I cant keep a man for 5 min!! What the h#* (Page 2)

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
See I have Mars in Taurus you and I would clash, but get along for along time.. If you whiplash your energy towards me ill either embrace it or challenge it. I'll slow the roll and question why you did this or how, what for? And I would watch your behalf of your actions to see if they match my actions too.

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hello, @Bricklemark fancy seeing you here in the Taurus board. How are you doing?

Hey 🙂 l'm good thanks, how are you? What's goin on in your world? I only answered cause it was on the front page 🙂

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What was in the front page? Lol

I'm good, just doing laundry, snooping dxp, and you? What are you doing this weekend?

Let's see my world well it's changing surely hopefully for the better. I feel positive energy and talkative self again cause I was gloomy for a bit. Lol

Oh man our world is going crazy right now. Too much sadly.

And your how is your world?

Posted by Scorpmoon39
Dayum...do you go for educated guys? Ceo's, or in high paying jobs?

No..

I live on the west side of cincinnati, basically the armpit of cinci lol. And to be honest, they intimidate me...I don't feel accomplished enough or educated enough. Insecurities suck

Well there you go, you're clearly going for guys in a league beneath you...that's the Aries, it's a confident sign but they often sell themselves short. You have to try, your capabilities are perfectly suited for smarter guys, you can do better. Maybe you have a Pluto transit or smth coming up that's stirring this issue up so it explodes and you can level-up.

That's me! I'm Venus Aries too and when I have a crush I can't stop thinking about them! Its cray! Plus the men come on strong try to bed me and leave, the ones I don't want stick a while longer.. Ugh

This has been really good!! I'm so happy I posted this, it has definitely she'd some light on things I need to work on within myself. Thank you all so much!! I feel really good about this...im all about self awareness and growth so time to get to work!!

Posted by britneybabe26
That's me! I'm Venus Aries too and when I have a crush I can't stop thinking about them! Its cray! Plus the men come on strong try to bed me and leave, the ones I don't want stick a while longer.. Ugh

Well that's cool because VIT likes that very much. It is after what actually happens afterwards. What do you do when sex is finally there. I get clouded to when around VIA...so after I am usually the one to slow things down no matter how hot because in the beginning I'm still getting to know that person.

Posted by champranger

Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by champranger

Posted by Scorpmoon39
Ok...so, I'm a pain in the ass and intense as hell...im planning on being single till I die because holy crap these dudes run lmao. I'm either too strong, too free, too laid back, too busy, too sexual, too sensual, too quiet, too emotional, too un emotional, too opinionated, too crazy (I have a wild side)...gahhhhh!! Can a girl get a strong ass man that can have sex for hours, be a creative and know how to have a conversation that has some damn depth— I'm over it...all the same flighty ass men who can't stand beside me.

Here's some placements ...

Sun in Taurus

Moon in Scorpio

Mars in Aries

Venus in Aries

I think it's definitely the intensity. I find Aries Venus tends to constantly think about the person they like. As a result, you're always thinking of wanting to talk to them, spend time with them, and doing things for them. Aries Venus can put in too much effort, too soon in the eyes of the other person.

This is added to your Aries Mars (which makes you very much go after what you want) and Scorp Moon. I think Aries Mars can also get frustrated at the lack of action from other people.

IMO

HIt that nail right on the head...

Ugh, how do I fix this?!?! God...now I see not only am I a pain in the ass but I'm an overbearing, smothering, love the crap out of ppl pain in the ass.

I'm an Aries Sun and Aries Venus. I relate to your pain very much. 😐 But I think I'm still very much a work-in-progress in that regards. Right now, I try to be mindful of other people's space and time, particularly when they're busy. I'm trying to control my fire ... in that I'm trying to direct my fire, rather than letting it freely spread.

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Well hello @Champranger. Haha howdy stranger, I am first decan who might you be?

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

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Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by champranger

Posted by Scorpmoon39
Ok...so, I'm a pain in the ass and intense as hell...im planning on being single till I die because holy crap these dudes run lmao. I'm either too strong, too free, too laid back, too busy, too sexual, too sensual, too quiet, too emotional, too un emotional, too opinionated, too crazy (I have a wild side)...gahhhhh!! Can a girl get a strong ass man that can have sex for hours, be a creative and know how to have a conversation that has some damn depth— I'm over it...all the same flighty ass men who can't stand beside me.

Here's some placements ...

Sun in Taurus

Moon in Scorpio

Mars in Aries

Venus in Aries

I think it's definitely the intensity. I find Aries Venus tends to constantly think about the person they like. As a result, you're always thinking of wanting to talk to them, spend time with them, and doing things for them. Aries Venus can put in too much effort, too soon in the eyes of the other person.

This is added to your Aries Mars (which makes you very much go after what you want) and Scorp Moon. I think Aries Mars can also get frustrated at the lack of action from other people.

IMO

HIt that nail right on the head...

Ugh, how do I fix this?!?! God...now I see not only am I a pain in the ass but I'm an overbearing, smothering, love the crap out of ppl pain in the ass.

I'm an Aries Sun and Aries Venus. I relate to your pain very much. 😐 But I think I'm still very much a work-in-progress in that regards. Right now, I try to be mindful of other people's space and time, particularly when they're busy. I'm trying to control my fire ... in that I'm trying to direct my fire, rather than letting it freely spread.

Well hello @Champranger. Haha howdy stranger, I am first decan who might you be?

Haha, howdy miss. Fancy meeting you here. 😏

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Likewise. Haha stay cool...?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hello, @Bricklemark fancy seeing you here in the Taurus board. How are you doing?

Hey 🙂 l'm good thanks, how are you? What's goin on in your world? I only answered cause it was on the front page 🙂

What was in the front page? Lol

I'm good, just doing laundry, snooping dxp, and you? What are you doing this weekend?

Let's see my world well it's changing surely hopefully for the better. I feel positive energy and talkative self again cause I was gloomy for a bit. Lol

Oh man our world is going crazy right now. Too much sadly.

And your how is your world?

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This question... 🙂

Hopefully rock climbing, or kayaking...glad ur feeling better. I fear that they're just manufacturing a race war to take away people's guns...?

My world's pretty awful...l'm stalked pretty bad.

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hello, @Bricklemark fancy seeing you here in the Taurus board. How are you doing?

Hey 🙂 l'm good thanks, how are you? What's goin on in your world? I only answered cause it was on the front page 🙂

What was in the front page? Lol

I'm good, just doing laundry, snooping dxp, and you? What are you doing this weekend?

Let's see my world well it's changing surely hopefully for the better. I feel positive energy and talkative self again cause I was gloomy for a bit. Lol

Oh man our world is going crazy right now. Too much sadly.

And your how is your world?

This question... 🙂

Hopefully rock climbing, or kayaking...glad ur feeling better. I fear that they're just manufacturing a race war to take away people's guns...?

My world's pretty awful...l'm stalked pretty bad.

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What? Whose stalking you lots of woman? Haha of course you are awesome.

Posted by Instantkarma

Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by jeane
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.

rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.

i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.

for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.

I do this...if I'm into someone I want to know everything, experience everything with them. I want to know their soul not just their body. I am the most selfless person in a relationship, I ask for nothing. I give...give, give, give.

"I ask for nothing. I give....give,give,give,give."

This

And

There is something more about what you said in the first post. Im not comfortable mentioning it.

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I'd like to hear it...I am good with constructive criticism and I truly am interested in how to better myself. If it's the sex thing...that popped up in my mid 30's...drive kicked into high gear BUT I never base anyour relationship off sex nor do I want that to be the focus. The chemistry has to be there but I need a connection on a soul level.

Posted by Instantkarma

Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by Instantkarma

Posted by Scorpmoon39

Posted by jeane
i would suggest perhaps changing your focus.

rather than what they can do for you maybe look to learning about them and trying to form a partnership.

i'm not saying be submissive or be someone you are not but men love to be wanted, they want to be needed, they want to make you happy.

for that, you have to allow them that opportunity. while you are being strong and independent, there is nothing for them. to be caught you must let yourself be catchable.

I do this...if I'm into someone I want to know everything, experience everything with them. I want to know their soul not just their body. I am the most selfless person in a relationship, I ask for nothing. I give...give, give, give.

"I ask for nothing. I give....give,give,give,give."

This

And

There is something more about what you said in the first post. Im not comfortable mentioning it.

I'd like to hear it...I am good with constructive criticism and I truly am interested in how to better myself. If it's the sex thing...that popped up in my mid 30's...drive kicked into high gear BUT I never base anyour relationship off sex nor do I want that to be the focus. The chemistry has to be there but I need a connection on a soul level.

Oh no not sex!

If you give too much, they may think you are over compensating. Let them meet you half way.

And all those things you said are great but is that how you see yourself. If yes,does that make you a happy person? just asking. I wasnt sure if you are happy about being intense,etc,...

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Ok, I see...hmmm. it's kind of a double edge sword for me. It seems that what I love the most about myself is also the thing that I hate....the dark side of it. Now that I have a better understanding of my venus in aries placement, a lot is making sense and I feel like FINALLY I know where my biggest obstacles lie. See...the light part of aries is an incredible feeling. I'm inspired by everything and it allows me to create within my work on a deeper level. It also is what makes it possible for me to be able to do what I do...but the dark side is very ugly and I never knew where it was coming from. It's like a jekyll and Hyde thing...im loving and giving one min but when I feel like I'm not being treated or loved properly I can cut you with my words...now, I never curse at anyone or call names but I will react without thinking and then regret it later. That is HUGE and I need to be more conscious about this side of me.

Posted by Nevermore
I can see you're quite an open book.

Very daring, but highly guarded independent, very intense and selfless women.

But the way you talk.. what's your mercury?

My Mercury is in Taurus

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Scorpmoon39
Dayum...do you go for educated guys? Ceo's, or in high paying jobs?

No..

I live on the west side of cincinnati, basically the armpit of cinci lol. And to be honest, they intimidate me...I don't feel accomplished enough or educated enough. Insecurities suck

Well there you go, you're clearly going for guys in a league beneath you...that's the Aries, it's a confident sign but they often sell themselves short. You have to try, your capabilities are perfectly suited for smarter guys, you can do better. Maybe you have a Pluto transit or smth coming up that's stirring this issue up so it explodes and you can level-up.

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^^ This, we've got to get you to upgrade your men. A smart man appreciates a strong partner, they see the value in partnership not a one sided ego boost from a woman.