VirgoLady2009
@VirgoLady2009
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Are all Taurus men this hard to read?
He's been out of town and just got back... let him get into his new routine!!
He's probably jet lagged, unpacking, figuring things out work wise, or he could be clipping his toe nails.
It is ONLY WEDNESDAY! Calm down, focus on you... take up golfing or something. You're going to suffocate the man... do your own thing and don't be all consumed.
Look if you're going to be with a Taurus man you have to get used to that disconnect at times.
I can tell you right now as a Taurus venus and moon... sometimes.. I just DON'T want to be bothered. Leave me alone and decompress. I'll come back, but if you smother... forget about it. I will let you go or just straight up tell you to sod off.
You got your attention, now let him focus on other things, let him get his mind right. Silence doesn't necessarily mean ther is an issue with you. The issue is you NOT letting the man live and breathe.
He's probably jet lagged, unpacking, figuring things out work wise, or he could be clipping his toe nails.
It is ONLY WEDNESDAY! Calm down, focus on you... take up golfing or something. You're going to suffocate the man... do your own thing and don't be all consumed.
Look if you're going to be with a Taurus man you have to get used to that disconnect at times.
I can tell you right now as a Taurus venus and moon... sometimes.. I just DON'T want to be bothered. Leave me alone and decompress. I'll come back, but if you smother... forget about it. I will let you go or just straight up tell you to sod off.
You got your attention, now let him focus on other things, let him get his mind right. Silence doesn't necessarily mean ther is an issue with you. The issue is you NOT letting the man live and breathe.
Give the guy a couple of weeks. Be alarmed if you haven't heard back after 2-3 weeks. If you're that worried, contact/call him yourself then to see what's up. If you haven't heard anything in a month, move on. We know who we want at the end of the day. At the same time, we're slow as hell and take a bit to get back into the routine of things.
In the mean time, keep yourself occupied! Don't suffocate the dude. Nobody likes stage 5 clingers.
Posted by Redoctober2000Lol! You really have me laughing over here...But I know its been only 4 days but geez... he hasn't text me or called yet. Just last month he was calling and texting me everyday & then right after I see him, hes gone like the wind...Posted by VirgoLady2009Only FOUR DAYS... Lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol
I met this Taurus man about two years ago. He has a traveling job which caused us to lose touch. In July, we reconnected on social media. He was living in Brazil at the time and we spoke on the phone/facetime non-stop everyday. He made all kinds of promises that we will be together when he returns home in September...
Well September is finally here and I only seen him once this past weekend. When we were together he couldn't keep his hands off of me. We had a really good time and couldn't stop kissing each other before we parted ways. Since then I haven't heard from him at all. No text messages, no phone calls,...nothing. I even tried reaching out to him to see how he was doing and he told me he was out at the club. I haven't heard anything since then... Its been four days now lol...
I get the feeling that's hes no longer interested but a part of me believes otherwise. He is a Taurus Sun, Taurus Moon. Can anyone help a sister out? lol
Thanks!
You seem to have "DESPERATE" written on your forehead... As an individual you need to have a life of your own!!!
He kept his promise it is Sept and he is with you... What more do you want?
Once a week to begin with is fine... Don't keep hounding him or he will be gone quicker than you can say "houdini"!
.... You girls are funny.... 4 days... Lol lol lol lol
No one understands a Taurus better than a Taurus and a few honorary libras (Libraurus 😉) lol lolclick to expand
Posted by NotSoInstantI know 4 days isn't much but going from talking to someone everyday to missing 4 days is a red flag to me...maybe I'm thinking too much into it. I am not sure of his Asc...Posted by VirgoLady2009Hmmm....
I met this Taurus man about two years ago. He has a traveling job which caused us to lose touch. In July, we reconnected on social media. He was living in Brazil at the time and we spoke on the phone/facetime non-stop everyday. He made all kinds of promises that we will be together when he returns home in September...
Well September is finally here and I only seen him once this past weekend. When we were together he couldn't keep his hands off of me. We had a really good time and couldn't stop kissing each other before we parted ways. Since then I haven't heard from him at all. No text messages, no phone calls,...nothing. I even tried reaching out to him to see how he was doing and he told me he was out at the club. I haven't heard anything since then... Its been four days now lol...
I get the feeling that's hes no longer interested but a part of me believes otherwise. He is a Taurus Sun, Taurus Moon. Can anyone help a sister out? lol
Thanks!
I know others said give him space... And yeah four days is nothing. But you said he promised ALL kinds of promises. What is his Asc? Hoping he doesn't have a fifth house stellium.
Based on what I have noticed about Taurus guys, if they are really into you, you will know it. They are super territorial and would want to be around and they make it a point that others know it too.
And when you called him, consider his tone when he told you he was at the club. Was it a careless reply? Or was it said in a way to impress you? Did he tell you when he will get in touch? I mean, most men when they are interested give tons of clues that aren't hard to read....
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I sent him a text asking how was he doing and he replied 3 hours later saying 'I'm in the club babe.' I replied and I said okay, have a great time 🙂 and I haven't heard from him since.
If I feel like I've got you locked down and I'm busy, I might make you wait a few days.
You went from phone calls to kissing non stop after meeting once? Hmm...
Posted by jeaneLol, I've known him for sometime... he wasn't a total stranger to me lol
You went from phone calls to kissing non stop after meeting once? Hmm...
Posted by SensitiveBluesI'm a earth sign too and Im not a user lol ...maybe fixed earth signs
so he was using you for emotional support while he was overseas now that he's in his comfort zone he doesn't contact you
are all earth signs users?
Posted by VirgoLady2009OK. Time will tell.Posted by jeaneLol, I've known him for sometime... he wasn't a total stranger to me lol
You went from phone calls to kissing non stop after meeting once? Hmm...click to expand
Posted by TaurusinTexasThis makes sense to me. I'd give him his space and a little time.
If I feel like I've got you locked down and I'm busy, I might make you wait a few days.
He seemed happy to see you so, I'd hang onto that.
Posted by VirgoLady2009Give it a little more time. Welcome to the waiting game. 🙂
I met this Taurus man about two years ago. He has a traveling job which caused us to lose touch. In July, we reconnected on social media. He was living in Brazil at the time and we spoke on the phone/facetime non-stop everyday. He made all kinds of promises that we will be together when he returns home in September...
Well September is finally here and I only seen him once this past weekend. When we were together he couldn't keep his hands off of me. We had a really good time and couldn't stop kissing each other before we parted ways. Since then I haven't heard from him at all. No text messages, no phone calls,...nothing. I even tried reaching out to him to see how he was doing and he told me he was out at the club. I haven't heard anything since then... Its been four days now lol...
I get the feeling that's hes no longer interested but a part of me believes otherwise. He is a Taurus Sun, Taurus Moon. Can anyone help a sister out? lol
Thanks!
Posted by TaurusinTexas
If I feel like I've got you locked down and I'm busy, I might make you wait a few days.
This^^^
Don't chase him. That means no 'how are you?' texts etc which is your way of trying to gain his attention. It doesn't serve any purpose other than you then agonising about how long he's taken to reply and his short responses. Mirror him so if/when he messages you then you message him back. Keep it simple. Don't initiate. If you're constantly initiating or chasing him you'll never really know how genuine he is about you.
I'm sure he's lovely and his shit smells like roses but there's no need to get your knickers in a twist over him. There's other guys out there to date. Get busy with things and if he's interested he'll contact you. If he's not then he won't.
Has Sensitive said, he may have been using you to cure boredom or for support while he was away.
Posted by VirgoLady2009
He made all kinds of promises that we will be together when he returns home in September...
"We will be together" is not a promise, it's an empty declaration.
You're currently in a relationship, or you're not.
This reaffirms that the two of you were not exclusive, just chatting via social media.
He's back home in September, and now he's going to see whether there is potential for a relationship.
In the meantime he will also keep his options open.
This is the issue I have with modern technology in regards to social media, everything is desensitized, and impersonal, even the courting process.
Unless you're 'in' the moment with this individual, genuine connections are not being made.
My advice, keep your options and open, but still get to know him.
After all, you're not in a relationship.
FYI,
Bulls are not 'talkers.'
We observe, use caution, we're internal thinkers....
After careful thought and consideration, when it's safe to proceed,
Then we take action.
Any Bull will tell you that.
This Bull sounds like a 'talker'.....be careful!
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