Friends first

This is just curiosity as I'm trying to learn as much as I can about the Taurus women...I often see and hear that the Taurus sign often becomes friends first and then that turns into lovers. Not being a Taurus myself, I'm just curious how this works...I would think that if you are far into a friendship, you wouldn't be seen as anything else. Especially if the Taurus jokes, plays, and confides in you as friends do.

Can anyone explain this to me?

Were there any minor or major flirtation during this friendship?

If you answered 'no' to both...

then...

Or maybe I do flirt and don't know then I am not knowing how to react. Nervousness sets in, shyness sets in..ackward if it's perceived has just being nice.

Anyways friends first for me because of the whole aqua moon thing, Family background, and 7th in Capricorn. I do wish for my best friend to become my lover for life. But now it's so hard to find good in a guy while being friends because there could be red flags I can't over look though. I have compromised so much just like many just got to decide what can be worked out or cant. Definitely no cheaters or even suspect it.

With fire and air signs I noticed my feelings feel so impulsive and great that I may jump friendship and go straight into asking questions about them. And feelings too. I got to have someone match my cold feelings but loving heart I haven't that many layers so I'm easily read, and I have seen the whole jumping quickly and go nowhere consistently.

I am the one consistent making it work, making time, and it's the air and fire signs that show more less consistency in expression of any kind of emotions, feelings. I have been asked why are you rushing my aqua moon and other planets indicate I like you otherwise I won't bother. I would say I am not I like to know where things are going if I have doubts right away.

Minor and major flirting, yes. From the moment we met. Mutual attraction and chemistry - however, we are becoming very close friends and less talk of being attracted to one another...more heart to hearts and confiding. I love her either way and I love our friendship, however I am worried that the further we get into friendship, the less she will be attracted to me?

Is this something that happens or do I become more attractive building a strong friendship? I know the Taurus are known to keep their feelings so maybe if she was attracted to me when we first met, that hasn't changed, no matter how close we get?

I'm going with the flow. She's more flirty in person than in texts so maybe that is a good thing?

Maybe good luck @Op.