FWB w/ Taurus acting weird, what his deal?

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I thought we were just FWB but now I'm not so sure. I know he wanted more between us at one point in time but things got screwy, mostly on my part. I live 2 hrs away FYI. My bull has been asking for me to spend the night quite a bit lately.He was going through something and asked me to come over to keep his mind off of things and we just chilled while he laid in my lap and I rubbed his head, no sex, he tried I said no, then later I tried then he told me no so I just slept over. I left the next morning, he calls that night to ask me to come back I said no but I'd let him know when I would be back in town. Days later before I get a chance to even talk to him he calls and ask me when I'm coming back said I wasn't sure and then he insisted that I come that night.

He is supposed to go out but instead for whatever reason stays in with me and we fall asleep cuddling, me sleeping on his chest. I stay until 4 pm the next day, leave and hours later he calls me and asks me to come back and see him before he goes out. He goes out that night he texts me drunk and says "come to me" then starts calling me to come over I say no then he starts saying how I need to come over "because I just want to hold you as I fall asleep" and wants me to go to church with him the next day and is still asking for me to come see him but I still couldn't come over. The next morning he texts me saying he wants me to go to church with him so I go (first time going with him) afterwards I say that I'm leaving and he pretty much starts begging me to stay saying he didn't want me to hang out just for 30 min just for me to leave and for me to stay. He says "I thought you wanted to spend more time together, I'm trying to and now you don't that's f*cked up". He tells me not to leave but to but do my work there instead so I could spend the night so I stay for a bit and he makes dinner, he tries to have sex I say no because I kind of was in a funky mood all day and he just asking me what was wrong said he wanted to know and that he could talk to me and then pulled me to him and he held me for a while and he kept asking me to spend the night again.

I'm confused, this doesn't seem like typical fwb behavior at least to me it doesn't. He gets jealous of other guys that I talk to. He keeps asking about this one guy in particular, tries to look into my phone, got mad bc I was sending another guy a Snapchat while he was there, said "hmm you have a lot of guy friends". We even held hands (even though
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Posted by OmagaIII
Whahaha FWB with a Taurus Whahaha who are you kidding other than yourself? You even refer to him as 'your guy'.

Really!?!?!

Your confused, right? Read what you posted for heaven sakes. If you don't get it then you are really special friend cause it is staring you straight in the face.



:/ I must be really special then because I still don't get it lol. It's funny that you mentioned that, when he was drunk he said, "are you talking to that guy? I'm getting pissed because you're my girl". Please explain what I'm missing

-Slow leo lol
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Posted by OmagaIII
Whahaha FWB with a Taurus Whahaha who are you kidding other than yourself? You even refer to him as 'your guy'.

Really!?!?!

Your confused, right? Read what you posted for heaven sakes. If you don't get it then you are really special friend cause it is staring you straight in the face.



:/ I must be really special then because I still don't get it lol. It's funny that you mentioned that, when he was drunk he said, "are you talking to that guy? I'm getting pissed because you're my girl". Please explain what I'm missing

-Slow leo lol
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Posted by AgentP911
Seriously, I can be as dense as fuck with guys and dating etc but this one is obvious.

Let's spell it out...

He likes ya!



Oh yea I knew that he did 🙂 but just in what way I guess is what I'm confused about. My friends think that he wants to be with me but is just guarded/doesn't want to look like an idiot because I come off like I don't want more with him. He knows that I entertain *not sleep with* other guys. He knew I had a date with another guy day and he asked if I made out with him, if I liked him, and just keeps asking me about him. So I'm guessing FWB with a Taurus doesn't work?
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*** rolls eyes ***

Perhaps FWB is not working for this Taurus.

Not all guys can do it. Some actually do have... Feelings too!

It looks like he wants more. He could just be possessive.

You guys are young ish? 25 ish?

What do you want?

It doesn't seem as if you want more from this guy?

Does he ever come to you or is it always him asking you to go to him and then you go?

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Posted by AgentP911
*** rolls eyes ***

Perhaps FWB is not working for this Taurus.

Not all guys can do it. Some actually do have... Feelings too!

It looks like he wants more. He could just be possessive.

You guys are young ish? 25 ish?

What do you want?

It doesn't seem as if you want more from this guy?

Does he ever come to you or is it always him asking you to go to him and then you go?





Yea he's 26 I'm 23.

It's funny that you say it doesn't seem like I want more because my friends say that he wants to be with me (he did say he wanted more before but then I goofed up then he hit me with FWB thing) but it comes of like I don't so that's why he said FWB because it doesn't seem like I want more and he doesn't want to look like the idiot and doesn't want to continue to put himself out there. But I do think that I want more, didn't in the very beginning, but now I do.

Well I go to him, but it's not really for him. I went to school in his city and after I graduated lived up there so everything and everyone that I'm close to is up there and I go up there almost every weekend to be with my friends and go out so while I'm seeing them I'll go see him. He usually asks if I'm coming up to his city for the weekend and then asks if he can see me while I'm up there.
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So tell him you want more then. He's either going to say yes or no. Sounds like a yes to me unless he starts acting like a dickhead but then if he does you can just carry on as you are or end it. Nothing to lose but more to gain.

He might want to know what has changed to make you want more. Just tell it how it is.

He will probably need a bit of reassurance on your dating/seeing other people etc as it seems like you're actively dating others.



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Posted by AgentP911
Seriously, I can be as dense as fuck with guys and dating etc but this one is obvious.

Let's spell it out...

He likes ya!



Oh not just that Agent.

She is dancing to his every tune and she doesn't get why he keeps acting this way. He does really care, yeah the sex is part of it but this is definitely more. And she is there when he asks, so he already feels that she is a woman with a thousand worth.

@OP You need to really evaluate the situation cause you are currently on a railroad to either the best damn thing ever or the worst heartache you'll ever experience.

Make your decision and stop the game for good or for bad. He won't, so in this case you'll have to.
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Posted by OmagaIII
Posted by AgentP911
Seriously, I can be as dense as fuck with guys and dating etc but this one is obvious.

Let's spell it out...

He likes ya!



Oh not just that Agent.

She is dancing to his every tune and she doesn't get why he keeps acting this way. He does really care, yeah the sex is part of it but this is definitely more. And she is there when he asks, so he already feels that she is a woman with a thousand worth.

@OP You need to really evaluate the situation cause you are currently on a railroad to either the best damn thing ever or the worst heartache you'll ever experience.

Make your decision and stop the game for good or for bad. He won't, so in this case you'll have to.
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*sigh* you're right. I'm just not understanding why he won't speak up. Aren't men supposed to be the go getters? lol