FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428
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How possessive are you towards your lover?
Jealousy doesn't just come like possession does.
Possessive is just in people.
Jealousy is provoked on purpose to test people's patience.
Yea I've had experienced jealousy when I was younger. I thought that if my patience and trust was there. I had to trust my ex was being faithful..only did I realize there was alot of reasons to be causing doubts.. why do people test that?
Possessive is just in people.
Jealousy is provoked on purpose to test people's patience.
Yea I've had experienced jealousy when I was younger. I thought that if my patience and trust was there. I had to trust my ex was being faithful..only did I realize there was alot of reasons to be causing doubts.. why do people test that?
for me, it depends on which stage I'm in with the person whom I have romantic feelings for. possessiveness and jealousy go sky high if I am at the pursuing stage.
but once I'm officially the partner, not so much as I have gained the confidence I need and is pretty sure that no one can ever take her away once she's mine (talk about confidence in taurus lol).
but once I'm officially the partner, not so much as I have gained the confidence I need and is pretty sure that no one can ever take her away once she's mine (talk about confidence in taurus lol).
See that is the thing. Taurus are confident. If I'm interested in you.. I shouldn't even have to ask where you are , how many friends you have, and how much space you want.. right off the bat. Cause I will ask you anyways these questions just to see. You gotta let me know. Because if your honest I will trust and you won't even see the two traits. know if I don't know these things yet I will find out on gut instincts or simply observation..it helps. But I will possess and I take care of my possessions. If I feel my possessions are loosing value or being taken..I might get alittle envy for no reason at all even if they my friends or lovers. Females or males. Why idk why..if I feel like my brother is moving in with his lover, I will get jealous. And I will try to do things to spend time like take you out, movies, pedicures but then that only lasts so long. Then I feel hurt.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Or friends?
How possessive are you? Is it a characteristic trait of yours?
How jealous are you?
Is it really bad experiences that make you jealous?
Do you feel insecured? You like a guy and the feeling is mutual, do you think that you can handle someone more social than you are?
I'm possessive but not smothering. This may appear a bit contradictory. My man is my man. I'm not the sharing type, nor am I entertaining the idea of the 'wandering eye,' 'undisclosed so-called female friends,' or 'acting a fool' when we're out in public. My man is entitled to have his space, his freedom, fulfill his passion...as long as I'm truly respected in the process. My Taurus stamp is on that @ss, remember that when you're out there.
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Jealousy isn't the product of someone provoking you. Jealousy is the product of ones own insecurities and it happens for many reasons. Jealousy can be healthy in a relationship as long as it doesn't spiral out of control. If you are jealous of your partner for whatever reason then speak to them, tell them you are jealous and believe me if they care enough they will talk to you and then you need to explain yourself and compromise. This stands for any zodiac sign and any relationship.
If you communicate your feelings then you will gain trust, understanding and more so, less jealousy in the future.
If you communicate your feelings then you will gain trust, understanding and more so, less jealousy in the future.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Or friends?
How possessive are you? Is it a characteristic trait of yours?
How jealous are you?
Is it really bad experiences that make you jealous?
Do you feel insecured? You like a guy and the feeling is mutual, do you think that you can handle someone more social than you are?
I'm possessive but not smothering. This may appear a bit contradictory. My man is my man. I'm not the sharing type, nor am I entertaining the idea of the 'wandering eye,' 'undisclosed so-called female friends,' or 'acting a fool' when we're out in public. My man is entitled to have his space, his freedom, fulfill his passion...as long as I'm truly respected in the process. My Taurus stamp is on that @ss, remember that when you're out there.
Property of Taurus Bull
If this man is acting like a nut.
Please return to Sender.click to expand
I knew this was you, TB1977, before I saw your name. You're my DXP twin. Praise!
I 100% agree with all this. I'm possessive, but not controlling. As long as you respect me and my place in your life, you're free to do as you please. That's not to say I won't get jealous if you give anybody else attention. But if at the end of the day, you know you are mine and vice versa, I'll just consider that foreplay. 😉
While I know that sensing that little tug on your heart when you see your romantic interest interested in someone else is completely human and unavoidable, I also know that the only body and soul that I possess is my own. If you want to tell me something, say it and I'll listen, if you want to go, go and I won't keep you.
I get what you mean when you said you get envious or maybe even jealous when you see someone you care slipping away from you. It's quite similar for me as well and I guess, with anyone who cares about the people they love. It's just human nature, isn't it?
I know I definitely can't give the same amount of space to my partner during courtship vs after we are official. It's impossible for me. That's said, I don't smother them. I still give them a reasonable amount of space due to the 'confidence' I have in me.
I have to admit, the possessive nature in me gets turned on likely because I feel insecure or am afraid of losing her. but once we are official, the tables turn. Possessiveness lessens by a great deal and what comes after would be the confidence level which although it's always there, is now tuned up.
like most typical Taureans, I view my partner almost like a possession, valuing her dearly and keeps her close to me. but if she needs the space I'll give either to her. We do need a certain degree of me-space, don't we?
Honestly I do not know how I would handle a man with many female friends even though I have male friends. I would be jealous of he attention he pays to them. I have hard timed with accepting any type of flirting done by a man I'm with with other women.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Or friends?
. My man is my man. I'm not the sharing type, nor am I entertaining the idea of the 'wandering eye,' 'undisclosed so-called female friends,' or 'acting a fool' when we're out in public. My man is entitled to have his space, his freedom, fulfill his passion...as long as I'm truly respected in the process. My Taurus stamp is on that @ss, remember that when you're out there.
Property of Taurus Bull
If this man is acting like a nut.
Please return to Sender.click to expand
Amen...I may have jealous thoughts but I try not to show it. It takes me a lot to even get to that point. I'm at the point now to where I won't allow myself to feel insecure, and if he's my man then he knows better than to make me feel that way too. Its not hard to dismiss someone, the hard part is getting me to care again.
Yea I get what you are saying. You have to do something to provoke it. I never met any of my ex bff female friends and that was alittle fishy to me.. I let it go.. I'll give you an example..
See my ex bff did it all the time, to try to provoke it. He would stay out all night and then I would get sorta jealous and angry because I knew he was cheating and I had proof. The friends he had called me and told me shit about him. When I confronted him he said no they are lying..One day his female friend called me and told me what color his boxer were. Haha guess what! I confronted him.. Busted.
See what I noticed is he liked the less attractive women who needed some sort of help. Then I am over here cooking dinner, being fucking loyal, working double time, etc while he is out consulting these homewreckers. I was in shape, and the breadwinner; she was not pretty, in shape, no self esteem and no job. It was created then, and that it's ugly and I don't like it being like that. So then my questions of who, what, where, why, and lots of phone calls.. and then I couldn't help it. I couldn't trust him. That pushed it further cause then I was angry and fighting all the time.
See I don't know but I seem to attract masculine signs that have alot of female friends. But I am not the type to say ok not him, not that one because of his sign. Ill give you a few chances before I feel I am dealing with shit I used to deal with. Because of my ex I learned to watch out for the flags. haha
See my ex bff did it all the time, to try to provoke it. He would stay out all night and then I would get sorta jealous and angry because I knew he was cheating and I had proof. The friends he had called me and told me shit about him. When I confronted him he said no they are lying..One day his female friend called me and told me what color his boxer were. Haha guess what! I confronted him.. Busted.
See what I noticed is he liked the less attractive women who needed some sort of help. Then I am over here cooking dinner, being fucking loyal, working double time, etc while he is out consulting these homewreckers. I was in shape, and the breadwinner; she was not pretty, in shape, no self esteem and no job. It was created then, and that it's ugly and I don't like it being like that. So then my questions of who, what, where, why, and lots of phone calls.. and then I couldn't help it. I couldn't trust him. That pushed it further cause then I was angry and fighting all the time.
See I don't know but I seem to attract masculine signs that have alot of female friends. But I am not the type to say ok not him, not that one because of his sign. Ill give you a few chances before I feel I am dealing with shit I used to deal with. Because of my ex I learned to watch out for the flags. haha
And I still give chances if you just tell me from the beginnning you fucked her and just friends or just friends no interest, or shes a homewrecker that sees us happy and want to ruin or open my eyes.
Yea I was 19-26 years with him and he was my first bff. I had my own he stayed with me. It was hard for me to just leave. I was on a lease. and I just didn't have the resources to ,move on. Eventually I grew balls and changed the locks on him.. I then moved far away. ever since then I can be jealous but don't like to. And everyone I have to trust or it won't work sadly.
Thanks Hot- I'll read it and give my thoughts. And maybe give some advice to others too when needed..
So here's what I've noticed about myself...
Jealousy only comes into play if I'm not yet involved with a romantic interest. Once I'm in a relationship and there's no ambiguity and all the expectations have been laid out, that's when the possessiveness comes in. Though at that point I'm no longer jealous. So for me, jealousy comes from lack of clarity and doubts about how the person might feel about me
Jealousy only comes into play if I'm not yet involved with a romantic interest. Once I'm in a relationship and there's no ambiguity and all the expectations have been laid out, that's when the possessiveness comes in. Though at that point I'm no longer jealous. So for me, jealousy comes from lack of clarity and doubts about how the person might feel about me
So insecurities is the focus on jealousy. Geezus.. I just thought that it's someone just yanking your chains to see the reaction out of you.. I am confident but when you get cheated on takes a whole new aspect in the dating world.
tcSo chivalry and respect still exists...oh btw.. I am not insecure that would bring the traits out. I have ample amounts of trust and loyalty. It's built in and it starts from day one with associates, friends, and hopefully lover in that order..t g
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