How to Attract a Taurus

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Taurus males & females are the sign of the most loving & caring in the zodiac. They are very possessive & can't stand to have anything they strongly care about be taken from them. A Taurus loves unity & the aspect of family. Someone attracted to a Taurus can't already see up front that they are "down" for anything & would almost always be willing to do anything for you. But there is a price to pay for being with a Taurus (male or female). Taurus' are very possessive, controlling & insecure. They feel as though no one understands them & that other's misinterpretation of them will end in their partners leaving them, and this is something a Taurus CANNOT handle. The key to attracting a Taurus is to constantly reassure them that you love them & won't leave them. A Taurus has alot of hidden insecurities that they purposely show to their partners to see if their partners will hold them even tighter as a signal that they care even more about you. Taurus' hate being lied to & betrayed. Even the small lies bother a Taurus and cause them to go into an emotional melt down. When dating a Taurus, make sure you let them know up front what you want and expect from them. If you just want to be friends with them, let that be known; they tend to get very clingy and attached very quickly and easily because of their constant desire to love and be loved. Doing little deeds for Taurus' will keep their flame for you alive. They are very structural creatures and like things to be perfect & in order like a family structure should be. Taurus' always play out their roles, rather as a girlfriend, mother or husband. When a Taurus is your girlfriend, they'll act just like the perfect girlfriend, constantly fluffing your pillows, calling you just to say "I love you" every 20 minutes, etc. Show a Taurus with constant love & affection, that's the best you can do for them since they take these constant greetings of affection as you showing them your appreciation towards them.
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BOOO. I DON'T KNOW NOBODY LIKE ME, NOBODY CAN LOVE LIKE I CAN, I AM LOVE. THE EPIDEMY.. HONESTLY TAURUS'S ARE TOO MUCH. THEY WANT YOUR COMMITMENT THE FIRST DAY THEY MEET YOU AND EXPECT YOU TO BOW DOWN TO THAT SHIT IMMEDIATELY. THEY FALL FIRST AND ASK QUESTIONS LATER... THEY WANT TO BE LOVED MORE SO THAN TO LOVE.. THEY ARE HELLA CLINGY AND USUALLY END UP IN LONG RELATIONSHIPS , DUE TO BEING SO HABITUAL AND LOYAL. IV'E KNOWN OF TAURUS THAT WERE SO BUSY BEING IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT EVEN IF UNHAPPY, THEY COULDN'T LEAVE DUE TO THEIR DISPLACED LOYALY. THEY CAN AND USUALLY BORE THE HELL OUT OF THEIR PARTNERS , WHY? BECAUSE NOONE WANTS TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO MAKES THEM FEEL LIKE THEY ARE JUST WITH THEM BECAUSE THEY'RE COMFORTABLE. SHIT , HELL NAW. FUNNY CAUSE WITH MY LOVE, I WOULD THINK THAT A TAURUS WOULD MATCH ME SOME.THEN AGAIN, WE ARE OPPOSITES AND UH, I'M FLY AND UH , THEY DON'T LAST A SECOND WITH ME.. THEY FALL TOO FAST AND MOVE TOO FAST , EXPECT TOO MUCH TO SOON AND HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING THAT , THEY HAVE TO PROVE THEIR LOVE TO OTHERS, JUST AS THEY WANT PEOPLE TO PROVE IT TO THEM...!! DO UNTO OTHERS AS U WANT THEM TO DO UNTO YOU. BESIDES MY ZODIAC SIGN IS SO MISUNDESTOOD THAT WE NEED TO KNOW HOW MUCH PEOPLE LOVE US TRUELY BECAUSE WE LOVE SO DEEPLY , NOONE COULD EVER COMPARE AND LOVE US BACK, WITH SUCH INTENSITY. U AIN'T THE ONLY ONE TAURUS. TAURUS WANT YOU TO CONSTANTLY PROVE YOUR LOVE, WELL THEY NEED TO LEARN HOW TO PROVE THEIR LOVE. EVERYONE DOESN'T FALL IN LOVE AT FIRST SITE , LIKE THEY DO... THEY NEED LOVE TO FEEL COMPLETE AND UH THEY ARE THE TRUE ROMEO AND JULIETS, JUST PICTURE THE LOVE SCENE IN THE WINDOW. LOL SCORPIOS NEED YOUR LOVE TO BE PROVEN TO THEM TOO/// BESIDES. TAURUS CAN BE SO INSECURE THAT THEY DEMEAN, BELITTLE AND OR DEGRADE YOU. THEY ARE ANTAGONIZERS.. THEY EXPECT WHAT THEY AREN'T WILLING TO GIVE AT TIMES..
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Well, a lot of it is true for me; however, people are individuals so all things don't apply to all people. For instance, I DON'T fall early and easily for anyone, and I'm NOT clingy and call "every 20 minutes." However, I do need reassurances (verbal and/or nonverbal) to indicate that you are interested in me, and that can be a small or big jesture, but I like to know on a semi-regular basis. Also, I do take care of my man, but I'm the same with my family and friends. I like to see people I care about happy...so, sue me! LOL. When I was younger, if someone wanted to break up with me, I would try (and usually successfully) to change their minds...but that only lasts for awhile, because if someone doesn't want to be somewhere, then let them go. I've learned that and now, I'm almost to the extreme the other way, cause I'll tell a man in a minute "if you aren't happy, then step." No reason to waste anybody's time, life is too short to be unhappy!
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I agree with the whole Taurean loving you, spoiling you stuff, but really! FLYGAL you made me gag, the comebacks to your post were so childish, (grammar, capslock etc etc lol).

Taureans, are not clingy, they love with true meaning of love, and when you really fall into that spell, then you somehow do want that person with you as if a part of you. Although i'm sorry, I can't deny the part, where they expect stuff from you they can't give you.

My ex taurean expected SOOOOOOOO much from me, it was unfbelievable. He wouldn't even let me prioritize my mom's birthday if he really felt like being with me. It was plain ridiculous and stupid. But he put a very slated line as to how 'he doesn't want me to expect too much out of him, as he's afraid of not meeting them' bleh bleh. And those expectations weren't high man, they were simple, what normal people keep in relationships. I'm still deeply in love with him, and haven't been able to date since we broke apart, which has been a year, but I have no interest in getting back with him. I was treated like a doormat, "degraded" to no end, and I keep reminders of all those things to make me stronger.

Seriously ladies, stop cryin for taurean men, they really aren't all that great! Love is NOT all you need. There is alot more in life.

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Leonine

you brought it home! Wow! applause..they are loving but one sided indeed and you know the bottem line is "Whats love got to do with it". There is a lot more to a relationship! I told mine tonight I lost a friend and he said he would call back, and when he did all he could talk about was his moustache that was cut wrong! Bad connection on phone he said he would call back and maybe he did but I was out with a real friend! They are loving but all one sided..to add we are four hours away and he looked into taking a train and told me 250.00 to much to spend..yeesh!> Its not worth all the drama I am not that insecure that a man to validate me with his one sided love!
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Heya all... I need a bit of insight (desperately so I think, LoL!).

Can anyone tell me whats probably going in the mind of this male taurus? He blows hot and cold all the time.

Short history: we met randomly, clicked and spent a few hours together just talking. Since we live in different cities, that was the only time we saw each other.

For weeks after that he calls every other day, never fail to send text with the sweetest things said. There were even hints that this could be more than just a random meeting and there might be a future together (although very subtlely hinted).

But for the past few weeks, the calls have not been frequent at all. But when he does call, he sounds so genuinely caring and interested.And just when I thought he has lost interest, he sents sweet random text.

I'm at lost here. Does he like me/ has he lost interest? why the mixed signals? I think I've fallen for this guy, however stupid that might sound considering we've only seen each other once.
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taurus35
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25th decan u hit it on the nose except in the bed part hey we aim to please,but a lot of that comes with age and maturity...when younger we just want what we want without thought..as u get older u do get better...when i was younger didnt give any thought about self improvement,but now that im 36 i find myself thirsty for ,more knowledge and work much more on self,then i can give myself to some whole heartly...but it does come with age and GROWTH..and yes i like to be comfortable it just depends on what im doing or where im going..he i can have on jersey and jeans for the football game and rise to the occasion of dressing up for the banquet...i think i can do it all and also give exactly what i expect from a man to him..but again that comes with age and maturity..,,
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Sooo. I wanna know how Taurus guy will test a girl to see if she will be there for him.
My Taurus guy will ask me question, like if I wanna do this or that. Just because he is asking me the questions, doesn't mean that those are the things he likes to do though. Often, those are the things he doesn't want to do, but he wants to know how I would answer them.
Also, he is very busy, and he cannot call or txt as much as he likes to. but he tells me I can txt him and call him whenever I want. and he won't tell me this from his side, but when I ask him if he reads all my txt or email or listen to my voice mail, he said he does all of them. Sometimes, feel like talking to a wall, but I always tell him good morning and good night everyday..