hey, not everyone is me.

Thanks for the insight. Actually helpful.

I’m sort of mad at him for pushing me away when he needed company the most. But I have also come to understand that to find oneself I believe it is better to be alone..

But indeed the only thing I can do now is give it time.. I wish him the best but positive part.. now I have more time to work on myself!

Thank you for your time! Appreciate it

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I'm not a male but I am a Taurus and I can understand what he means. I feel like I had issues with myself and instead of focusing on that while in my relationship I was focusing on my partner. Giving a 150% so that I could hold on to him because I was insecure with childhood abuse issues and I felt that was the only way I could keep him. It might be an excuse but it might also be coming for a real place. I have a hard time of letting go as a Taurus sun, aqua moon and leo rising so I can understand where he is coming from. I'm usually a very giving person in relationships but I was accepting stuff I never would have if I had loved myself and dealt with the issues that I had. My partner would always ask me if I wanted sometime to work on myself and I would always say no out of fear of losing him. If he really loves you he will want you back after resolving his issues. I feel I love myself more and I am also more deeply in love with my partner because of the distance between us (long distance relationship for the past 5 months) The distance apart helped me to stop using him as a crutch and stand strongly on my own. I feel like we bought can feel that the things I do for him is now from a more genuine place of love. I feel strong enough to know I love and want him but that I will do just fine without him if we don't work out. You can't lose in this situation. Either you guys will have a better relationship or you'll save yourself wasted time.

Posted by LibraCancer05

Posted by Majin

Thats just nonsense breaking up because of his personal situation. If he has personal problems he shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. And focusing on you instead himself is bullcrap also. Why not both at the same time? You know, with good times I don't need anybody but with bad times having someone on your side is always good.

Being in a special place in his heart is like a farewell to me (or for the time being). You should have felt his feelings if he really loved you otherwise he never (really, deeply) did.

You shouldn't feel bad at all about yourself for not being good enough, this is clearly his decision/fault.

Im not sure how he would feel; Lost interest, really has problems, wants to be alone, has someone else.. Hard to read with that kind of answers from his side. We are normally very clear with what we say but in this case its different.

Give it some time for now I would say.

I don't understand some of these weird type Taurus guys.. Im one too and I definitly wouldn't do like him. But hey, not everyone is me.

Thanks for the insight. Actually helpful.

I’m sort of mad at him for pushing me away when he needed company the most. But I have also come to understand that to find oneself I believe it is better to be alone..

But indeed the only thing I can do now is give it time.. I wish him the best but positive part.. now I have more time to work on myself!

Thank you for your time! Appreciate it

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You're welcome.

Posted by Lizrose

Posted by LibraCancer05

Posted by Majin

Thats just nonsense breaking up because of his personal situation. If he has personal problems he shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. And focusing on you instead himself is bullcrap also. Why not both at the same time? You know, with good times I don't need anybody but with bad times having someone on your side is always good.

Being in a special place in his heart is like a farewell to me (or for the time being). You should have felt his feelings if he really loved you otherwise he never (really, deeply) did.

You shouldn't feel bad at all about yourself for not being good enough, this is clearly his decision/fault.

Im not sure how he would feel; Lost interest, really has problems, wants to be alone, has someone else.. Hard to read with that kind of answers from his side. We are normally very clear with what we say but in this case its different.

Give it some time for now I would say.

I don't understand some of these weird type Taurus guys.. Im one too and I definitly wouldn't do like him. But hey, not everyone is me.

Thanks for the insight. Actually helpful.

I’m sort of mad at him for pushing me away when he needed company the most. But I have also come to understand that to find oneself I believe it is better to be alone..

But indeed the only thing I can do now is give it time.. I wish him the best but positive part.. now I have more time to work on myself!

Thank you for your time! Appreciate it

I'm not a male but I am a Taurus and I can understand what he means. I feel like I had issues with myself and instead of focusing on that while in my relationship I was focusing on my partner. Giving a 150% so that I could hold on to him because I was insecure with childhood abuse issues and I felt that was the only way I could keep him. It might be an excuse but it might also be coming for a real place. I have a hard time of letting go as a Taurus sun, aqua moon and leo rising so I can understand where he is coming from. I'm usually a very giving person in relationships but I was accepting stuff I never would have if I had loved myself and dealt with the issues that I had. My partner would always ask me if I wanted sometime to work on myself and I would always say no out of fear of losing him. If he really loves you he will want you back after resolving his issues. I feel I love myself more and I am also more deeply in love with my partner because of the distance between us (long distance relationship for the past 5 months) The distance apart helped me to stop using him as a crutch and stand strongly on my own. I feel like we bought can feel that the things I do for him is now from a more genuine place of love. I feel strong enough to know I love and want him but that I will do just fine without him if we don't work out. You can't lose in this situation. Either you guys will have a better relationship or you'll save yourself wasted time.

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Thank you thank you for the insight!

You are right I can’t lose neither way!

Much appreciated 🙏🏼