Can a Fling Turn Into The Real Thing with u T men? (Page 2)

Posted by IntriguedScorp
Hi Moodz,

This sounds like a typical Taurus mating dance...give a little, pull back, flirt with a few women, go back. Rinse. Repeat. And it works. Because now you are madly in love with him. But before you were just thinking: maybe I'm getting feelings. He pulled back and it pulled you closer. See how that works?

On the other hand, this also helps the Bull weed out the women who will never make it to the second level. You need to be STRONG to be with a male Taurus. You need to be fiercely independent and not prone to drama. The woman who goes off on her own life when he's pulling away is the one he'll keep coming back to. Guaranteed.

Bulls are slow. This pulling back thing can go on for a year or more. You either see it for what it is or you get out.

Hope that helps. 🙂

So the one that puts him on ignore is the one that get's him? Sounds like I would be in a relationship with myself. I'm actually ignoring one now that left then returned with vigor and passion only to not set a date to meet and cancel the ones we did set. What's up with that?

Posted by IntriguedScorp
Hi Moodz,

This sounds like a typical Taurus mating dance...give a little, pull back, flirt with a few women, go back. Rinse. Repeat. And it works. Because now you are madly in love with him. But before you were just thinking: maybe I'm getting feelings. He pulled back and it pulled you closer. See how that works?

On the other hand, this also helps the Bull weed out the women who will never make it to the second level. You need to be STRONG to be with a male Taurus. You need to be fiercely independent and not prone to drama. The woman who goes off on her own life when he's pulling away is the one he'll keep coming back to. Guaranteed.

Bulls are slow. This pulling back thing can go on for a year or more. You either see it for what it is or you get out.

Hope that helps. 🙂

Sounds about right. The only thing I don't like about their mating dance is that it is full of manipulation and games the very thing a relationship shoulndt be based on. And the nerve of them to want a strong partner which they themselves aren't, if they were truely strong they wouldnt have to play games to get what they want.

One of the bulls called me today and he got sent to vm.

Moodz, I too have a situation with a Taurus man, and I will say tell him how you feel. My guy told me that he wanted to go his separate ways when i told him how I felt not because of how I felt but because he felt that I should have told him sooner. You can ask him if he will let you as well. Do put yourself in a box because of the sex.

Also, be strong, as long as you think he is worth it got for it. I am in a pickle of a situation with my Taurus man but through all the emotions he is worth it but he is slow.

I don't know if he is worth it. I'm being very honest here. I broke things off with him and deep down I still miss him and I still think about him. I put way too much effort and my time for a man who wasn't really interested. Maybe I was trying to hard.. Who knows. I havn't heard from him in a while so I think things are deffinitely done and over with. I know where I went wrong with this whole relationship and I tried to fix things by being honest and open about my true feelings..in the end he just didn't want to be committed.. At least that's the vibe I got from him. Its too bad though when we were together he was the most lovable thing like a big teddy bear..besides the stupid things he did he really was a nice guy.. He just wasn't ready 😢

Its funny how we have to go through these things to really open our eyes and see the real truth..ohh well

Moodz what happened with the fish?

we still talking (just talking), but I feel as if he playing games.. he cancled on me twice.. his reasons seem too exagerated. I am giving him the benefit of the doubt thoough. I am feeling him out. overall he seems like a cool person, But I am having a hard time believing what he says. I don't know we will see what happens.

Hi tiki, I am a taurean guy and I have to say that your advice is spot on. I once knew a girl who acted exactly like Moodz has and it made me run for the hills too. Yes we had sex but I noticed a number of things about her, they way she portrayed herself, the fact she was clingy & always contacted me everyday really did push me away. The number of texts and voicemails made me not want to contact her at all. After a while I received abusive messages from her as well as a friend of hers. Could you blame me for not reciprocating communication? My alarm bells went off a long time before that and I knew this woman was not relationship material for me. I have always enjoyed my own independence, I don't need someone smothering me 24/7 and people with low self esteem do push me away. The clingy & needy types do not attract me whatsoever even though they always seem to become attracted to me.

SBull what was this girl's sign? Not all women are clingy and crazy. I enjoy my independence too, but I don't mind that it's natural to want to be with that person often.

I have to agre with Lunarmaiden not all girls are clingy and needy. It seems to me that moodz did give the guy his space, he just wasn't feeling her the same way. she didn't come off as clingy to me. she loved the guy and there is nothing wrong to want to be with the person u care for. Yes she did have her insecurities that was obvious, but sometimes those energies come out when there is rejection.

Moodz don't worry what people say on here. That relationship was between you and that man. you came on here to get advice and you got different opinions. You tried your best and he didn't reciprocate. You just keep looking out for yourself. I said this to you once before guard your heart don't give it up to the wrong person.. you deserve better and deep down inside I know you know this too. I am glad you chose to leave him you deserve to be happy. Don't worry eventually somebody will come along and sweep you off your feet and this man here will be nothing but a distant memory.

Take care of you first..