ScorpioQueen_dajanay
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Does this mean my Taurus man will take me back?
Doesn't sound like it.
He will but he wants you to make his worries disappear first and help him decide ... Taurus cut cold.. So if there's no feelings we can't even pretend that we are confused to spare someone else's feelings it makes us feel nauseous.. That message is saying 'proudly' that I think this is better for me because you hurt me so bad and although I want to take you back I cannot make it easy for you for my own self respect because I'm telling you you broke my heart.. BUT if you changed your act and proved to me that you loved and wouldn't do that again I could 'proudly' get out of this confused state and let in were I really want you (his bed) (don't take that as an insult sex is love to Taurus and if I'm waking up at 5am thinking about an ex it's because I want them physically to show them how much be I miss them and to feel emotionally connected and safe again). He wants that but if you did hurt him you can't expect him to chase you - this is your chase call and what you have to do is be honest with yourself first. If you cannot be faithful or if you are likely to break up with him out of the blue again.. Walk away and consider respecting the friendship (which means no revenge moves Scorpio) but if you do love him and will do anything prove it I would start with honestly replying with that simple sentence..you will make his day and I bet he will react warmly .. Because he will be hoping you will break down the walls here .. Taurus are very proud.. We feel like a mug of we go back to an ex our friends and family know hurt us - we almost always need the ex to do the chasing therefore so we look like we tried to refrain (hold on to self respect) but really get back our lover .. We also hate rejection so he was setting it up that you wouldn't have to reject him again in the last few sentences ... And owning his single life should you decline to run after him but run you and push you must!
It sounds like he still cares but has worries that strongly would weigh on him if he went back there with you. It sounds like he wish he could and even if he wanted to try he ultimately wouldn't.
Venus retrograde ish. Find peace in this and move forward
Venus retrograde ish. Find peace in this and move forward
Thank you so much for this, he has texted me after no contact at all saying that he misses me and that he can't see his self with anyone but me and that he still can see a future with me etc. But nothing about taking me back. We broke up because of a conversation we had together about our furture together because he's leaving June 6th for the military and I told him I was scared to be alone all the time by myself while he's away all the time. So on our way back to my house (he was taking me home) he asked if I wanted to break up with him ... which through me off guard and I was like why would you ask me that and he asked again so I just got out the car and and that was it. So, late that night I saw him on twitter asking other people if they wanted to text him and etc. I text him and told him that now I see his true colors and that he's just like that rest. It just hurt me so much because he basically just gave up on me. Like he's so stubborn I hate it. But I have been doing a lot better and I actually feel myself moving on but I still love this guy with all my heart. 2 days ago we were texting and talking to each other like we were friends and it actually hurt me because I don't want to be just friends with him, I want him in my life. But Do you guys think we should get back together or just move on ?
Ps there's literally more to this story I'm just trying to make it as short as possible.
Ps there's literally more to this story I'm just trying to make it as short as possible.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeYou don't know the story so don't even bother with that. He asked me if I wanted to break up because I told him I was scared of being alone and worrying about him while he's gone for the military. And by me saying that he took it as me saying I was going to cheat .... I don't understand why he would ever think that because for one Ive never cheated on him a day in my life and I never caught him cheating on me either. But idk like why did he just give up like that ? And leave me hurt like this , we were each other's first love and we did everything together and to just give it up just like that ... pretty fucking harsh I feel destroyed .
This guy pouring his heart out. Why did you hurt him like that if you're concerned about wanting him back
He thinks you'll cheat on him while he's gone. I can see why. Saying you're "afraid" to be alone while he's gone sounds the same as "I don't know if I can handle not being with a guy for that long" to me.
I think you should stick to communicating as friends until he comes back. You don't know if you can stay committed and that bothers him. Just stay in touch. Maybe you guys can start again later on.
I think you should stick to communicating as friends until he comes back. You don't know if you can stay committed and that bothers him. Just stay in touch. Maybe you guys can start again later on.
Posted by 9waterlion9Oh noo , I'm not playing him I would never do that with any guy especially him. I love this guy to death. I really can't move on from him like I need but I'm scared to tell him that . And he hurt me so I'm backing off alittle bit since he's talking and texting other girls now which is horrible because I would never do that to him in my life. I told him I was so multiple times and I cried my eyes out just holding him and telling him I was sorry but he wasn't listening and acted like he didn't care. All I said was that I was scared of losing him while he was gone for boot camp and with him being gone all the time over seas and in his mind he took that as me saying I was going to cheat (his exact words) like I'm soooo confused on why he's doing this to me ...
Sounds like he needs some serious reassurance that you love him and want him and only him...from what he's said he obviously feels strongly for you. But if you're playing him, let him go...my opinion is completely objective since I don't know you or your situation. But if you really want him back I think you have a chance.
Posted by Bricks195
He thinks you'll cheat on him while he's gone. I can see why. Saying you're "afraid" to be alone while he's gone sounds the same as "I don't know if I can handle not being with a guy for that long" to me.
I think you should stick to communicating as friends until he comes back. You don't know if you can stay committed and that bothers him. Just stay in touch. Maybe you guys can start again later on.
I honestly trust your word and your completely right. But my only problem is , what if he moves on to someone else ? Do you think he will ?
Posted by Impulsv
Open up about what u truly meant about being alone
( not meaning cheating)
What do u want
If u want back tell him n how you feel
So what did u mean about being alone?
We were going to get our own place together after he came back from boot camp and then he was going to have to leave for another 8 weeks and then be shipped off for 3 months , I was scared of being hurt while he would be away all the time and we're always together and when we're not I feel alone and just not myself. I tried telling him this and he just brushed it off .. I told him I wasn't going to give up on us two and he said he wasn't either but he didn't sound too for sure .
Posted by VageenkaYour so right , maybe he is insecure but I've never cheated on him or complemented other men around him ever , my focus was always on him. I complemented him all the time and it would always make him smile idk why he would have any insecurities
To me, he sounds very genuine and he definitely is considering taking you back.
But do you really want to be back with someone who is THAT insecure and will always be questioning your faithfulness?
Hmm.
Take you back? Maybe. He's hesitant about re-entering in a relationship w. you AGAIN.
But you broke up w him so y does it matter. Don't play cat and mouse, that's how we both end up hurt.
Scorpio and Taurus work TOGETHER the BEST and working against each other we BOTH inadvertently lose out.
But you broke up w him so y does it matter. Don't play cat and mouse, that's how we both end up hurt.
Scorpio and Taurus work TOGETHER the BEST and working against each other we BOTH inadvertently lose out.
Posted by ScorpioQueen_dajanayFrom my 'little' knowledge of Taurus men, it doesn't mean he'll take you back. He's just telling you how he feels to get it out of his system and because it’s true...If he does come back, it might not be for a long while yet, as he clearly has a lot to work through in his mind. Contacting was a step towards that.
His text to me this morning 5:45am
"Hey goodmorning Nay, I hope you're feeling better because I didn't like seeing you like that earlier I didn't, you're a wonderful girl & I still love you I really do , you been on my mind all day yesterday & I would like for it to work out but I doubt even tho I love you so so so much , no other girl has treated me like you've treated me but it's like when you broke up w me & said you was gonna feel single asf just kept opening up to my absolute biggest biggest fear in my head about being in the military of me coming home & my girl cheating on me in my own house , I'm not saying you would automatically but idk I keep hearing what you said over & over then I keep getting flash backs of when you said you cheat very hard like idk Nay , I still got love for you , I do please don't question it , it's just like my trust in you had really disappeared & I'm sorry for questioning you that night , you just kept giving me that vibe of having 2nd thoughts when I thought we was gonna be set even more w our future & you just breaking up w me so fast it was like you throwing my heart out the window like it won't nothing , my heart really don't want to take another hurting like that , I really don't want no bad blood between us , I don't want us to stop communicating either if that's alright cause you literally are like my bestfriend , I just don't know what to do because I do be feeling relieved I'm single & ion have worries but I do be missing you , I just don't know what to do baby girl & I'm sorry —
In my opinion, if you can: Meet him, talk to him and reassure him that you want him and only him and that you will never stray. However, make sure that is what you really want. If he senses any kind of insincerity on your part, it's a wrap! Especially since he’s feeling insecure already.
I would also suggest you prepare yourself for what you’ll do if he doesn’t take you back. As it seems you want him to take you back and have hedged your cards on it. Don’t set yourself up for unnecessary heartache…
Posted by ScorpioQueen_dajanay
His text to me this morning 5:45am
"Hey goodmorning Nay, I hope you're feeling better because I didn't like seeing you like that earlier I didn't, you're a wonderful girl & I still love you I really do , you been on my mind all day yesterday & I would like for it to work out but I doubt even tho I love you so so so much , no other girl has treated me like you've treated me but it's like when you broke up w me & said you was gonna feel single asf just kept opening up to my absolute biggest biggest fear in my head about being in the military of me coming home & my girl cheating on me in my own house , I'm not saying you would automatically but idk I keep hearing what you said over & over then I keep getting flash backs of when you said you cheat very hard like idk Nay , I still got love for you , I do please don't question it , it's just like my trust in you had really disappeared & I'm sorry for questioning you that night , you just kept giving me that vibe of having 2nd thoughts when I thought we was gonna be set even more w our future & you just breaking up w me so fast it was like you throwing my heart out the window like it won't nothing , my heart really don't want to take another hurting like that , I really don't want no bad blood between us , I don't want us to stop communicating either if that's alright cause you literally are like my bestfriend , I just don't know what to do because I do be feeling relieved I'm single & ion have worries but I do be missing you , I just don't know what to do baby girl & I'm sorry —
^^^^ damn you broke his trust is all I'm reading poor dude he fell from Mt Olympus you made him feel like a god and now he feels like a mere mortal. You should understand being a Scorpio that without trust there is absolutely nothing when dealing with one of us. If he's like myself he's gonna be on repeat to what you said about not being able to be alone you opened the flood gate in his mind for all the negative things that can happen while he is away which made him freak out and lose his sense of stability in you. He feels relieved being single now because he doesn't need to worry and stress himself out about you cheating on him in his absence. we can deal with alot of bs in life but when it comes to the possibility of losing the one we love who brings us happiness and stability we can't even handle the thought of it let alone if it actually happens hence the sudden amputation of your relationship to avoid any possible long term problems and future pain. Even when we're still in love with someone it's better for us to cut the possible cancer out before it spreads and really does damage to us. To answer your question idk if he will take you back his heart wants to still be with you but his mind is gonna fight with what his heart feels and wants in order to preserve himself. when it comes to Taurus we usually think and listen to our mind and not our heart. I hope you two can resolve your relationship at some point I hate hearing about a Taurus Scorpio relationship biting the dust from which there is no return it's too much of a good thing to let go because of fear best wishes.
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