
jeane
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Posted by busyeyes88This was before Mothers Day. I asked if he was planning anything for his mom, then he began his story... I found it extremely interesting how it then led into his own, former, marriage.Posted by SophiaEvaBut I don't reveal anything unless asked. Your taurus reveals alot.. I'm closed. Even the taurus could not open me up even after 5 months of trying.
I love telling people about my life, all the time. Like Jeane said, Makes people feel closer. Intimate parts of my life are hidden, or shared to inner circle.
For example, I find Taurus telling me, after 4 weeks, his parents divorce, how it affected his childhood, his mother being sick in her older years, how he has to take of her financially... etc ... I believe that to be intimate details of one's life you don't share normally share with people you just meet.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88all that fire combined with stable Taurus sun, sounds like you are the woman in charge, lady who wears the pants in the relationship 😉 doesn't sound like a bad thing to me because at least you know who you are!Posted by SophiaEvaPolitely asked for his view in a Leo moon kind of dramatic way!! I don't know why I needed to. His affirmation when we were together and he told me to my face that he enjoyed the time we spent for me to stay in touch etc. Shot self in foot! It's hard being a Leo rising with a Leo moon, an Aries in merc and a venus pisces!! One hot mess!!! Lol
Did you really "want" his view or did you "demand" it? If you demanded it, then you probably fucked yourself on this one. He'll most likely dissappear for a while and come back when he thinks it's safe. That can be days, weeks, or months. When a guy/girl needs, wants, demands and answer we feel threatened and dissappear. It's to let people know "CALM THE FUCK DOWN!" in a not so subtle way.needless to say, we are difficult but extremely loyal once you have us.click to expand


Posted by SophiaEvaSo you guys hold back, until the other person is brave enough to open up, and then you open up? not fair.. say you feel, don't wait for the other person to say it first.
@Busyeyes88, that's what we do. We are crazy extreme people when we like someone, we will do strange things, behave strange. Yes, you are building trust and that's good. It will get you what you want faster. It's ok for you to be open about yourself, in the beginning of course. Libra needs to see you completely vulnerable first, before they can/will completely open up.


Posted by SophiaEvapossibly, some tauruses are very bold. They might not come right out and tell you, but if you ask them a question, it is unlikely that they will dodge it. You should expect an honest and straight forward answer.
Would Taurus purposely divulge intimate details about his/her life to someone new, or to anyone?

Posted by jeanewhy do you take years to open up to someone? You complicate things when it doesn't have to be that complicated. What I often see and dislike with Libras is that in their mind they are always putting things off until 'the right time', or 'soon', whether that may be opening up to someone, confessing their love to someone, or about their home life, upbringing, family, love life, etc...
for myself it is a small trick i use. i give the impression of being very open so people feel comfortable. when you really take a hard look at it, i haven't been open at all. like sophia says, that takes years.
Posted by mysteriousTaurus@mysteriousTaurus, I should have clarified on this.Posted by SophiaEvaSo you guys hold back, until the other person is brave enough to open up, and then you open up? not fair.. say you feel, don't wait for the other person to say it first.
@Busyeyes88, that's what we do. We are crazy extreme people when we like someone, we will do strange things, behave strange. Yes, you are building trust and that's good. It will get you what you want faster. It's ok for you to be open about yourself, in the beginning of course. Libra needs to see you completely vulnerable first, before they can/will completely open up.click to expand
Posted by mysteriousTaurusI feel the same way about Taurus 😢Posted by jeanewhy do you take years to open up to someone? You complicate things when it doesn't have to be that complicated. What I often see and dislike with Libras is that in their mind they are always putting things off until 'the right time', or 'soon', whether that may be opening up to someone, confessing their love to someone, or about their home life, upbringing, family, love life, etc...
for myself it is a small trick i use. i give the impression of being very open so people feel comfortable. when you really take a hard look at it, i haven't been open at all. like sophia says, that takes years.
This bothers me because you guys always think 'there's always tomorrow', but that is not true. You are capable of dying any given second, getting hit by a car, brain aneurysm, getting shot, heart attack, the list goes on... How would you feel if the person you loved died right now and you never got a chance to tell that person how you really felt because you are just 'waiting' for the 'perfect time'. Or what if, God forbid, you die, if you believe in heaven, you will watch your secretly beloved be heart broken over your death, at least confessing your love to him/her will offer them some sort of closure as they are heart broken over your absence.
I try to explain this to my female Libra best friend all the time and she will never understand, she simply doesn't care, she is only set on her ways and that's final. Life is short and tomorrow is not always guaranteed.
I'm not saying you need to express and communicate every single emotion you have with everyone, but I agree with Busy, take action in your life, if you like someone tell them, if you want something more, tell them. Why wait? For what? For you to grow older and weaker? Time is against us on Earth and I will not sit back and watch the person I love fade away as he finds someone else while I am too busy being indecisive.
I'm clearly rambling now, sorry, I hope you guys see my point, at least just a little bit. *crosses fingers*click to expand


Posted by SophiaEvahow do i reassure my libra the same —? 😢 i dont think he knows...
How do I reassure my Taurus I am the person he's looking for and will never hurt him??

Posted by SophiaEvaPosted by mysteriousTaurus@mysteriousTaurus, I should have clarified on this.Posted by SophiaEvaSo you guys hold back, until the other person is brave enough to open up, and then you open up? not fair.. say you feel, don't wait for the other person to say it first.
@Busyeyes88, that's what we do. We are crazy extreme people when we like someone, we will do strange things, behave strange. Yes, you are building trust and that's good. It will get you what you want faster. It's ok for you to be open about yourself, in the beginning of course. Libra needs to see you completely vulnerable first, before they can/will completely open up.
1) When someone is trying to attract Libra's attention, libra will be skeptical, will try to subtlety decipher the other persons intent through a technique of "trust me." We need to know what the other person is after? Will they harm us? Are they trying to use me? Are they sincere? Is this a rebound? Will this person affect my plans? After learning about me, other person can reject me or leave me; complete and total devastation for Libra. Other person needs to always understand that Libra FEARS loss; even if in a secure relationship. The more vulnerable you are (doesn't have to be all the time) means the less likely of you leaving us.
2) When Libra is trying to attract someone else's attention, will most likely provide any information or thing needed to gain; what Libra wants most. Libra always feels and believes there is a necessary sacrifice, something that MUST be given up, in order to make that gain. "No" has little to no meaning to us. This may force us to go to extreme sides, remember we are scales, we only take sides, rarely an in between. Libra is patient and will fight to the death for something/someone, until there is no recourse left, they will hold their head high and completely walk away. No going back.click to expand


Posted by SophiaEvaall of this.
@mysteriousTaurus, I should have clarified on this.
1) When someone is trying to attract Libra's attention, libra will be skeptical, will try to subtlety decipher the other persons intent through a technique of "trust me." We need to know what the other person is after? Will they harm us? Are they trying to use me? Are they sincere? Is this a rebound? Will this person affect my plans? After learning about me, other person can reject me or leave me; complete and total devastation for Libra. Other person needs to always understand that Libra FEARS loss; even if in a secure relationship. The more vulnerable you are (doesn't have to be all the time) means the less likely of you leaving us.
2) When Libra is trying to attract someone else's attention, will most likely provide any information or thing needed to gain; what Libra wants most. Libra always feels and believes there is a necessary sacrifice, something that MUST be given up, in order to make that gain. "No" has little to no meaning to us. This may force us to go to extreme sides, remember we are scales, we only take sides, rarely an in between. Libra is patient and will fight to the death for something/someone, until there is no recourse left, they will hold their head high and completely walk away. No going back.

Posted by mysteriousTaurusall true but i can't fight my innate reaction.
why do you take years to open up to someone? You complicate things when it doesn't have to be that complicated. What I often see and dislike with Libras is that in their mind they are always putting things off until 'the right time', or 'soon', whether that may be opening up to someone, confessing their love to someone, or about their home life, upbringing, family, love life, etc...
This bothers me because you guys always think 'there's always tomorrow', but that is not true. You are capable of dying any given second, getting hit by a car, brain aneurysm, getting shot, heart attack, the list goes on... How would you feel if the person you loved died right now and you never got a chance to tell that person how you really felt because you are just 'waiting' for the 'perfect time'. Or what if, God forbid, you die, if you believe in heaven, you will watch your secretly beloved be heart broken over your death, at least confessing your love to him/her will offer them some sort of closure as they are heart broken over your absence.
I try to explain this to my female Libra best friend all the time and she will never understand, she simply doesn't care, she is only set on her ways and that's final. Life is short and tomorrow is not always guaranteed.
I'm not saying you need to express and communicate every single emotion you have with everyone, but I agree with Busy, take action in your life, if you like someone tell them, if you want something more, tell them. Why wait? For what? For you to grow older and weaker? Time is against us on Earth and I will not sit back and watch the person I love fade away as he finds someone else while I am too busy being indecisive.
Posted by mysteriousTaurusIs there a chance he would stop speaking with me, or completely leave? That's what I'm concerned about. Whenever we see him I always tell him "it's so nice to see you, I have missed you much." Whenever I offer to make plans he says "another day." Every other weekend he's with his kids, so timing has been challenging.
You need to literally tell him. But before you do that, what is his moon?
Taurus is a bold and brave sign, they are expressive in actions and words, if you are the bigger person to confess your feelings first, I' am positive he will looks at you with utmost respect and admiration. Even if he is not into, I'm sure you two will remain friends. Literally anyone would appreciate someone coming forward with their feelings towards that person, who wouldnt?
I remember, back in november when my libra and i were on a break, i developed a massive crush on a leo, and after months of thinking how i was going to tell him how i felt (the leo and i were friends for a year), i finally told him, and when i did. omg! he went bananas! he was sooo shocked, and ecstatic i told him. he had a crush on me too. but he ended up rejecting me because i liked him more than he liked me. but his respect for me never changed, we are civil now.
just imagine how your taurus would feel if he looked you in the eyes and told you he is the person you are looking for and you will never hurt him, wouldnt you just be overwhelmed with joy? make him feel that way 🙂
Posted by mysteriousTaurusWining and dining us is a good start. Actually, it's a little known technique that Scorpio does well to make us feel comfortable to let our guard down a little. It's all about making us feel secure, loved, and needed. Love peoms, we like when someone writes us something, or find something beautiful and reads it to us.Posted by SophiaEvahow do i reassure my libra the same —? 😢 i dont think he knows...
How do I reassure my Taurus I am the person he's looking for and will never hurt him??click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Testing someone is tricky. You have to observe how they treat you infront their friends, in public, and the small things they do, not the big things. Does he always remeber everything you say? Does he bring you coffee/tea in the morning without you having to ask? Does he remeber, maybe you don't like onions and he will remind the server at the restaurant you're at?
@SE
".1) When someone is trying to attract Libra's attention, libra will be skeptical, will try to subtlety decipher the other persons intent through a technique of "trust me." We need to know what the other person is after? Will they harm us? Are they trying to use me? Are they sincere? Is this a rebound? Will this person affect my plans? After learning about me, other person can reject me or leave me; complete and total devastation for Libra. Other person needs to always understand that Libra FEARS loss; even if in a secure relationship. The more vulnerable you are (doesn't have to be all the time) means the less likely of you leaving us.
2) When Libra is trying to attract someone else's attention, will most likely provide any information or thing needed to gain; what Libra wants most. Libra always feels and believes there is a necessary sacrifice, something that MUST be given up, in order to make that gain. "No" has little to no meaning to us. This may force us to go to extreme sides, remember we are scales, we only take sides, rarely an in between. Libra is patient and will fight to the death for something/someone, until there is no recourse left, they will hold their head high and completely walk away. No going back.
Do you do hot and cold tests? What things or actions do you do to see the true intentions of another? Do you test a person by not answering texts or messages and going hot and then cold and see how long the person puts up with it?
Posted by SophiaEvai do notice that Taurus suns, even Moons, strong taurus in charts really do a great analysis. It's as if they are excellent observers. It might just be earth in general, Digging DEEP into the earth, and analyzing good.
Had some time to analyze his behavior,... recently, I'm the only one he hugs. Not with him all the time, but have noticed this over the previous 4 weeks. One of his crushes is fuming, she looks at me with "stares of death." Sometimes I feel as if she would attack me. Anyway, can Taurus identify jealousy with one of the people he's flirting with? Do they do anything about it? Or let it go?
Posted by mysteriousTaurusMy Taurus has Venus in Virgo, had separate topic on that too. Not much advice was offered.Posted by busyeyes88all that fire combined with stable Taurus sun, sounds like you are the woman in charge, lady who wears the pants in the relationship 😉 doesn't sound like a bad thing to me because at least you know who you are!Posted by SophiaEvaPolitely asked for his view in a Leo moon kind of dramatic way!! I don't know why I needed to. His affirmation when we were together and he told me to my face that he enjoyed the time we spent for me to stay in touch etc. Shot self in foot! It's hard being a Leo rising with a Leo moon, an Aries in merc and a venus pisces!! One hot mess!!! Lol
Did you really "want" his view or did you "demand" it? If you demanded it, then you probably fucked yourself on this one. He'll most likely dissappear for a while and come back when he thinks it's safe. That can be days, weeks, or months. When a guy/girl needs, wants, demands and answer we feel threatened and dissappear. It's to let people know "CALM THE FUCK DOWN!" in a not so subtle way.needless to say, we are difficult but extremely loyal once you have us.
I struggle with my placements.
My stable, earthy, bold, decisive, assertive Taurus Sun, argues with my passive, gentle, and indecisive Libra rising, AND to top it off, all my morals, self control, and dignity go BURSTING out of the window like a bomb went off when my Aries Venus decides to make an appearance!!!!
I'M CURSEDclick to expand
Posted by busyeyes88"We speak with our eyes." I was going to ask about that. When he's speaking with other people he stares at me through the corner of his eyes. It's as if he wants see a reaction. He also does the same thing when he pretends to drink water, you know how you tip your head back when you're drinking from a bottle, he does that and stares at me through the corner ofPosted by lisabethur8We do. I have 3 placements in taurus and two in Virgo. I analysed the taurus with the sag moon and VIG for 5 months and that's when I realised we could be nothing but friends. His flighty manner and his talkative flirtatiousness prevented my venus in pisces from trusting it. It could not feel deep with his placements and my venus in pisces needs to have deep soul connection and it can sense this within people of interest.Posted by SophiaEvai do notice that Taurus suns, even Moons, strong taurus in charts really do a great analysis. It's as if they are excellent observers. It might just be earth in general, Digging DEEP into the earth, and analyzing good.
Had some time to analyze his behavior,... recently, I'm the only one he hugs. Not with him all the time, but have noticed this over the previous 4 weeks. One of his crushes is fuming, she looks at me with "stares of death." Sometimes I feel as if she would attack me. Anyway, can Taurus identify jealousy with one of the people he's flirting with? Do they do anything about it? Or let it go?
Whereas with the libra with his venus in scorpio it made an immediate attachment the minute I was in his presence. even when he was doing the cooking and had his back to me I could feel his quiet energy. My pisces in venus automatically senses it can make a deep love connection with his energy. I felt I had known him for years.
We observe a lot. We speak with our eyes. Watch the movement of our eyes not our tongues. We say very little but our eyes observe and any water placements we have will pick up your energy whether it be air water or fire energy. Don't forget that many taurus have pisces placements and pisces is the sign of psychic abilities and intuitive. It can channel into a person's energy.click to expand

Posted by SophiaEvaYes we are young and in college, so he says that's the reason why he isn't ready to commit. BUT I believe it is because he is scared and has trust issues. His ex cheating on him, he took her back, and then she cheated on him again. I haven't seen him in almost 4 weeks. I miss him so much I just want to look at him and tell him it's okay, I'll take care of you. But I think he is skeptical because he has had his heart broken.Posted by mysteriousTaurusWining and dining us is a good start. Actually, it's a little known technique that Scorpio does well to make us feel comfortable to let our guard down a little. It's all about making us feel secure, loved, and needed. Love peoms, we like when someone writes us something, or find something beautiful and reads it to us.Posted by SophiaEvahow do i reassure my libra the same —? 😢 i dont think he knows...
How do I reassure my Taurus I am the person he's looking for and will never hurt him??
What's his reason for holding back again? You're both young and in college?click to expand

Posted by SophiaEvaPart of observing. I think he likes you. When my libra and I are hanging out with friends, he will stare at me too. I love it. I feel wanted.
Continued from previous... hea drinking water and staring at me, through corner of his eyes, but he remains facing the person he's speaking to. Does this have a specific meaning, or is it part of his observation?

Posted by busyeyes88i know this is addressed to se but i am also throwing my two penneth in.
@SE
Do you do hot and cold tests? What things or actions do you do to see the true intentions of another? Do you test a person by not answering texts or messages and going hot and then cold and see how long the person puts up with it?

Posted by busyeyes88are you both on drugs? taurus may love openness but they are one of the most non-expressive signs about! true, honestly is favoured but their feelings may as well be written on the dead sea scrolls.Posted by SophiaEvaTaurus will NEVER leave something or someone it wants. Taurus LOVES openness and HONESTY..
Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Taurus is a bold and brave sign, they are expressive in actions and words, if you are the bigger person to confess your feelings first.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88perhaps busy if you wanted someone exactly like you, you should date yourself.
I don't understand why people just can't communicate. Would he have felt better if I told him that I did not like him?!!!! Why is it so complicated. The guessing games. the hot and the cold... I get so bored of this way of acting. That by time the person comes to their senses. I've deleted their number etc. and have gone about my business!!!!! I'm proactive. I start mirroring without meaning. Ie if the person becomes flaky.. I become flaky. Etc.
My personality does not fear rejection... It will tell you point blank from day one how it feels and my fixed emotions in leo will not change. It is steadfast. All it wants to know is the thoughts of the the other person. That's it. It can handle the ugly truths.. It needs to know so that it does not waste time on one person when it should be with someone else. As I cannot multi date and my venus in pisces takes years and years before it can attach itself to anyone so when it does find that rare connection it is bold and direct. I do not waste time or want to waste the other person's time.
A person will always know where they stand with me. Lover friend or foe.. They will never have to guess. I am all or nothing. I am loyal to the death and will always have that person's back...

Posted by SophiaEvathat sounds like such horse shit. (not you, the reason).
You would think being 15 years younger, intelligent, good job, goals, money, attractive, healthy, honest, loving...etc ... he would consider me "perfect" ... I'm like a Stepford Wife, I'm too good to be real; nobody wants to be with me. I've really had men tell me this. .. 😢
Posted by jeaneI think they were trying to be nice and say "no"Posted by SophiaEvathat sounds like such horse shit. (not you, the reason).
You would think being 15 years younger, intelligent, good job, goals, money, attractive, healthy, honest, loving...etc ... he would consider me "perfect" ... I'm like a Stepford Wife, I'm too good to be real; nobody wants to be with me. I've really had men tell me this. .. 😢
i'd be interested to know from the guys if this is a valid reason or just something said not to hurt someone's feelings.click to expand


Posted by mysteriousTaurusI always make sure I look my best when with him, and he does to, always matching clothes and shoes. Yes, will take my time with him and see what naturally progesses.
Sophia, I disagree and say that he is into you, he probably just wants to go slow.. work and the kids ya know.. take it one day at a time, but keep flirting with him and make sure your hair, nails, only a little makeup, and outfit is always on point!! jewelry too, thats what i LOVE about both venus signs, taurus and libras, my libras always complimented me on my jewelry, made me feel like a million bucks

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