Does this bull only want sex?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by LDM90 on Sunday, June 12, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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@LDM90
10 Years

I just got out of a 3 year relationship in December and wasn't looking for anything. Met a guy in January and we spent valentines day together and had sex. I realized after having casual sex just isn't for me. He's been pursuing and asking to see me almost every week since then, some times multiple times a week. I saw him two other times since February. I previously mentioned that I wanted to get out and do things and not be confined to his room since I'm not okay with casual.

I finally saw him last week (after ignoring his advances for the past few weeks) and we just kissed and talked until 6 am because I told him I wasn't going to sleep with him to which he replied he was glad he got a chance to see me.

Now, this week I made contact at 10:30/11 pm and he asked if I was coming over and I said yes becsuse I wanted to talk to about things with us and he offered to come get me and then he made a sexual innuendo. I told him I know he just wanted to cum and that's just not me to which he replied,

"No disrespect , I didn't know you felt that way. That's all you had to say , men are dumb remember? So you have to be literal"

Is he saying he's fine with things no longer being casual? Thoughts? Thanks!

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@jeane
12 Years5,000+ Posts

I think he is saying that he considered you a booty call and now you've finally been clear with him, he understands. At a guess I think he probably won't be back unless it is to try and get back in your pants again.