I was thinking the same thing. It takes a lot for us to really give up, but if the quarreling was incessant and he's truly frustrated then its really honestly truly a wrap.
I've always avoided relationships with Libras because the little petty arguments come up no matter how we try to avoid them. maybe a split is for the best.
but i did told him that i could compromise and give in to him, but they just don't seems to satisfy him. Moreover, he did said he would think about this getting-back issue, but he is taking a very, very long time. I really don't wish to give up our relationship yet, our problems are not even a very big issue.
Its not a big issue for you but to him he doesn't like all the disagreeing over nothing. He doesn't want you to give in that makes you come off as weak Taurus like strength if you have to give in he would rather just give up like it seems he has.
Personally once it's over, it's over. I don't like to hurt someone so I might listen to them persuade me to get back, but it's never worked so far. Ask him for a straight yes, no answer about whether he wants to try again. Sometimes I think a Taurus' weakness is not being harsh enough to tell someone to f off if we really don't want them, we try to cushion the blow which oftentimes backfires.
I've had a few Libra liasons, and I've always found we want different things in the long run.
Just because the problems arent big doesnt mean that the pleasures are. I know, myself, I was in a "good" relationship, and I could have very well stayed but it just lacked the spark that would make it anything more than settling for complacent toleration instead of fantastic love.
I know to me, and it might be more as a Taurus woman, petty arguments are the most annoying. The older I've gotten the more I've come to realize that an argument is only worth having when it really matters, and when it doesnt matter why argue. If he's having to suck it up and just say "nevermind forget it" he's probably wondering "why do we even have to go there, why are we ending up in this argument place".
I'd say if its taking him some time...he's not sure...and if he isnt sure what more do you need to know?
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I've always avoided relationships with Libras because the little petty arguments come up no matter how we try to avoid them. maybe a split is for the best.