Confrontation

We're supposed to be bullies, but are we? Seems like myself & several other bulls I know avoid confrontation. Maybe there's a difference.

I know I avoid confrontation, but if someone else brings it....consider it on an poppin. Im getting more passive about it as I get older and more mature.

"but if someone else brings it..."

hahahahahha, ok, ok, now I understand.

yes i avoid confrontation.... again, i am more defensive than anything.

but if by bully, they emna bossy... yeha i could be bossy, but its never in a bad way. im a very happy person, not at all intimidating.

*mean

I don't know what it is but, sometimes they like to pull you into a negative and angry debate.I've had this happen a couple of times.I guess they do this when they need to release some type of stress or something.I usually keep a positive attitude about it, but it annoys them. I don't really understand this at all.

Yeah they do that to let out their anger they tend to be ruff and gruff and it gets them more vex when u see a lighter side,lol. sweeeet

YESSSSS. when im pissed off about sumthign or need to vent, i pick fights. this is true.
ive even told a couple friends to tell me wut they hate about me, and we went off into this heated fight dissing eahcother, and then when i think its going too far, i stop it and say: okay thanks i feel better, goodnite. and they are all like : wtf? lol

I dont think we're bullies, i just think that we have courage in our convictions and we won't back down to anyone or anything. This leaves others feeling intimidated and quick to cry "bully". Once somethings bugging me i'm like a dog with a bone...just can't leave it alone. I usually mind my own business and dont like to cause confrontations but if someone messes with me they need to know i go from sweetlady-bitch in 0.5 seconds!