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Bull Wants To Cook Me Dinner. This A Ploy To Get Me Back In Bed?
Are Bulls Using Dinner to Reignite Intimacy
In astrology, Taurus men are often associated with a strong sexual appetite and a love for comfort. Their gestures like cooking dinner can be genuine or a way to create closeness. Trust your instincts and consider his overall behavior to determine if his intentions are sincere or if he's trying to rekindle intimacy.
ok simple rule, always assume yes... and don't agree to go to a dudes house, unless you know already before hand you want to fuck him.
Well not a lot of information to go on here but probably yes......... I know if I need to make up to you, I will cook you right into a food coma of love. :
Will it work?
Posted by Astrobyn
ok simple rule, always assume yes... and don't agree to go to a dudes house, unless you know already before hand you want to treetrunk him.
Well we've only treetrunked once.
I guess I should give you guys a little more background info lol.
Rekindled with an ex from years ago. He set up a romantic Valentines Day date for us. We slept together. I wasn't sure what i wanted so I went MIA. Actually ignored him for a bit (terrible I know) but he kept trying. He calls me drunk saying he misses me. Last week there was a bad storm so contacted me to make sure I was okay, so he's a nice guy but still you never know. Still have yet to see him again despite him still asking almost every week to see me (been traveling for work a lot this past month so haven't had time). Told me a few days ago how he wanted to hold me.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Will it work?
Nope. Not comfortable. I mean I would like to lol, but just not ready to again. Now I’ll take responsibility for sleeping with him so soon. I knew that I didn’t want a relationship and was okay with having sex with him (only once by the way). Afterwards I realized that just sleeping with someone for physical needs isn’t for me.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Will it work?Nope. Not comfortable. I mean I would like to lol, but just not ready to again. Now I’ll take responsibility for sleeping with him so soon. I knew that I didn’t want a relationship and was okay with having sex with him (only once by the way). Afterwards I realized that just sleeping with someone for physical needs isn’t for me.
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Do you trust yourself though?
Like if you go over there for dinner are you going to be able to control yourself and get through dinner without jumping on his lap?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Will it work?Nope. Not comfortable. I mean I would like to lol, but just not ready to again. Now I’ll take responsibility for sleeping with him so soon. I knew that I didn’t want a relationship and was okay with having sex with him (only once by the way). Afterwards I realized that just sleeping with someone for physical needs isn’t for me.
Do you trust yourself though?
Like if you go over there for dinner are you going to be able to control yourself and get through dinner without jumping on his lap?
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Yes. The way I freaked out and felt so icky afterwards I really don't want experience that again until I know if this is going somewhere.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Will it work?Nope. Not comfortable. I mean I would like to lol, but just not ready to again. Now I’ll take responsibility for sleeping with him so soon. I knew that I didn’t want a relationship and was okay with having sex with him (only once by the way). Afterwards I realized that just sleeping with someone for physical needs isn’t for me.
Do you trust yourself though?
Like if you go over there for dinner are you going to be able to control yourself and get through dinner without jumping on his lap?
Yes. The way I freaked out and felt so icky afterwards I really don't want experience that again until I know if this is going somewhere.
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Than let him cook you dinner.
Just stay strong and end the night with a kiss and hug instead of sex.
why don't you just go out to dinner instead?
Posted by jeane
why don't you just go out to dinner instead?
I'll suggest that. Just the fact that he wanted to cook dinner at his place in the first place just rubbed me the wrong way I guess. I don't want to be used for just sex.
Posted by jeane
why don't you just go out to dinner instead?I'll suggest that. Just the fact that he wanted to cook dinner at his place in the first place just rubbed me the wrong way I guess. I don't want to be used for just sex.
I think this is something you'll have to share with him, in the future. It could be an innocent offer and your discomfort causes you to misinterpret his intentions. I don't know what he wants from it, maybe sex, maybe simply enjoying your company over dinner and nothing else.
But don't jump to conclusions. Hopefully, he'll be open about what he's looking for.click to expand
agreed. most things can be solved by communication.
Yeah, inviting you over with a meal involves sexxx, mind this.
I agree ^^^
You need to have this conversation with him. Find out what he wants from you overall. Is it relationship or sex etc. Then you need to see if it matches what you want. If you're not ready for something more but have found sex for the sake of sex not for you then perhaps you might be able to be friends and build a good friendship first.
Posted by TaurusMarine
Yeah, inviting you over with a meal involves sexxx, mind this.
Thanks! Here's the thing I get that once you've had sex whether they like you or not they're still going to want to have sex it's the deciphering if it's just about sex part is the hard part lol. Just kind of kicking myself in the pants because I really didn't want anything with this guy at all. Zilch.
He knew I was okay with having sex with him so when Valentines Day came around I was surprised that he put effort into it. Once I saw that he put in effort I started to become kind of curious. Then I freaked out because because I didn't know what I wanted I just went MIA. He contacted me one week and I didn't respond. Then the next week he contacted me again and eventually I stopped responding (again terrible I know). Then I started to be receptive and made sure to reach out to him this time and he said he wanted to see me (couldn't because of work). Then he calls me and is texting me drunk saying how he missed me.Then we had a bad storm and he reached out to ask if I was okay and checked up on me, so he's a nice guy. Then asked to see me but told him I went home for my mother's birthday and he said "oh ok" so I just didn't reply back. The next day he texted me at later in the evening saying he wanted to come hold me and then yesterday he mentioned dinner.
So just kicking myself for sleeping with him so early. Either way I'll still communicate with him. At least set some boundaries and tell him that I'm not comfortable with certain things.
Posted by TaurusMarine
Yeah, inviting you over with a meal involves sexxx, mind this.Thanks! Here's the thing I get that once you've had sex whether they like you or not they're still going to want to have sex it's the deciphering if it's just about sex part is the hard part lol. Just kind of kicking myself in the pants because I really didn't want anything with this guy at all. Zilch.
He knew I was okay with having sex with him so when Valentines Day came around I was surprised that he put effort into it. Once I saw that he put in effort I started to become kind of curious. Then I freaked out because because I didn't know what I wanted I just went MIA. He contacted me one week and I didn't respond. Then the next week he contacted me again and eventually I stopped responding (again terrible I know). Then I started to be receptive and made sure to reach out to him this time and he said he wanted to see me (couldn't because of work). Then he calls me and is texting me drunk saying how he missed me.Then we had a bad storm and he reached out to ask if I was okay and checked up on me, so he's a nice guy. Then asked to see me but told him I went home for my mother's birthday and he said "oh ok" so I just didn't reply back. The next day he texted me at later in the evening saying he wanted to come hold me and then yesterday he mentioned dinner.
So just kicking myself for sleeping with him so early. Either way I'll still communicate with him. At least set some boundaries and tell him that I'm not comfortable with certain things.
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Posted by TaurusMarine
Yeah, inviting you over with a meal involves sexxx, mind this.Thanks! Here's the thing I get that once you've had sex whether they like you or not they're still going to want to have sex it's the deciphering if it's just about sex part is the hard part lol. Just kind of kicking myself in the pants because I really didn't want anything with this guy at all. Zilch.
He knew I was okay with having sex with him so when Valentines Day came around I was surprised that he put effort into it. Once I saw that he put in effort I started to become kind of curious. Then I freaked out because because I didn't know what I wanted I just went MIA. He contacted me one week and I didn't respond. Then the next week he contacted me again and eventually I stopped responding (again terrible I know). Then I started to be receptive and made sure to reach out to him this time and he said he wanted to see me (couldn't because of work). Then he calls me and is texting me drunk saying how he missed me.Then we had a bad storm and he reached out to ask if I was okay and checked up on me, so he's a nice guy. Then asked to see me but told him I went home for my mother's birthday and he said "oh ok" so I just didn't reply back. The next day he texted me at later in the evening saying he wanted to come hold me and then yesterday he mentioned dinner.
So just kicking myself for sleeping with him so early. Either way I'll still communicate with him. At least set some boundaries and tell him that I'm not comfortable with certain things.
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Thanks for the video. I don't think I'm making myself too available for him. I am seeing other guys as well. My issue here is I have only slept with a few people and it was only when we were in a relationship. This is new territory for me and I'm just not sure how to handle it unfortunately.
Posted by TaurusMarine
Yeah, inviting you over with a meal involves sexxx, mind this.
unless she knows how to say no.
Yes probably..
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I know bulls are known for having a healthy sexual appetite then I was also told they're known for being sneaky as well. I Can't decide if I'm being overly cautious or just paranoid here lol.
Him wanting to cook dinner=get her back into my bed?