How do I give my Taurus time when I can't live without him! Please Help (Page 3)

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Posted by TheCancerGirl
HE CAME BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I will also be focusing more on myself because this experience has shown me that I lost myself somewhere in between. TheCancerGirl

Us cancers can do that sometimes.

Oh I am happy it worked out for you.

Take care now xx

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I am glad to hear, but we will see if he really came back....... keep us posted OP

and dont place his needs before your wants too much...... just balance 🙂

Well do

Thank you so much

He contacted you ..... but, didn't come to you.


Don't mislead your audience ... or you might sound deceptive.


Him contacting you isn't coming back to you.


And I reiterate whoever it was that alluding to the fact that just because a divorce is at hand, doesn't mean you cannot keep your people you want. Him to give you a bullshit excuse, is still an excuse no matter how many pretty bows you wrap on it by being so gullible that you believe every word said.

A person who really wanted to be with you, wouldn't need divorce space. You're being led on string, and either are too blind to see it, or have too much support encouraging you to be a fool.

Any/all people with more than one brain cell, realizes that a person doesn't need divorce space from a lover, and if he convinces you he needs it ... then you're being deceived.


But, don't let me stop you from enjoying your suffering ...

He actually did COME BACK and he made it very clear that he wasn't going anywhere.

He opened up completely and was very genuine and honest about his decision. He told me that his son expressed to him that he was confused and sad about the situation and he wanted to take sometime to be there for his son. He also made it clear that the marriage his been over for years and that an army of people could not get him to change his mind about that. He expressed that he has indeed fallen in love with me and wants a future with me.

I did inform him that it would probably be best to slow things down until everything is final and also that I intended to focus on myself a little more and he expressed that he knew what he wanted from this point forward and if those things are what I want he accepts it but they are not necessary his decision has been made.

I don't know what types of relationships you've had in the past @P-Angel or if you been hurt but all relationships aren't filled with sadness and lies. He was completely open and honest with me and now I see that.. There was no sugar coating or deception, there was only honestly and he told me all these things from his heart when he did not have to. We are happy we actually have always been happy we just had a bump in the road that needed his full attention I would come 2nd to his son any day so I am not upset I am just happy with where we are right now.

^^^ the reason I won't date blokes with kids... 2nd place if you're lucky... Usually languishing somewhere between 4th and 7th. Fuck that. Then there's the ex missus to deal with...

P-Angel made some sound points here. I don't know why people bash her so much. I've not seen anyone write 'cunt' quite as often as me Š

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^^^ the reason I won't date blokes with kids... 2nd place if you're lucky... Usually languishing somewhere between 4th and 7th. Fuck that. Then there's the ex missus to deal with...

P-Angel made some sound points here. I don't know why people bash her so much. I've not seen anyone write 'cunt' quite as often as me Š

agreed....on all c(o)unts

^^^ ha ha! Love it!

You made a good post too then someone said you were horrible. Can't recall which page it was on but I thought it was quite true.

Posted by AgentP911
^^^ ha ha! Love it!

You made a good post too then someone said you were horrible. Can't recall which page it was on but I thought it was quite true.

it is true that i am horrible? 😆

How ridiculous to make the assumption that just because you don't like to hear other angles, that it means I've been hurt in relationships.


Morons do that ... make sure you're not one of them. Although, it's probably too late for that. You already came in here to act helpless.

If your relationship with him was all that ... then you wouldn't even be here.


You're a rebound, nothing more. And that means that he isn't into you for you. It has nothing to do with you. He was with you to forget someone else. And no matter how much you delude yourself, it doesn't change that fact.

But, it looks like you don't care that you were noticed by him for the sake of another woman, so long as he is whispering sweet nothings in your ear.

And in your delusion, you believe that just because he's telling you what you want to hear, that it means he's being honest. How ridiculous.

The 'he was with you to forget someone else' is the best point in this entire thread. Whether that is or isn't the case in this particular story is neither here nor there but that's the pearl of wisdom I'll be banking.

Hello everyone I promised that I would wait a while and come back with an update for you all so here I am. It has been another 3 months since my original post and to be honest I have never been happier with where we are. The divorce was finalized on the date he gave me and every word he said to me in that text was proven to be true. He has finally opened up to me completely and told me that he is in love with me and that he wants to be with me only. I will be honest being with a Taurus is definitely a challenge and honestly it takes more patience than I ever anticipated but he has thanked me a million times for hanging in there with him. Our situation obviously was very complicated but I am so happy that we made it through this together.

My how I love it now that he's not holding back it feels so good to hear "I love you" vs "I think I might love you" lol. He was definitely keeping those words in until the divorce was final because he told me the following day. I plan to move to where he lives once we make the one year mark and we will see where it goes from there. Now that I have him fully I will never let him go. Thanks to everyone who provided advice on both ends of the spectrum I know there was a lot of doubts because of the details but one thing I knew for sure was that the feelings were geniune and real. I know now that he wanted that chapter to be closed completely before giving his heart to me.

(For any new readers refer to the original post for the full details I want to clarify when I first started to date him I did not know he was married/going through a divorce. When I found out I was already falling for him and decided to was until it was finalized and I am so happy I did)

His Ex is a Pisces I know that she is not happy about the divorce because she continued to hold up the process for months. It was suppose to be finalized before I had even met him. She also text me 2 weeks prior to it being finalized with nothing nice to say. I already knew she didn't want the divorce because of what he did for her financially but they were separated for years before I came along so I think her issue with me is that she could tell that he was actually finally allowing himself to move on.

Posted by Nevermore
Gongrats. 🙂

Thank you

Quick sand sucks. Hope it works.

Thanks for that reminder @busyeyes88 you Taurus lovers keep us on our toes that's for sure!

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Posted by busyeyes88
Thanks for sharing the good news OP. it gives hope for the rest of us dating or having interest in a taurus!

I love it when people come back with the outcome whether happy or sad and I'm glad your has a happy ending ! Please keep us posted when you get that one year mark!

Congrats again OP.

Oh! One last reminder : 'too much water turns earth too mud'! 😉

Look at you Missy!! Love that photo of you... very becoming 🙂

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Thank you so much

Me too and I will update everyone when we make it to one year

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Posted by busyeyes88
Thanks for sharing the good news OP. it gives hope for the rest of us dating or having interest in a taurus!

I love it when people come back with the outcome whether happy or sad and I'm glad your has a happy ending ! Please keep us posted when you get that one year mark!

Congrats again OP.

Oh! One last reminder : 'too much water turns earth too mud'! 😉

Look at you Missy!! Love that photo of you... very becoming 🙂

Thank you so much

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I never replied to the message she sent me and he no longer speaks to her so I just allow him to handle that issue because it really not my place you know

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Posted by busyeyes88
Thanks for sharing the good news OP. it gives hope for the rest of us dating or having interest in a taurus!

I love it when people come back with the outcome whether happy or sad and I'm glad your has a happy ending ! Please keep us posted when you get that one year mark!

Congrats again OP.

Oh! One last reminder : 'too much water turns earth too mud'! 😉

Look at you Missy!! Love that photo of you... very becoming 🙂

Thank you so much

I never replied to the message she sent me and he no longer speaks to her so I just allow him to handle that issue because it really not my place you know

That's as it should be. You did the right thing not getting involved. Best to keep things as simple as possible and you put your energy on your relationship with him and let nothing else get in the way.

I totally agree with you.

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We are totally on the same page.. Our focus is us now.. No negative energy in this relationship

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Posted by busyeyes88
Thanks for sharing the good news OP. it gives hope for the rest of us dating or having interest in a taurus!

I love it when people come back with the outcome whether happy or sad and I'm glad your has a happy ending ! Please keep us posted when you get that one year mark!

Congrats again OP.

Oh! One last reminder : 'too much water turns earth too mud'! 😉

Look at you Missy!! Love that photo of you... very becoming 🙂

Thank you so much

The message was for @busyeyes88 - I think its a new photo and she looks great. But, I thought you were also very beautiful (and I love your style) since the first time you posted!

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Thank you and sorry I got confused lol you are always so sweet!!