I met this fascinating Taurus Male at a party about 4 weeks ago, and we talked for hours before we parted, he told me flat out that he was hitting on me and kept giving me all the sweetest compliments. Well, the next day I messaged him and we have been talking on and off every since, but nothing like the night that we were in eachother's prescence. I have invited him out to do something several times, but he never wants to, he says he enjoys our conversations and he likes the fact that he doesn't have to "dumb himself down" to talk to me, but I am just wondering why he went from being apparently so attracted to me, to not wanting to even see me now, he likes talking to me on the phone, but he won't go out with me now. I know that Taurus are slow in relationships and the like, but I am very confused by all of this. Is there anything I can do? I mean I really like him a lot and we had a great connection, but he's being stubborn and won't go do anything with me, is it because he's no longer attracted? Or is it that he just wants to take things slow? Thanks for the answers 😄.
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Oh, and he never calls me or contacts me, I am always the one who contacts him. There was a party last weekend that he went to, that he thought I was going to but I didn't, and apparently he was asking one of my friends about me, saying he was confused by whether I like him or not, and I don't know if my friend ever told him that I do, but anyways... wonder if that adds any insight? He knows I'm interested in him..
Oh boy, I mean he's so complicated yet always makes everything sound so simple whenever I talk to him, it's so confusing, but interesting at the same time. Thanks for the advice!

i'm involved with a Taurus right now.. and OMG does he chase... i mean we have been friends for over 2 years now. he was married, no we never ever crossed the line while he was married. And he got divorced, and we started getting closer and next thing i know... he is chasin. I mean OBVIOUS chasing. BOLD... so i don't know if that is typical or not.

I have been dating my Taurus guy for 3 months know and he is funny, lovable, loves the affection I give him, jokes alot, and I can tell when he has a mood swing I just leave him alone and don't say anything to him...but he always says stop stop when I kiss his face all over I pays no attention to him and just tell him that you know you like me giving you affection and he just smiles. He gives me a kiss everytime he sees me if we are in the car and I say kiss me he does it, If I want to hold his hand he just lets me.
I think he is starting to get more into is possessive state because he came out and said that he will not take me to meet his friends because he does not want anyone to see me because I am too cute to him. So I said so you think that they might try to talk to me and he said yea. I said ahhhh that is so sweet you think I am to cute to meet your friends and he said yep...I am not tripping off of that because I know the day will come and I will meet them. He takes me where ever I want to go. He calls me like 2-3 times when he is out just to see what I am doing or do I need anything.
But don't get it twisted....I had to cuss his azz out a month ago and told him that I don't have time for his bullshit and was ready to walk away. He lied to me three times and I saw a pattern that was to obvious to miss so I called him on his shit and he was actually scared to talk to me he said that he parked his car for 2 hours and just thought about me.
When he was at my house parked in his car he called me and said can he come up to talk and if he comes upstairs am I gonna holler at him..I was calm by then and told him no well he came up and he apoligized like 5 times after the first apology I stop listening I was not sure if he was really sincere with it. But when he is late picking me up or late getting to my house he apologizes as soon as he sees me.
But since then he has stuck to everything he said he was going to do. He calls all the time and he makes sure that I have all that I need. I am still having doubts about him being faithful I don't know what maybe my scorpion instincts kicking in. He knows because of my hints about it but he keeps reassuring me that he is not going anywhere maybe I will get over it in about another 3 or 6 months..
I don't know what the future holds for us but right know it feels good to have someone that is so attentive to my every need
I think he is starting to get more into is possessive state because he came out and said that he will not take me to meet his friends because he does not want anyone to see me because I am too cute to him. So I said so you think that they might try to talk to me and he said yea. I said ahhhh that is so sweet you think I am to cute to meet your friends and he said yep...I am not tripping off of that because I know the day will come and I will meet them. He takes me where ever I want to go. He calls me like 2-3 times when he is out just to see what I am doing or do I need anything.
But don't get it twisted....I had to cuss his azz out a month ago and told him that I don't have time for his bullshit and was ready to walk away. He lied to me three times and I saw a pattern that was to obvious to miss so I called him on his shit and he was actually scared to talk to me he said that he parked his car for 2 hours and just thought about me.
When he was at my house parked in his car he called me and said can he come up to talk and if he comes upstairs am I gonna holler at him..I was calm by then and told him no well he came up and he apoligized like 5 times after the first apology I stop listening I was not sure if he was really sincere with it. But when he is late picking me up or late getting to my house he apologizes as soon as he sees me.
But since then he has stuck to everything he said he was going to do. He calls all the time and he makes sure that I have all that I need. I am still having doubts about him being faithful I don't know what maybe my scorpion instincts kicking in. He knows because of my hints about it but he keeps reassuring me that he is not going anywhere maybe I will get over it in about another 3 or 6 months..
I don't know what the future holds for us but right know it feels good to have someone that is so attentive to my every need
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