Gemini Woman misses Taurus Man

Help me out Taurueans male and female. Does he miss me? Why move on so quickly? Will he ever contact me again? Why strange behavior? Did I hurt him?

Story: I met this Taurus at a spiritual ceremony. We were cleaning bathrooms together and he it off pretty well. I never thought I'd hear from him again until he found me on IG. He commented on one of my photos then DM me. We DM back and forth for a while. He let me know he wasn't a spiritual person and that he would develop feeling for me if we didn't stop. I told him I respected his honesty and accepted him for who he was. We continue talking until he gave me his phone number. We started texting on and off. He expressed he founded me interesting and was developing feeling for me. He expressed that he just cut off an woman who wasn't loyal to him and would never speak to her again. That he appreciated my loyalty to him when everyone else left him. He was so excited and into me I was over whelmed. He was changing a lot in his life, he was moving, trying to get a car and was struggling with some personal conflict he wouldn't tell me about. I didn't pressed him and he loved how much I cared about him. He said loved me first and asked me to be his girlfriend. Told me to trust him and he felt safe and secure in his future if I'm there. We finally hung out unexpectedly, because he needed a ride to pick up his paycheck. I was so excited and surprised that he so romantic. I was nervous the whole time but he confided in me about his past. He asked me many questions about my life and listened. I'm a doctoral researcher and he is a waiter. As the evening end we began we began to get intimate and I was out practice. We stopped and he said he could leave if I was done. I wanted to keep going but got nervous. He stopped me and just said we can wait for marriage. He kissed me, says he could wait to marry and he loved me. Then left. The next day I started asking him sexual health questions so next time we get intimate we be on the same page. He seemed cool about it and understood. The next day he told me he didn't want to hurt me and we shouldn't be together because our goals and morals don't line up. That he wanted to have and do everything with me but he knew he couldnt if we had two moral code. He want to build a good foundation so when he does get into a relationship they'll have the same outlook on life. He said he didn't want me having sex and wants me to focus on God. I was so mad and was trying to convince him how much I loved him abc believed in him. He didn't answer my message back. TBH I want sex as well it didn't matter the timing, I'm not as good girl as he thought. I gave up messaging him. 20 days later I ran into him in a car with some girl. He waved. My friend saw him the next week in the club, drunk and lonely. Next week, my girlfriends saw I was still sad so they dragged me to his job. I was a little drunk. They asked for him and he didn't come out of the kitchen for 30 minutes. When he did he just watched us as we ate our food from afar. My friend was mad so she started talking about him. I told her to stop. I keep says I wanted to go house and there was no need for us to be there. I pleaded with them to just leave and forgot about the whole thing. He was listening I hope. As we were leaving he caught my eye and came over to me. My friends were mad and told him to talk to me and don't hurt my feelings. I told them to stop. But after he clocked out he talked to me. He said he was still partying and having a good time. He doesn't want to hurt me with his actions. He never answered my texts because if he did we'd be back together. Don't hate him because he loved me. He asked if I was going to be ok. I said no,he hurt me and miss him and love him and still support him and I'll try to be ok and I left. Couple of days later I found out after trying to get with a few woman I know who rejected him, he is in an relationship with some new woman. He should have told me at the restaurant. I got angry and wrote a post on IG about him. Later deleting my page. I tried calling him to apologize for coming to his job. He never answered, we are still friends on social media and he hasn't blocked my number unless he changed it. He keeps putting how he is in a relationship now on his Facebook publicly like he wants everyone to acknowledge. Or so I can see. I miss him and love him and want him back.

drama llama ding dong ...

You knew each other for about five whole minutes.

He told you s load of waffle.

He wanted you for sex.

You didn't give it to him.

He fucked off to a more willing person.

You're crying about it and wasting your time over someone who wasn't actually into you.

We've all been there. Move on. Why waste time wanting someone who doesn't want you back?

He showed you exactly what he's like. Frankly, there isn't enough good points here to bother with. Find a better man.

Wow. Sorry guys for no formatting text I know it was a pain to read. I felt like we had a deep connection because of the situation we both were going through. Taurus don't say they love you unless they mean it right. Do you really think he just wanted sex? Why go through 3 month of getting to know me before making concrete moves with me? But with this new woman it like he is in overdrive and wants everyone to know it? I am really cool with his family and friends who miss having him around because he isolated himself.

Posted by tcta
drama llama ding dong ...

I will agree with you. I'm not one for dramatics. I was prefectly find in giving him his space and letting life play out. I didn't need closure or to speak my peace. But looking into his eyes that night there was more he has to say but didn't.

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Posted by tcta
drama llama ding dong ...

I will agree with you. I'm not one for dramatics. I was prefectly find in giving him his space and letting life play out. I didn't need closure or to speak my peace. But looking into his eyes that night there was more he has to say but didn't.

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Yeah but he made his decision now let him live with his decision.

Dear star signs are complicated, sometimes you have to deal with the person and who they really are, I've been with a Taurus and yes he can say he loves you and be seeing someone else. Don't blame yourself and think you should explain yourself iknow this is not what you want to hear, and there's something about these Taurus guys they're cute kind loving addictive sweet sensual lol, you could dive into their dreams and promises but let life be. He probably loves you too but throwing yourself at him will probably have a sad story

I think maybe it could be 2 things. Either 1) he decided on his own the reasons why you guys couldn't work and stuck to those reasons despite any evidence to the contrary. Like even if you weren't as angelic as he thinks, he could have felt he was probably too bad for u. When I was around 25 I'd definitely turn away good guys bc I knew I was going through a man eater phase and I hate breaking hearts. 2) he might have been in love with the other girl before anything and was steadfast to that as soon as she was available. Either way, I think Taurus guys like a girl they can admire. You sound smart and seem to have a solid friend base - if u invest even more in those areas and yourself this Taurus man will be checking for u again. Orrrr someone even better.

I agree. I have to let him live with the decision he made. And from one of the woman he tried to get with she said he might be extremely over eager about his new girlfriend. Hence we he is repeating updating his status that they are together. Yeah, I have been disappointed and sad about it for a while now and that not what I wanted to here. But it did give me hope for my future as a single woman. Focusing on myself is the best idea right now. Do bulls like to be chased? I don't think so. So I am not going to chase him or ask for him back again. I rather him come find me. Until then I will eager focus on my friendships and personal growth. I will keep you updated. Thank you. And anymore perspectives on this are welcome. I love reading how other interpreted this crazy situation.