Contradictions

when i read about descriptions of the Taurus sign, especially the male kind, they all sound pretty much the same except for some points. Points that i also read on here lost of times. And things i hear and learned about men in general.
Which makes me wonder now what to think now. Of course i know not every one with a certain sign is the same, but i'm talking about things like these:

Most men (in general and some on here say Taurus men also) like to persue and chase a woman they are interested in - however i read alot about Taurus guys not being of the chasing kind. They seem to be very laid back and waiting for the girl to make a move and keep them interested. A lot of times i hear THEY like to be chased. Especially the persistence here is key.

Then i read they get bored easily. Most men do, when they know they can have the woman of their interest or already have her. Or if a woman appears too avaible (later more about this btw) . But i thought Bulls were slow paced and take their time deciding if the female is worth their time?

i also was told Taurus guys love to be admired (who doesn't?), almost to the point of being idolized. They need to feel needed and wanted. So they would have no problem having their ego boosted every other day lol. But then i hear that if a female gives them the impression they are needed, the woman is too "clingy" or dependable which than is a turnoff for a man, when the woman tries too hard.

What the f*** do they want then? They want us to chase them, be persistant, admire them. But seems when we do, it makes us seem too needy.
no wonder they are so confusing!

oh, and to add:

they're supposed to be very deeply romantic souls - but i've heard of some cases, if you do decide to throw a little bit of romance in, they get scared and think you move to fast or are too emotionally involved! So what if it's in the early stages and you just want to seduce the Bull a little bit more by sending him a slightly romantic poem for valentines day, just merely to show he's worth it, that you "admire" him? That would be a bad idea then?

Or: if you decide to back off a bit in times when he seems to be less talkative, should one wait untill he comes back by himself again? But when you ignore him for a while or give him more space, he might assume you're not interested anymore. Since i've heard that makes them insecure. They need consistency, and if you stop giving them that, they don't feel needed anymore.

Very difficult! They really don't know what they want do they?