
Scorpmoon39
@Scorpmoon39
9 YearsTaurus
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Posted by almondeyezkI don't know much about Aries...time to study up
Ok, I'm in the same boat. My venus is in Aries, and I plan on being single forever. Unfortunately.

Posted by AbrahamlThis is where I feel my problem lies... I have no choice but to be a frigging pillar of strength, I forgot how to lean on ppl. I've been on my own with no support system raising my beautiful little 9yr old son who has down syndrome along with a hormonal 16 year old daughter who has a lot of depression issues...on top of that I own my own business and well...I have to do it all because there's no one around to help. I don't know how to let anyone help me or be anything other than strong as f*#k.
you need to be a good girl. It's not that men are too weak. You too strong. You're a girl. Tone it down. We're all human. No one's perfect. But there probably is strong men out there that can handle you but idk

Posted by AbrahamlLol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.

Posted by ExplicitVenus is in the 8th house
What House is your Venus in?


Posted by jeaneI do this...if I'm into someone I want to know everything, experience everything with them. I want to know their soul not just their body. I am the most selfless person in a relationship, I ask for nothing. I give...give, give, give.
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.
rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.
i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.
for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.

Posted by Scorpmoon39You're almost 40 and you live in Cincinnati, honestly you don't have much of a choice. The mentality of people there(esp.men) is so far out.. I just cant.Posted by AbrahamlLol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.click to expand

Posted by AbrahamlI do need a warrior, someone strong and capable...fiercely loyal who is in touch with his emotions and worships me like I will him.Posted by Scorpmoon39To be honest, I can handle you, it's just probably the guys you picking . You need a warrior , not a pencil pusherPosted by AbrahamlThis is where I feel my problem lies... I have no choice but to be a frigging pillar of strength, I forgot how to lean on ppl. I've been on my own with no support system raising my beautiful little 9yr old son who has down syndrome along with a hormonal 16 year old daughter who has a lot of depression issues...on top of that I own my own business and well...I have to do it all because there's no one around to help. I don't know how to let anyone help me or be anything other than strong as f*#k.
you need to be a good girl. It's not that men are too weak. You too strong. You're a girl. Tone it down. We're all human. No one's perfect. But there probably is strong men out there that can handle you but idkclick to expand


Posted by HarleyTwinFlameIt's a mess here...it's a pathetic, sad, mess....no one has any depth or passion. I'm full of passionPosted by Scorpmoon39You're almost 40 and you live in Cincinnati, honestly you don't have much of a choice. The mentality of people there(esp.men) is so far out.. I just cant.Posted by AbrahamlLol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.
Maybe it really is you, but it's likely that it isn't your fault.
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Posted by Scorpmoon39but giving is what you want! they want to give to you! they want to provide. they want to be the one that opens the stuck lid off a jar. they want you to think they are the most amazing man that ever walked the earth.Posted by jeaneI do this...if I'm into someone I want to know everything, experience everything with them. I want to know their soul not just their body. I am the most selfless person in a relationship, I ask for nothing. I give...give, give, give.
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.
rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.
i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.
for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.click to expand

Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI'll do that!
And I'm just being honest.
That city is just bleh. If you get a chance to move, do so.
Yes, there are weak men and just immature low lifes in any city but... well.
Also venus in aries is a fun venus, but it's challening... you should check out will Harrisons venus in aries video it's a really good one
🙂

Posted by jeaneIt makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.Posted by Scorpmoon39but giving is what you want! they want to give to you! they want to provide. they want to be the one that opens the stuck lid off a jar. they want you to think they are the most amazing man that ever walked the earth.Posted by jeaneI do this...if I'm into someone I want to know everything, experience everything with them. I want to know their soul not just their body. I am the most selfless person in a relationship, I ask for nothing. I give...give, give, give.
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.
rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.
i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.
for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.
women like gifts and talk about their feelings. don't treat them like women. men like to be of service. they want your respect even more than your love.click to expand

Posted by Scorpmoon39then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.

Posted by AbrahamlYeah...no lol...I have 0 desire in using men for money, sex or anything else. I have self respect and I'm not chucking that out the door for a quick lay or some nice shoes....Posted by Scorpmoon39yes you have it easy. count your blessings. I know 60 year olds who can't get it up and can't get women even if they tried. Once I hit that age...Posted by AbrahamlLol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.
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Posted by jeaneI mean...how do I do that? I know it may seem like a stupid question but how do I make a man feel needed? What do I doPosted by Scorpmoon39then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
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Posted by AbrahamlUgh.. well I don't want them to be scared of me lol.Posted by Scorpmoon39I see why some men might be scared of you then well not me, I'm sexually attracted to older women so idk, you just gotta find a guy whose as I interested in you as you are him and who makes you feel good in every way but easier said than donePosted by AbrahamlYeah...no lol...I have 0 desire in using men for money, sex or anything else. I have self respect and I'm not chucking that out the door for a quick lay or some nice shoes....Posted by Scorpmoon39yes you have it easy. count your blessings. I know 60 year olds who can't get it up and can't get women even if they tried. Once I hit that age...Posted by AbrahamlLol...we have it easy? I'm missing the boat here and no way I'd get a sugar daddy...I have too much pride and respect for myself.
my ex taurus had a venus in aries, spoiled brat.. that's all I gotta say. Get you a sugar daddy online. You'll be alright. You girls got it easy.
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Posted by AbrahamlBaaaahahahahaha!!! I am quite talented in that dept but still...need more from them than a penis in my mouth.Posted by Scorpmoon39Suck his dick. Simple. That's all a dude needs.Posted by jeaneI mean...how do I do that? I know it may seem like a stupid question but how do I make a man feel needed? What do I doPosted by Scorpmoon39then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
...act helpless or blah!! The thought of it is making me cringe
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Posted by Scorpmoon39you don't need to act helpless but you have to let them take the lead at times. go back to the stuck lid, could you open it yourself? of course you could. you know it, he knows it but you allow him to open it and he feels amazing.Posted by jeaneI mean...how do I do that? I know it may seem like a stupid question but how do I make a man feel needed? What do I doPosted by Scorpmoon39then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
...act helpless or blah!! The thought of it is making me cringe
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Posted by jeaneI guess I can let him open a pickle jar every once in a while...I just don't do needy. Needy women make me gag...so do needy men. Has to be a good balance.Posted by Scorpmoon39you don't need to act helpless but you have to let them take the lead at times. go back to the stuck lid, could you open it yourself? of course you could. you know it, he knows it but you allow him to open it and he feels amazing.Posted by jeaneI mean...how do I do that? I know it may seem like a stupid question but how do I make a man feel needed? What do I doPosted by Scorpmoon39then what is the point of them? what is their purpose?
It makes my anxiety go nuts just thinking about relying on someone for help or even asking for it.
learn to get over your anxiety and let someone in and you'll get a man before you know it.
...act helpless or blah!! The thought of it is making me cringe
you want to give? give him small victories, allow him to feel like a winner.
like i said, he'll know very well the strong independent woman you are, but he'll love you for making him feel like the biggest dick swinging guy whoever walked the earth. who can resist a woman who makes you feel that way?
you don't have to force it, they will offer in little ways to show you they can take care of you. let them, don't shut them down. it doesn't make you weak, it makes you irreplaceable.
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Posted by Scorpmoon39don't be needy. i am not needy but as my guy says to me "i like it when you need my help".
I guess I can let him open a pickle jar every once in a while...I just don't do needy. Needy women make me gag...so do needy men. Has to be a good balance.

Posted by andstrollbotGod...I can be suffocating. I mean...I need attention, I need to feel desired
date someone as intense aka suffocating and maybe you will learn to ease up i onow that is how i learned.



Posted by busyeyes88Yeah l know the feeling, life tears us down so we get strong, but then people find us too harsh, you can't win, cause every single person needs to be babied. Some get by without but even they need to be babied a bit. Most people need to at least help where they can, to nurture others, but some don't even do that, because they think it's not that urgent. But it is.Posted by bricklemarkLots of men don't seem to like women with strong personalities but what they fail to realise is these women with strong personalities have had to cope with a lot of difficulties and hardships in their lives and without the strength of a strong personality, they would have fallen at the waste side long ago!!!
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.
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Posted by AbrahamlI thought men like dominant woman?
you need to be a good girl. It's not that men are too weak. You too strong. You're a girl. Tone it down. We're all human. No one's perfect. But there probably is strong men out there that can handle you but idk

Posted by busyeyes88Is this me? If so Ty ? l'm a cancer. You sound sweet too ?
@BM. You sound really sweet and caring ! 😄

Posted by Scorpmoon39Well looking at this you way more intense than I. But my placements compared to yours I would be a little hesitant or intimidated by your energy. Takes me awhile to get used to fire, fixed energy. As I am similar but more kick back and less impulsive.
Ok...so, I'm a pain in the ass and intense as hell...im planning on being single till I die because holy crap these dudes run lmao. I'm either too strong, too free, too laid back, too busy, too sexual, too sensual, too quiet, too emotional, too un emotional, too opinionated, too crazy (I have a wild side)...gahhhhh!! Can a girl get a strong ass man that can have sex for hours, be a creative and know how to have a conversation that has some damn depth— I'm over it...all the same flighty ass men who can't stand beside me.
Here's some placements ...
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Scorpio
Mars in Aries
Venus in Aries

Posted by BeautyandTheBullIt's way too intense true.
Aries Venus is too much for my Taurus Venus ... They usually annoy me pretty fast & I haven't quite put my finger on 1
Sun in Taurus
Venus in Taurus
Moon Virgo



Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Ugh....this sucks lol. I used to be codependent, got married really young and now divorced for 6 years now. I've grown so much in those 6 years and I really like myself now. I've built a successful business, provide for my family, I'm fun as hell and I have one hell of a big heart. I'm not all manly lol...im about as much of a woman as you can get...long hair, makeup, heels etc. I'm far from a dude. I'm soft and gentle but can also be hard and mean as hell of you cross me. Leo's are a no for me, I just had a virgo from hell and other sure I can take the scorpio manipulation crap...definitely not into sag, too black and white for me. Lmao I'm a mess...Posted by BeautyandTheBullIt's way too intense true.
Aries Venus is too much for my Taurus Venus ... They usually annoy me pretty fast & I haven't quite put my finger on 1
Sun in Taurus
Venus in Taurus
Moon Virgoclick to expand

Posted by Scorpmoon39No you may need some water and earth signs. It may help tone you down alittle and go with the flow.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Ugh....this sucks lol. I used to be codependent, got married really young and now divorced for 6 years now. I've grown so much in those 6 years and I really like myself now. I've built a successful business, provide for my family, I'm fun as hell and I have one hell of a big heart. I'm not all manly lol...im about as much of a woman as you can get...long hair, makeup, heels etc. I'm far from a dude. I'm soft and gentle but can also be hard and mean as hell of you cross me. Leo's are a no for me, I just had a virgo from hell and other sure I can take the scorpio manipulation crap...definitely not into sag, too black and white for me. Lmao I'm a mess...Posted by BeautyandTheBullIt's way too intense true.
Aries Venus is too much for my Taurus Venus ... They usually annoy me pretty fast & I haven't quite put my finger on 1
Sun in Taurus
Venus in Taurus
Moon Virgo
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Posted by bricklemarkIdk..I'm thinking they feel imasculated by me ? I definitely don't mean to do that but it seems the general consensus is that. I've been told I'm intimidating but I think it's because I do have very intense energy but there's nothing I can do about that.Posted by busyeyes88Yeah l know the feeling, life tears us down so we get strong, but then people find us too harsh, you can't win, cause every single person needs to be babied. Some get by without but even they need to be babied a bit. Most people need to at least help where they can, to nurture others, but some don't even do that, because they think it's not that urgent. But it is.Posted by bricklemarkLots of men don't seem to like women with strong personalities but what they fail to realise is these women with strong personalities have had to cope with a lot of difficulties and hardships in their lives and without the strength of a strong personality, they would have fallen at the waste side long ago!!!
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.
It's so hard ...
Anyway what is a strong personality anyway? As long as the person isn't rejecting you, it's fine, you don't just leave cause they're strong.click to expand

Posted by LeDominoesHaha! I have them installed under my bed —
Have you tried these?![]()

Posted by everlynnBecause I wanted to lol, no...someone made a comment about my last one so I changed it....and the little fact that I have had a hell of a time making a decision on anything the last few months. It's weird..
@Scorpmoon39 why do you keep changing your profile picture—

Posted by Scorpmoon39Dayum...do you go for educated guys? Ceo's, or in high paying jobs?Posted by bricklemarkIdk..I'm thinking they feel imasculated by me ? I definitely don't mean to do that but it seems the general consensus is that. I've been told I'm intimidating but I think it's because I do have very intense energy but there's nothing I can do about that.Posted by busyeyes88Yeah l know the feeling, life tears us down so we get strong, but then people find us too harsh, you can't win, cause every single person needs to be babied. Some get by without but even they need to be babied a bit. Most people need to at least help where they can, to nurture others, but some don't even do that, because they think it's not that urgent. But it is.Posted by bricklemarkLots of men don't seem to like women with strong personalities but what they fail to realise is these women with strong personalities have had to cope with a lot of difficulties and hardships in their lives and without the strength of a strong personality, they would have fallen at the waste side long ago!!!
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.
It's so hard ...
Anyway what is a strong personality anyway? As long as the person isn't rejecting you, it's fine, you don't just leave cause they're strong.
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Posted by AbrahamlPosted by brandypHA! So he can cheat on her . Every male taurus I knew always had bitches on deck . Always. Mines were of higher quality of coursePosted by Scorpmoon39You need to get with another taurus.Posted by AbrahamlI do need a warrior, someone strong and capable...fiercely loyal who is in touch with his emotions and worships me like I will him.Posted by Scorpmoon39To be honest, I can handle you, it's just probably the guys you picking . You need a warrior , not a pencil pusherPosted by AbrahamlThis is where I feel my problem lies... I have no choice but to be a frigging pillar of strength, I forgot how to lean on ppl. I've been on my own with no support system raising my beautiful little 9yr old son who has down syndrome along with a hormonal 16 year old daughter who has a lot of depression issues...on top of that I own my own business and well...I have to do it all because there's no one around to help. I don't know how to let anyone help me or be anything other than strong as f*#k.
you need to be a good girl. It's not that men are too weak. You too strong. You're a girl. Tone it down. We're all human. No one's perfect. But there probably is strong men out there that can handle you but idk
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Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWhoa....now I get it. Now I know where that is coming from!! I have been working on the ego and selfishness over the last few years but what he said about reacting without a moments thought and then regrett it moments later...BIG problem right now. I'm going to dive into my aries and try and control the dark side of it way better

Posted by bricklemarkNo..Posted by Scorpmoon39Dayum...do you go for educated guys? Ceo's, or in high paying jobs?Posted by bricklemarkIdk..I'm thinking they feel imasculated by me ? I definitely don't mean to do that but it seems the general consensus is that. I've been told I'm intimidating but I think it's because I do have very intense energy but there's nothing I can do about that.Posted by busyeyes88Yeah l know the feeling, life tears us down so we get strong, but then people find us too harsh, you can't win, cause every single person needs to be babied. Some get by without but even they need to be babied a bit. Most people need to at least help where they can, to nurture others, but some don't even do that, because they think it's not that urgent. But it is.Posted by bricklemarkLots of men don't seem to like women with strong personalities but what they fail to realise is these women with strong personalities have had to cope with a lot of difficulties and hardships in their lives and without the strength of a strong personality, they would have fallen at the waste side long ago!!!
It's the guys's fault, not yours. You sound perfect, maybe in America most guys are just immature and silly their entire lives. My wife is big, introverted, quiet, traumatisd, at times completely irrational gem, any guy would be lucky to have you, l simply don't understand.
It's so hard ...
Anyway what is a strong personality anyway? As long as the person isn't rejecting you, it's fine, you don't just leave cause they're strong.
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Posted by champrangerIt's a constant struggle because yes, we want it but it's the allowing ourselves to be vulnerable enough to allow ourselves to receive it is the problemPosted by AbrahamlI think any strong woman would want someone in their life who's their support system in their moments of weakness. Someone who makes them feel like they don't always have to be the strong and independent one. Someone that makes them feel more "feminine"...
A strong woman is someone who is nice and tries not to let the world trample them. But there comes a point in time when these strong women gotta tone it down for a dude at least a little bit. You don't need to be a jerk 24/7 to someone you like
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Posted by champrangerHIt that nail right on the head...Posted by Scorpmoon39I think it's definitely the intensity. I find Aries Venus tends to constantly think about the person they like. As a result, you're always thinking of wanting to talk to them, spend time with them, and doing things for them. Aries Venus can put in too much effort, too soon in the eyes of the other person.
Ok...so, I'm a pain in the ass and intense as hell...im planning on being single till I die because holy crap these dudes run lmao. I'm either too strong, too free, too laid back, too busy, too sexual, too sensual, too quiet, too emotional, too un emotional, too opinionated, too crazy (I have a wild side)...gahhhhh!! Can a girl get a strong ass man that can have sex for hours, be a creative and know how to have a conversation that has some damn depth— I'm over it...all the same flighty ass men who can't stand beside me.
Here's some placements ...
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Scorpio
Mars in Aries
Venus in Aries
This is added to your Aries Mars (which makes you very much go after what you want) and Scorp Moon. I think Aries Mars can also get frustrated at the lack of action from other people.
IMO
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Hey 🙂 l'm good thanks, how are you? What's goin on in your world? I only answered cause it was on the front page 🙂
Hello, @Bricklemark fancy seeing you here in the Taurus board. How are you doing?
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Here's some placements ...
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Scorpio
Mars in Aries
Venus in Aries