haha, i kinda like it too!
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Posted by GemitatiShe's not confused. She's just venting/sharing. Better here than at him!
If OP had heart to heart for the first time...how come she is still confused about future and don
't know the future of him and gf?
I think the issue is OP doesn't know what heart to heart talk means.
Posted by jeanehow do u pm im new here ..ive tried sending one but it comes to a dead end. Dont mean to pry but...hows your taurus bf in your relationship? Does he do the disappearing act at all 🙂Posted by aqualady0118a little bit, only with one guy - my current bf. i have a good female friend who is also a taurus but i'm certainly i'm no expert. i have been haunting this board for a while though and i've noticed a few patterns.Posted by jeane
these guys though, when they truly want you they won't stop. they don't stop talking to you, they don't take no for an answer, it is like they impervious to anything and anyone you put in front of them. i've never experienced anything like it.
typical conversation would go something like this
a: do you want to?
b: no
a: do you want to?
b: no, i don't
a: so do you want to?
b: oh my god, no!
a: do you want to?
b: NO NO NO NO!
a: so you do want to?
b: jesus mary and joseph....ok
there is no way of getting out of it once they have made their mind up. this guy is just messing with you and has been for a year now. (and he is being an absolute arsehole to his girlfriend as well)
Jeane, my excellent advice giver friend...do u have a lot of taurus guy experience? If so, I'd love to hear a few some day 🙂 Do they really pursue that way if they want u badly?? I thought they had big egos...
yeah, hit me up on pm if you have a question. i can't guarantee i'll be right but i'm happy to tell you a bit of my experience with them. 🙂
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Posted by aqualady0118Honestly though I've made a huge progress in moving on. You especially knocked some sense into me when I was feeling how I was feeling. I regret having wasted so much energy and time on someone who just didn't feel the same. I don't regret going through the emotions though. It felt good to get butterflies, to cry, giggle, cry some more...apparently this Aquarius is human after all!Posted by jeanehow do u pm im new here ..ive tried sending one but it comes to a dead end. Dont mean to pry but...hows your taurus bf in your relationship? Does he do the disappearing act at all 🙂Posted by aqualady0118a little bit, only with one guy - my current bf. i have a good female friend who is also a taurus but i'm certainly i'm no expert. i have been haunting this board for a while though and i've noticed a few patterns.Posted by jeane
these guys though, when they truly want you they won't stop. they don't stop talking to you, they don't take no for an answer, it is like they impervious to anything and anyone you put in front of them. i've never experienced anything like it.
typical conversation would go something like this
a: do you want to?
b: no
a: do you want to?
b: no, i don't
a: so do you want to?
b: oh my god, no!
a: do you want to?
b: NO NO NO NO!
a: so you do want to?
b: jesus mary and joseph....ok
there is no way of getting out of it once they have made their mind up. this guy is just messing with you and has been for a year now. (and he is being an absolute arsehole to his girlfriend as well)
Jeane, my excellent advice giver friend...do u have a lot of taurus guy experience? If so, I'd love to hear a few some day 🙂 Do they really pursue that way if they want u badly?? I thought they had big egos...
yeah, hit me up on pm if you have a question. i can't guarantee i'll be right but i'm happy to tell you a bit of my experience with them. 🙂
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Right about now is when that Taurus will be popping up again. Always happens. But it's ok. I'm almost done with it.
Posted by aqualady0118i tried to send you a pm to tell you how to do a pm but it said you had disabled private messaging? it might be something you need to untick in settings.
Honestly though I've made a huge progress in moving on. You especially knocked some sense into me when I was feeling how I was feeling. I regret having wasted so much energy and time on someone who just didn't feel the same. I don't regret going through the emotions though. It felt good to get butterflies, to cry, giggle, cry some more...apparently this Aquarius is human after all!
Right about now is when that Taurus will be popping up again. Always happens. But it's ok. I'm almost done with it.
luckily since i have had some awful experiences with dxp messaging, i took the precaution of copying my message before i pressed 'send message'. so here is the abridged version!
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i'm so glad to hear my advice helped you. normally i think i am speaking into the wind where no one ever bothers to listen. ultimately, people are going to do what they are going to do. typing here is a sort of exercise in masochism.
i know what you mean about being nearly out of your crush and being pulled back in. that happened to me too.
i had convinced myself that it was gone and i was done with it. i felt myself feel lighter and i remarked to a friend that it had gone and i rejoiced! finally i could be myself and get a hold of my senses again! i would be crazy no more! then i met a mutual friend who he spoke about him within the first 5 minutes of our conversation and i would be right back to square one again. i didn't even need to see him. just hearing what he was up to sent me back into lunacy. i'm not saying that will happen with you, but the mind is a fucker and that chemical rush it goes through is addictive and for good reason.
my bf doesn't really disappear. we talk or text nearly every day. sometimes more (it will be all day long and constant), sometimes less ( a catch up at the end of the day). we see each other 2-3 times a week, dependent on schedules and other commitments. there are the odd times when i might not hear from him for a few days. at first that would send me into a tail spin but i quickly learnt that he was just dealing with other things in his life. so yes, he "disappears" but he is never far from reach and it's only for a day at the very most.
hope that helps! i hope this crush of yours abates soon. it would be nice if he eventually comes round to your way of thinking and it might happen. i just would hate to see you put your life/emotions/heart on hold in the meantime for a guy who hasn't found his sack just yet.
Posted by SassyKiwiIts a two way street. We may try. Let us hit the wall first.
You Scorps have got to stop falling for these sleazy Tauruses
Posted by GemitatiIt was a deep conversation with many still left unsaid. We talked about everything except whats really with us as i shut down when he said he had a gf.
If OP had heart to heart for the first time...how come she is still confused about future and don
't know the future of him and gf?
I think the issue is OP doesn't know what heart to heart talk means.
We talked about friends & family. I told him how some of those so called friends of his were not good for him. That they are no real friends to him and he should stay away. I told him how much potential he has in life and he shouldnt let that go to waste.
He agreed to all and told me he thinks about it all when he is alone he knows im right.
His dad has cancer and is in hospital abroad not in a good state , he hasnt seen him in person since he was 7 years old. I told him hes gotta have to make it there and see him maybe for the last time cuz despite all those times he kept saying hes got nothing to do with him, i know thats the biggest hole in his soul and the love is there no matter what.
This morning ive seen he travelled to where his dad is. I hope he made it there on time.
Posted by wicked@wicked Thank you v much!Posted by seezythescorpionThis is keeping his options open with you but and very sadly keeping you within reach on the sly.Posted by busyeyes88For what reason that may be do you think busy?Posted by seezythescorpionHe just wanted to get a reaction from you... Just keep it moving...
I dont either. He could keep it to himself.
I dont know what kind of reaction he may have been looking for.
Im trying to move on since he has. Its weird he has told me this.
I didn't read everything. Held up for time.
But if a guy has good intentions,he will tell the world about you.
If he sees you as a great gal but doesn't care for you in a special way, he will let his guy friend know how great u r and how good u r a friend to him.
Only jerks say things like what he said.
Pls don't try to glorify his actions. Don't romantize it.
Maybe he doesn't want to give up his invisible(?) hold over you. Maybe he doesn't wanna say anything good abt u to him, worried his friend could want u and get u. Or he could be a real asshole who doesn't want people to know he knows you. All leads to seriously bad hidden motives,agendas and manipulative tricks.
In simple words - He is not a great guy. Not even an OK sort. Ask yourself if u have a daughter, would u want her around this type of guy? There you have your answer.
Is this the type of guy u wanna be with?
Pls bear in mind I didn't read your full posts.
Wish u the best.
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Those few options u stated above were also what i could think of.
Its more than wanting to be withh him. Its more like wanting him to be well and not lost as he is now.
Everytime i feel hes going through something i find out he actually is. I feel it. Hence i check on him out of the blue cuz the feeling bothers me. I need to know he is well. He asked me last time i saw him what was it that made me call him? did i know he wasnt happy?
Dont know how to explain this to you.
Posted by AgentP911@Agent that sounds good. In fact..sounds real good.Posted by aqualady0118This Taurus dude I've seen a couple of times is exactly as Jeane put it. I'd not experienced it before. It was odd because I'd said no and stated my case but he kept asking me to go round his, every day, for 9 days straight, yet he failed to actually ask me out out. I almost lost it with him and nearly said 'are you a fucking dumb shit or just deaf? I said no!!!!' But in a weird way I kind of like his persistence. Wtf is that all about!!!Posted by jeaneJeane, my excellent advice giver friend...do u have a lot of taurus guy experience? If so, I'd love to hear a few some day 🙂 Do they really pursue that way if they want u badly?? I thought they had big egos...
these guys though, when they truly want you they won't stop. they don't stop talking to you, they don't take no for an answer, it is like they impervious to anything and anyone you put in front of them. i've never experienced anything like it.
typical conversation would go something like this
a: do you want to?
b: no
a: do you want to?
b: no, i don't
a: so do you want to?
b: oh my god, no!
a: do you want to?
b: NO NO NO NO!
a: so you do want to?
b: jesus mary and joseph....ok
there is no way of getting out of it once they have made their mind up. this guy is just messing with you and has been for a year now. (and he is being an absolute arsehole to his girlfriend as well)
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Made me smile. Im sure u know whats that all about. I trust you with this Taurus.
Posted by AgentP911I say better at him because she might be having an idea where she stands now.Posted by GemitatiShe's not confused. She's just venting/sharing. Better here than at him!
If OP had heart to heart for the first time...how come she is still confused about future and don
't know the future of him and gf?
I think the issue is OP doesn't know what heart to heart talk means.click to expand
Otherwise what had that heart to heart cleared for her? Nothing...he went to his
gf after telling her I love you. Doesn't make sense at all.
Posted by seezythescorpionI can totally understand. But what is that that YOU want from him?Posted by wicked@wicked Thank you v much!Posted by seezythescorpionThis is keeping his options open with you but and very sadly keeping you within reach on the sly.Posted by busyeyes88For what reason that may be do you think busy?Posted by seezythescorpionHe just wanted to get a reaction from you... Just keep it moving...
I dont either. He could keep it to himself.
I dont know what kind of reaction he may have been looking for.
Im trying to move on since he has. Its weird he has told me this.
I didn't read everything. Held up for time.
But if a guy has good intentions,he will tell the world about you.
If he sees you as a great gal but doesn't care for you in a special way, he will let his guy friend know how great u r and how good u r a friend to him.
Only jerks say things like what he said.
Pls don't try to glorify his actions. Don't romantize it.
Maybe he doesn't want to give up his invisible(?) hold over you. Maybe he doesn't wanna say anything good abt u to him, worried his friend could want u and get u. Or he could be a real asshole who doesn't want people to know he knows you. All leads to seriously bad hidden motives,agendas and manipulative tricks.
In simple words - He is not a great guy. Not even an OK sort. Ask yourself if u have a daughter, would u want her around this type of guy? There you have your answer.
Is this the type of guy u wanna be with?
Pls bear in mind I didn't read your full posts.
Wish u the best.
Those few options u stated above were also what i could think of.
Its more than wanting to be withh him. Its more like wanting him to be well and not lost as he is now.
Everytime i feel hes going through something i find out he actually is. I feel it. Hence i check on him out of the blue cuz the feeling bothers me. I need to know he is well. He asked me last time i saw him what was it that made me call him? did i know he wasnt happy?
Dont know how to explain this to you.click to expand
Do you have a closure?
Posted by GemitatiThere's back story so it's based on the whole rather than the part.Posted by AgentP911I say better at him because she might be having an idea where she stands now.Posted by GemitatiShe's not confused. She's just venting/sharing. Better here than at him!
If OP had heart to heart for the first time...how come she is still confused about future and don
't know the future of him and gf?
I think the issue is OP doesn't know what heart to heart talk means.
Otherwise what had that heart to heart cleared for her? Nothing...he went to his
gf after telling her I love you. Doesn't make sense at all.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911So from your perspective it seems like it is all right?Posted by GemitatiThere's back story so it's based on the whole rather than the part.Posted by AgentP911I say better at him because she might be having an idea where she stands now.Posted by GemitatiShe's not confused. She's just venting/sharing. Better here than at him!
If OP had heart to heart for the first time...how come she is still confused about future and don
't know the future of him and gf?
I think the issue is OP doesn't know what heart to heart talk means.
Otherwise what had that heart to heart cleared for her? Nothing...he went to his
gf after telling her I love you. Doesn't make sense at all.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiIs what alright?Posted by AgentP911So from your perspective it seems like it is all right?Posted by GemitatiThere's back story so it's based on the whole rather than the part.Posted by AgentP911I say better at him because she might be having an idea where she stands now.Posted by GemitatiShe's not confused. She's just venting/sharing. Better here than at him!
If OP had heart to heart for the first time...how come she is still confused about future and don
't know the future of him and gf?
I think the issue is OP doesn't know what heart to heart talk means.
Otherwise what had that heart to heart cleared for her? Nothing...he went to his
gf after telling her I love you. Doesn't make sense at all.click to expand
Posted by seezythescorpionHa ha, how can him constantly and consistently asking me to go round his place, for sex, be really good?? I think I made it clearer to him. I'm unsure if there's much more between us than a hot fuck but we'll see. I've got another Taurus on the go too. Meeting him on Friday.Posted by AgentP911@Agent that sounds good. In fact..sounds real good.Posted by aqualady0118This Taurus dude I've seen a couple of times is exactly as Jeane put it. I'd not experienced it before. It was odd because I'd said no and stated my case but he kept asking me to go round his, every day, for 9 days straight, yet he failed to actually ask me out out. I almost lost it with him and nearly said 'are you a fucking dumb shit or just deaf? I said no!!!!' But in a weird way I kind of like his persistence. Wtf is that all about!!!Posted by jeaneJeane, my excellent advice giver friend...do u have a lot of taurus guy experience? If so, I'd love to hear a few some day 🙂 Do they really pursue that way if they want u badly?? I thought they had big egos...
these guys though, when they truly want you they won't stop. they don't stop talking to you, they don't take no for an answer, it is like they impervious to anything and anyone you put in front of them. i've never experienced anything like it.
typical conversation would go something like this
a: do you want to?
b: no
a: do you want to?
b: no, i don't
a: so do you want to?
b: oh my god, no!
a: do you want to?
b: NO NO NO NO!
a: so you do want to?
b: jesus mary and joseph....ok
there is no way of getting out of it once they have made their mind up. this guy is just messing with you and has been for a year now. (and he is being an absolute arsehole to his girlfriend as well)
Made me smile. Im sure u know whats that all about. I trust you with this Taurus.click to expand
Posted by jeaneI listen ÅPosted by aqualady0118i tried to send you a pm to tell you how to do a pm but it said you had disabled private messaging? it might be something you need to untick in settings.
Honestly though I've made a huge progress in moving on. You especially knocked some sense into me when I was feeling how I was feeling. I regret having wasted so much energy and time on someone who just didn't feel the same. I don't regret going through the emotions though. It felt good to get butterflies, to cry, giggle, cry some more...apparently this Aquarius is human after all!
Right about now is when that Taurus will be popping up again. Always happens. But it's ok. I'm almost done with it.
luckily since i have had some awful experiences with dxp messaging, i took the precaution of copying my message before i pressed 'send message'. so here is the abridged version!
-----
i'm so glad to hear my advice helped you. normally i think i am speaking into the wind where no one ever bothers to listen. ultimately, people are going to do what they are going to do. typing here is a sort of exercise in masochism.
i know what you mean about being nearly out of your crush and being pulled back in. that happened to me too.
i had convinced myself that it was gone and i was done with it. i felt myself feel lighter and i remarked to a friend that it had gone and i rejoiced! finally i could be myself and get a hold of my senses again! i would be crazy no more! then i met a mutual friend who he spoke about him within the first 5 minutes of our conversation and i would be right back to square one again. i didn't even need to see him. just hearing what he was up to sent me back into lunacy. i'm not saying that will happen with you, but the mind is a fucker and that chemical rush it goes through is addictive and for good reason.
my bf doesn't really disappear. we talk or text nearly every day. sometimes more (it will be all day long and constant), sometimes less ( a catch up at the end of the day). we see each other 2-3 times a week, dependent on schedules and other commitments. there are the odd times when i might not hear from him for a few days. at first that would send me into a tail spin but i quickly learnt that he was just dealing with other things in his life. so yes, he "disappears" but he is never far from reach and it's only for a day at the very most.
hope that helps! i hope this crush of yours abates soon. it would be nice if he eventually comes round to your way of thinking and it might happen. i just would hate to see you put your life/emotions/heart on hold in the meantime for a guy who hasn't found his sack just yet.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiHe has let me in. Now i only need him to see me through. Closure? Maybe not yet but it will lead me there eventually.Posted by seezythescorpionI can totally understand. But what is that that YOU want from him?Posted by wicked@wicked Thank you v much!Posted by seezythescorpionThis is keeping his options open with you but and very sadly keeping you within reach on the sly.Posted by busyeyes88For what reason that may be do you think busy?Posted by seezythescorpionHe just wanted to get a reaction from you... Just keep it moving...
I dont either. He could keep it to himself.
I dont know what kind of reaction he may have been looking for.
Im trying to move on since he has. Its weird he has told me this.
I didn't read everything. Held up for time.
But if a guy has good intentions,he will tell the world about you.
If he sees you as a great gal but doesn't care for you in a special way, he will let his guy friend know how great u r and how good u r a friend to him.
Only jerks say things like what he said.
Pls don't try to glorify his actions. Don't romantize it.
Maybe he doesn't want to give up his invisible(?) hold over you. Maybe he doesn't wanna say anything good abt u to him, worried his friend could want u and get u. Or he could be a real asshole who doesn't want people to know he knows you. All leads to seriously bad hidden motives,agendas and manipulative tricks.
In simple words - He is not a great guy. Not even an OK sort. Ask yourself if u have a daughter, would u want her around this type of guy? There you have your answer.
Is this the type of guy u wanna be with?
Pls bear in mind I didn't read your full posts.
Wish u the best.
Those few options u stated above were also what i could think of.
Its more than wanting to be withh him. Its more like wanting him to be well and not lost as he is now.
Everytime i feel hes going through something i find out he actually is. I feel it. Hence i check on him out of the blue cuz the feeling bothers me. I need to know he is well. He asked me last time i saw him what was it that made me call him? did i know he wasnt happy?
Dont know how to explain this to you.
Do you have a closure?click to expand
Posted by AgentP911So long as u dont give in and get to know him without getting sexual theres no harm. If u already made it clear to him im sure he will slow down on that department.U do have an idea about Taurus men. They are physical creatures. That may be how he expresses his interest in you. DAMN Are You on some Taurus experimental ride. Hold on tight.Posted by seezythescorpionHa ha, how can him constantly and consistently asking me to go round his place, for sex, be really good?? I think I made it clearer to him. I'm unsure if there's much more between us than a hot fuck but we'll see. I've got another Taurus on the go too. Meeting him on Friday.Posted by AgentP911@Agent that sounds good. In fact..sounds real good.Posted by aqualady0118This Taurus dude I've seen a couple of times is exactly as Jeane put it. I'd not experienced it before. It was odd because I'd said no and stated my case but he kept asking me to go round his, every day, for 9 days straight, yet he failed to actually ask me out out. I almost lost it with him and nearly said 'are you a fucking dumb shit or just deaf? I said no!!!!' But in a weird way I kind of like his persistence. Wtf is that all about!!!Posted by jeaneJeane, my excellent advice giver friend...do u have a lot of taurus guy experience? If so, I'd love to hear a few some day 🙂 Do they really pursue that way if they want u badly?? I thought they had big egos...
these guys though, when they truly want you they won't stop. they don't stop talking to you, they don't take no for an answer, it is like they impervious to anything and anyone you put in front of them. i've never experienced anything like it.
typical conversation would go something like this
a: do you want to?
b: no
a: do you want to?
b: no, i don't
a: so do you want to?
b: oh my god, no!
a: do you want to?
b: NO NO NO NO!
a: so you do want to?
b: jesus mary and joseph....ok
there is no way of getting out of it once they have made their mind up. this guy is just messing with you and has been for a year now. (and he is being an absolute arsehole to his girlfriend as well)
Made me smile. Im sure u know whats that all about. I trust you with this Taurus.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911i think we're in a small minority... 😄
I listen Å
sometimes i think i overshare though so it's probably for the best to be ignored. ha!
Not at all. It's all in the detail.
Posted by seezythescorpionI'm attracting then like flies on a beauPosted by AgentP911So long as u dont give in and get to know him without getting sexual theres no harm. If u already made it clear to him im sure he will slow down on that department.U do have an idea about Taurus men. They are physical creatures. That may be how he expresses his interest in you. DAMN Are You on some Taurus experimental ride. Hold on tight.Posted by seezythescorpionHa ha, how can him constantly and consistently asking me to go round his place, for sex, be really good?? I think I made it clearer to him. I'm unsure if there's much more between us than a hot fuck but we'll see. I've got another Taurus on the go too. Meeting him on Friday.Posted by AgentP911@Agent that sounds good. In fact..sounds real good.Posted by aqualady0118This Taurus dude I've seen a couple of times is exactly as Jeane put it. I'd not experienced it before. It was odd because I'd said no and stated my case but he kept asking me to go round his, every day, for 9 days straight, yet he failed to actually ask me out out. I almost lost it with him and nearly said 'are you a fucking dumb shit or just deaf? I said no!!!!' But in a weird way I kind of like his persistence. Wtf is that all about!!!Posted by jeaneJeane, my excellent advice giver friend...do u have a lot of taurus guy experience? If so, I'd love to hear a few some day 🙂 Do they really pursue that way if they want u badly?? I thought they had big egos...
these guys though, when they truly want you they won't stop. they don't stop talking to you, they don't take no for an answer, it is like they impervious to anything and anyone you put in front of them. i've never experienced anything like it.
typical conversation would go something like this
a: do you want to?
b: no
a: do you want to?
b: no, i don't
a: so do you want to?
b: oh my god, no!
a: do you want to?
b: NO NO NO NO!
a: so you do want to?
b: jesus mary and joseph....ok
there is no way of getting out of it once they have made their mind up. this guy is just messing with you and has been for a year now. (and he is being an absolute arsehole to his girlfriend as well)
Made me smile. Im sure u know whats that all about. I trust you with this Taurus.click to expand
I'm attracting then like flies on a beautiful turd! I think it is very much his way of expressing interest. It's ok. Legs are closed. I can't deal with the wrath of Busy if I were to open them too soon!
Posted by AgentP911Hahahahah. She would defo get you on that one i would bet my right boob on it.
I'm attracting then like flies on a beautiful turd! I think it is very much his way of expressing interest. It's ok. Legs are closed. I can't deal with the wrath of Busy if I were to open them too soon!
Posted by busyeyes88there is no rush. if it is good and lasts, then why panic over a little time? in the end, the time you've waited for each other becomes insignificant and not worth fussing over. it's all about having confidence in what you have!Posted by AgentP911Lololololololololololololo lololololololololololololo ‚ ‚
I'm attracting then like flies on a beautiful turd! I think it is very much his way of expressing interest. It's ok. Legs are closed. I can't deal with the wrath of Busy if I were to open them too soon!
I'm now willing to open mine and my taurus is MIA!!! Well "disappeared"... Ie doing what taurus normally do.when they get busy.. Go into "fix" mode.and forgets.that there's a world outside.... But once things are fixed their end.. They come right back!! So I'm now gearing up to meet him mid Jan and also prep work for V Day!!! He's busy during Jan and will make major life changes mid Jan and he hopes I "could be a part of his life changes"!!!
I lose patience too... Then I remind myself that he waited almost 11 months for me to get my act together now it's his turn to let me wait... It's a game of chess I keep saying!!! Lol
Get there in the end!! 😉
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Posted by busyeyes88i'm very zen of late. i don't know what it is. the taurus in my life is making me feel very loved and secure so that helps to just let go and not sweat the small stuff. i'm all about the big picture!Posted by jeaneVery true Libraus... There's no end to your talented scales!! 😉Posted by busyeyes88there is no rush. if it is good and lasts, then why panic over a little time? in the end, the time you've waited for each other becomes insignificant and not worth fussing over. it's all about having confidence in what you have!Posted by AgentP911Lololololololololololololo lololololololololololololo ‚ ‚
I'm attracting then like flies on a beautiful turd! I think it is very much his way of expressing interest. It's ok. Legs are closed. I can't deal with the wrath of Busy if I were to open them too soon!
I'm now willing to open mine and my taurus is MIA!!! Well "disappeared"... Ie doing what taurus normally do.when they get busy.. Go into "fix" mode.and forgets.that there's a world outside.... But once things are fixed their end.. They come right back!! So I'm now gearing up to meet him mid Jan and also prep work for V Day!!! He's busy during Jan and will make major life changes mid Jan and he hopes I "could be a part of his life changes"!!!
I lose patience too... Then I remind myself that he waited almost 11 months for me to get my act together now it's his turn to let me wait... It's a game of chess I keep saying!!! Lol
Get there in the end!! 😉
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Posted by busyeyes88Busy, I am so happy, you let your venus in pisces get across your bull and leo placements 🙂Posted by AgentP911Lololololololololololololo lololololololololololololo ‚ ‚
I'm attracting then like flies on a beautiful turd! I think it is very much his way of expressing interest. It's ok. Legs are closed. I can't deal with the wrath of Busy if I were to open them too soon!
I'm now willing to open mine and my taurus is MIA!!! Well "disappeared"... Ie doing what taurus normally do.when they get busy.. Go into "fix" mode.and forgets.that there's a world outside.... But once things are fixed their end.. They come right back!! So I'm now gearing up to meet him mid Jan and also prep work for V Day!!! He's busy during Jan and will make major life changes mid Jan and he hopes I "could be a part of his life changes"!!!
I lose patience too... Then I remind myself that he waited almost 11 months for me to get my act together now it's his turn to let me wait... It's a game of chess I keep saying!!! Lol
Get there in the end!! 😉
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but, he is still only 1 year aboutish after his long-term relationship........ you were content with the once a week-two weeks communication, but if you fall in love with him and will be sleeping with him, it will not be enough..... and I know he showed his intentions trhou actions and helped you...... but you know, bulls are like this, they love to fix things and help..... just be on alert
I know you will cut him off, if that will be the case, but........... portfolio, thats the answer.....🙂
but, if anything will not go according to your expectations, you are in love with him, and thats the main thing..... the sweet feeling we are still capable of 🙂
He called me today and i missed it! Only realised when i checked my phone 10 mins later. Great...
I tried calling him back twice but couldnt get through. The thing is i dont know if he is back in the country or still abroad.
I tried calling him back twice but couldnt get through. The thing is i dont know if he is back in the country or still abroad.
Busy wants a shag! Busy wants a shag! Å Å Å
It's not going anywhere with the Taurus I met up with. He's more content to sit on his arse in his home texting me waffle. He's being 'keyboard warrior' and hasn't asked me out again. He still expects me to be 'dial-a-fuck' and put out while he makes zero effort. That doesn't work for me. I made it clear. I told him what he needs to do. Up to him.
Tonight he's sitting at home, as he had been each night this week, he's text me every night asking what I'm doing, if I'm at home etc, and said it would be nice if he had a girlfriend to invite him over. For sex, no doubt. I asked what he had done to get a girlfriend. He said he is a lazy bum and he admits it. He said he doesn't 'chase' so I said don't mistake 'chasing' for bothering.
I didn't respond much to his messages yesterday night as I was out. He thought I was ignoring him but I told him I was out. He was most interested if it was a date but I ignored the question. He text later asking if I was still out. He had also asked if I'd met anyone while I was away over Xmas, if I'd slept with anyone, and was sceptical in general (for no reason) that he'd never really know anyway.
It's not really a match here which is a shame because had he put some effort in I wouldn't have minded opening me legs but his laziness and the fact he's not asking me out is a turn off. He could have asked me out but he hasn't. Simple.
Anyway, one is not losing sleep as she has a date tomorrow night with another Taurus Sun! Venus and Merc in Aries with Leo Moon and Cap Mars. This one seems much more like a gentleman. Plus there's a date with a Scorp Sun on Sunday, Virgo Venus, Cancer Moon and Mars, Libra Mercury.
There's always options!!
It's not going anywhere with the Taurus I met up with. He's more content to sit on his arse in his home texting me waffle. He's being 'keyboard warrior' and hasn't asked me out again. He still expects me to be 'dial-a-fuck' and put out while he makes zero effort. That doesn't work for me. I made it clear. I told him what he needs to do. Up to him.
Tonight he's sitting at home, as he had been each night this week, he's text me every night asking what I'm doing, if I'm at home etc, and said it would be nice if he had a girlfriend to invite him over. For sex, no doubt. I asked what he had done to get a girlfriend. He said he is a lazy bum and he admits it. He said he doesn't 'chase' so I said don't mistake 'chasing' for bothering.
I didn't respond much to his messages yesterday night as I was out. He thought I was ignoring him but I told him I was out. He was most interested if it was a date but I ignored the question. He text later asking if I was still out. He had also asked if I'd met anyone while I was away over Xmas, if I'd slept with anyone, and was sceptical in general (for no reason) that he'd never really know anyway.
It's not really a match here which is a shame because had he put some effort in I wouldn't have minded opening me legs but his laziness and the fact he's not asking me out is a turn off. He could have asked me out but he hasn't. Simple.
Anyway, one is not losing sleep as she has a date tomorrow night with another Taurus Sun! Venus and Merc in Aries with Leo Moon and Cap Mars. This one seems much more like a gentleman. Plus there's a date with a Scorp Sun on Sunday, Virgo Venus, Cancer Moon and Mars, Libra Mercury.
There's always options!!
Ha ha I'm dating! I'm allowed to multi date!
I only select a few for dates so I don't waste my time.
Yeah this one sounds like as you describe. He has plenty of fire though but at 38 he really should know better but it's his life. All he has to say is 'would you like to go out, when are you free?' but not to worry. What's the point? I'll keep him as back up shag ‰
I only select a few for dates so I don't waste my time.
Yeah this one sounds like as you describe. He has plenty of fire though but at 38 he really should know better but it's his life. All he has to say is 'would you like to go out, when are you free?' but not to worry. What's the point? I'll keep him as back up shag ‰
Posted by busyeyes88He's English, white, no religion, 44 years old. Never been married, no kids. He does seem like a sweetheart to be fair. He even wanted to call me... As in... To have a real conversation!! He's loving my feisty nature. He's tolerated all my shit so far and taken it in his stride. He must be a secret sadist! I've given him a lot of feisty drama...
@AP. The leo moon will be a sweetheart... Lol lol What nationality is he?! We like a bit if feisty drama!! Lol lol 😉
Will see if we have the elusive chemistry in person but even if not, he seems pretty cool.
Posted by busyeyes88Not anymore Busy. Thats over.Posted by seezythescorpionHe has a gf... That's all you need to remember!!!
He called me today and i missed it! Only realised when i checked my phone 10 mins later. Great...
I tried calling him back twice but couldnt get through. The thing is i dont know if he is back in the country or still abroad.
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Posted by AgentP911Darngg!! Theres no breast feeding to a baby who doesnt cry.
Busy wants a shag! Busy wants a shag! Å Å Å
It's not going anywhere with the Taurus I met up with. He's more content to sit on his arse in his home texting me waffle. He's being 'keyboard warrior' and hasn't asked me out again. He still expects me to be 'dial-a-fuck' and put out while he makes zero effort. That doesn't work for me. I made it clear. I told him what he needs to do. Up to him.
Tonight he's sitting at home, as he had been each night this week, he's text me every night asking what I'm doing, if I'm at home etc, and said it would be nice if he had a girlfriend to invite him over. For sex, no doubt. I asked what he had done to get a girlfriend. He said he is a lazy bum and he admits it. He said he doesn't 'chase' so I said don't mistake 'chasing' for bothering.
I didn't respond much to his messages yesterday night as I was out. He thought I was ignoring him but I told him I was out. He was most interested if it was a date but I ignored the question. He text later asking if I was still out. He had also asked if I'd met anyone while I was away over Xmas, if I'd slept with anyone, and was sceptical in general (for no reason) that he'd never really know anyway.
It's not really a match here which is a shame because had he put some effort in I wouldn't have minded opening me legs but his laziness and the fact he's not asking me out is a turn off. He could have asked me out but he hasn't. Simple.
Anyway, one is not losing sleep as she has a date tomorrow night with another Taurus Sun! Venus and Merc in Aries with Leo Moon and Cap Mars. This one seems much more like a gentleman. Plus there's a date with a Scorp Sun on Sunday, Virgo Venus, Cancer Moon and Mars, Libra Mercury.
There's always options!!
I see Someones on a mission to get that Mr Perfect. Go go get woman!
I wish you best of luck with all ur coming up dates.
Your water and fire energies would probably match well with both the other Taurus and the Scorp sun.
Ill keep my fingers crossed for ya.
Posted by seezythescorpionHa ha@ the no breadt feeding bit. Love it. Gonna nick that ‰Posted by AgentP911Darngg!! Theres no breast feeding to a baby who doesnt cry.
Busy wants a shag! Busy wants a shag! Å Å Å
It's not going anywhere with the Taurus I met up with. He's more content to sit on his arse in his home texting me waffle. He's being 'keyboard warrior' and hasn't asked me out again. He still expects me to be 'dial-a-fuck' and put out while he makes zero effort. That doesn't work for me. I made it clear. I told him what he needs to do. Up to him.
Tonight he's sitting at home, as he had been each night this week, he's text me every night asking what I'm doing, if I'm at home etc, and said it would be nice if he had a girlfriend to invite him over. For sex, no doubt. I asked what he had done to get a girlfriend. He said he is a lazy bum and he admits it. He said he doesn't 'chase' so I said don't mistake 'chasing' for bothering.
I didn't respond much to his messages yesterday night as I was out. He thought I was ignoring him but I told him I was out. He was most interested if it was a date but I ignored the question. He text later asking if I was still out. He had also asked if I'd met anyone while I was away over Xmas, if I'd slept with anyone, and was sceptical in general (for no reason) that he'd never really know anyway.
It's not really a match here which is a shame because had he put some effort in I wouldn't have minded opening me legs but his laziness and the fact he's not asking me out is a turn off. He could have asked me out but he hasn't. Simple.
Anyway, one is not losing sleep as she has a date tomorrow night with another Taurus Sun! Venus and Merc in Aries with Leo Moon and Cap Mars. This one seems much more like a gentleman. Plus there's a date with a Scorp Sun on Sunday, Virgo Venus, Cancer Moon and Mars, Libra Mercury.
There's always options!!
I see Someones on a mission to get that Mr Perfect. Go go get woman!
I wish you best of luck with all ur coming up dates.
Your water and fire energies would probably match well with both the other Taurus and the Scorp sun.
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So this Taurus now suddenly doesn't have a gf? So quick to secure one though. Hmmm
@Agent
Yours for the taking Miss.🙂
And yes i knew that was nothing serious.
I mentioned somewhere in my above posts that his dad wasn't in a good state and that i've seen he travelled over.
His dad passed away.. He couldnt make it there on time but he made it for the funeral.
I told him i will be here when he gets back. I dont know what he wanted to say yesterday when he called me . Maybe he needed a chat or wanted to let me know if maybe he is back in the country.
Just giving him the space to get back to me when he wants to.
Ive learnt a great deal of patience from him. I can only hope that he is well.
Yours for the taking Miss.🙂
And yes i knew that was nothing serious.
I mentioned somewhere in my above posts that his dad wasn't in a good state and that i've seen he travelled over.
His dad passed away.. He couldnt make it there on time but he made it for the funeral.
I told him i will be here when he gets back. I dont know what he wanted to say yesterday when he called me . Maybe he needed a chat or wanted to let me know if maybe he is back in the country.
Just giving him the space to get back to me when he wants to.
Ive learnt a great deal of patience from him. I can only hope that he is well.
Posted by busyeyes88It being recent is all i know for now Busy.Posted by seezythescorpionWhen did he split with the gf?Posted by busyeyes88Not anymore Busy. Thats over.Posted by seezythescorpionHe has a gf... That's all you need to remember!!!
He called me today and i missed it! Only realised when i checked my phone 10 mins later. Great...
I tried calling him back twice but couldnt get through. The thing is i dont know if he is back in the country or still abroad.
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Didnt really want to go in to details on that one as i dont think its the right time to have that conversation since he lost his dad few days ago.
Posted by busyeyes88Yes definitely. We are friends first above all. Hearing this from you was nice. Gracias lady!!Posted by seezythescorpionJust be a platonic friend to him and see if anything can progress out of that friendship...Posted by busyeyes88It being recent is all i know for now Busy.Posted by seezythescorpionWhen did he split with the gf?Posted by busyeyes88Not anymore Busy. Thats over.Posted by seezythescorpionHe has a gf... That's all you need to remember!!!
He called me today and i missed it! Only realised when i checked my phone 10 mins later. Great...
I tried calling him back twice but couldnt get through. The thing is i dont know if he is back in the country or still abroad.
Didnt really want to go in to details on that one as i dont think its the right time to have that conversation since he lost his dad few days ago.click to expand
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