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Seems that way.
Posted by Musicology
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.Confused.
How may I help you?
Basically i want clarity lass clarity lol
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lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).
Posted by Musicology
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.Confused.
How may I help you?
Basically i want clarity lass clarity lol
lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).
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What state was he in?
Posted by Musicology
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.Confused.
How may I help you?
Basically i want clarity lass clarity lol
lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).
What state was he in?
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A...I'm-going-to-rip-you-a new asshole ya two-timing bitch-- kind of state. I guess that just about sums it up. Yes. Yes, it does.
Posted by Musicology
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.Confused.
How may I help you?
Basically i want clarity lass clarity lol
lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).
What state was he in?
A...I'm-going-to-rip-you-a new asshole ya two-timing bitch-- kind of state. I guess that just about sums it up. Yes. Yes, it does.
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Wow. I could never do that to her. I thought about it but i couldnt follow through. I would say fuck her cuz shes being a bitch but like ive said before, im always going to be there for her no matter what.
I could never do that to anyone really....
Posted by Brandonb55
Thats an undersatement. Father was mentally abusive, pulled a gun on her for trying to pick her moms car up from his house. One ex was abusive in every sence of the word. Ima laugh if this new bf (looks like a douche btw) ends up cheating or abusing her.So you are gonna laugh if she were to get cheated or abused by the guy she is with?
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Just for the sure fact that i never did anything wrong to her. I was the perfect bf, and then she leaves me and that would happen. Yeah id laugh a little bit on that.
Posted by Musicology
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.Confused.
How may I help you?
Basically i want clarity lass clarity lol
lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).
What state was he in?
A...I'm-going-to-rip-you-a new asshole ya two-timing bitch-- kind of state. I guess that just about sums it up. Yes. Yes, it does.
Wow. I could never do that to her. I thought about it but i couldnt follow through. I would say fuck her cuz shes being a bitch but like ive said before, im always going to be there for her no matter what.
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Welp...it's time to shake and bake.
So im a little sour over the situation in full, sue me. Id find it amusing if he beat or cheated her or hell, even lied about something drastic. But id still be worried about her wellbeing in it and be pretty pissed at him. Not saying i wouldnt have a heart to share with her at that point just would find it difficult to actually feel for her when she has these troubles considering everything shes said or done lately.
I allready know i deserve allot better, its been three months. One was begging for her return, the other was just trying to be freinds.
And the sad thing is, is i had that. This girl i started dating and broke up with twice (due to guilt for gaining feelings for her while still wanting to get back my ex) was much better than my ex ever was to me. But i fucked it up..... i was too late and now she started seeing someone else. Doesnt surprise me i told her not to wait around for me because i hadnt a clue of how long it would take for me to be ready to move on and give my all to her. Once again, story of my life, i have good intentions but horrific timing.
Posted by Taniwha
go back in time and be born 4 months later.
libra or scorpio?
Posted by marissa12
She sounds like such a cruel person. Not many men out in this world like you, and I'm sorry you had to go through that. Just remember what goes around comes around. As far as fixing any mistake, you made NO mistake. It's her loss and I'm sure she will be crawling back to you as soon as this relationship does sour. Remember to not give into her and what she has to say 🙂Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
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Well thank you for the encouragement
Nothing wrong in any form. I tried my dn hardest to keep her happy and it didnt amount to shit.
Nothing i did was ever matched by her. She didnt try to make things work just.. cold shoulder at the end of it all. I may have not been the perfect anything but i was damn near close.
Posted by jane84
Wow your relationship sounds just like my young Taurus friend and her EX husband who was a Cancer.I have seen this combo work, but only when both are mature.
My Taurus friend did the same thing to her ex husband several times until she found a new guy. I tried to understand why and the more I saw her jump from guy to guy the more I realized she really could not be alone. Or didn't want to be. She is not financially stable herself and was looking for a guy to take care of her....hence why she only asked you when she was sick. She was feeling alone and wanted someone there. You happened to be the one who said yes I'll go. Many men ended up leaving my friend once they realized her game. But one guy finally stayed. A Virgo, although they argue all the time now once he lost his job.
I will say....leave her alone. Move on with your life. Trust has already been broken before anything really serious between you both. Do you really think you'll have a great marriage with someone who has lost your trust? Plus do you really want to be in a marriage with someone who doesn't love you the way you would like to be loved? My Taurus friend and her Cancer ex should have never gotten married. Trust for them was already broken...and it ended horribly.
Besides she's stubborn, as you said and as we know most Taurus people are, if she's moved on and made that decision... She won't go back OR jump through hoops for you. Why would she do that if she has already found someone else and knows she can get someone else?
I saw my friend move on quickly from guys who rejected her. It's not like she's a slut or anything like that. But she did want stability and searched for it. Once she thought she found it, the past was a distant memory. She's over you buddy. If she is still hurting from a past divorce then she's probably just looking for a stable ground to stand on temporaryly anyway. Chase someone who will truly care for you...
Good post ðŸ‘ðŸ¼
Posted by idk
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
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Yeah... She's so perfect she fucked off and left, and was a bit of a cunt about it. Ideal. Perfection... Me thinks someone is wearing the rose tinted...
Posted by idk
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
People with big hearts rarely break hearts intentionally.
People who are opinionated, speak their minds, will put you in your place...
They will not give vague responses as a reason for a break-up.What's the real story?
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Posted by idk
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
Yeah... She's so perfect she fucked off and left, and was a bit of a cunt about it. Ideal. Perfection... Me thinks someone is wearing the rose tinted...
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Yeah its a little hard for me to accept that she's gone but im doing better with each day that passes
You know what? Fuck love. Its needless emotion that only enflames anger and makes u a slave to the rest. Im just done, idk why she actually left me, no one will say anything but she fell out of love. Not a soul will actually listen to my voice of reason but only see the man that begged for two months regaurdless to what was asked. Im just done.
Posted by Impulsv
She left u because she didn't value what u offeredHe didn't offer her shit, all he had to give was whining and neediness.
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I offered her the god damn world. Dont u dare try to demish my value just because i am how i am now. Thats screwed up.
Posted by Impulsv
She left u because she didn't value what u offeredHe didn't offer her shit, all he had to give was whining and neediness.
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He's a Cancerian. It's what they do best... Aside from emotional manipulation...
OP is only 23! Give him another decade and he'll be ok.
Posted by Impulsv
She left u because she didn't value what u offeredHe didn't offer her shit, all he had to give was whining and neediness.
He's a Cancerian. It's what they do best... Aside from emotional manipulation...
OP is only 23! Give him another decade and he'll be ok.
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Ummm.... i dont manipulate people... im too much of a nice guy to do so.
Posted by Impulsv
She left u because she didn't value what u offered
Obviously... but im done with her, she's been a bitch to me since the breakup and completely shut me out so yeah. Fuck her lol
Reading your posts a bit more, I think I want to offer a thought: Maybe there is something more to this puzzle. Were you guys official or were you guys struggling with some root issues in the relationship? Like I told you before, I've done this. But mostly it was because there were huge gaps, disconnections and misconceptions in the relationship that caused major inconsistencies.
Ok, so im not saying im fully done with love, im just done for the time being i cant seem to get ahead when my bed feels the most empty than it ever has. And as far as i know there wasnt anything within our relationship that was lacking. Well besides both of us getting too comfortable and stopped trying as hard, although i did keep trying to keep shit interesting in and out of the bedroom and home but yeah, im not sure if there was ever actually any struggles we were fighting with besides money now and then due to my boss cutting my hours.... she hates me...
Posted by Impulsv
She left u because she didn't value what u offeredObviously... but im done with her, she's been a bitch to me since the breakup and completely shut me out so yeah. Fuck her lol
Ummmmmm post above, you say you're a nice guy.
HAHAHAHA
Then this post you call her a bitch.
I can't stop laughing HAHAHAHA
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The brogram for bleeping foul language is entertaining and changes B to cookiemonster lol
But what sucks at this time is that my ex, was my lucky charm. Ik its bad to itemize a woman but its true. Since she left me my lifes gone to shit, my luck is down a dark alley and just to try to change it i walked up and down my street trying to find a gour leaf clover so i could just have the slightest bit of luck to help me through these tuff times. But she doesnt even want me in her life anymore and it sucks.
Yeah, ik. If i could just find one woman who didnt have enough baggage to push herself away from me i wouldnt have anything to worry about. But for some weird fucking reason thats all im attracted to. Take the other day for instance, started taking a liking to this girl that started working at the place next to my work, asked my freind whos her co-worker if she has a guy and he just tells me dont do it. She has four kids each with different fathers and enough baggage to clothe the homeless population of new york city.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Funny when my X dumped my azz, i'm eating better, i planned a trip, i am saving lots of money, my home looks better, I've helped my parents financially and will continue to do so, i even got my painting supplies out, yes i was depressed for about 2 months and still ambut i seem to do more for myself, when with him, i was only concerned about his dreams/his goals.
my obsessions have become my money, my eating habits, my weight, and my life.
Since she left me, my life went to shit but i started working out more, started seeing people for their actial worth, started eating better and actually have started doing stuff that i want to do. Im happy but my beds never felt emptier
Might be starting a band here soon as well. Got a bassist and a guitarist, just need a drummer and backup guitar lol
Posted by Brandonb55
Ok, so im not saying im fully done with love, im just done for the time being i cant seem to get ahead when my bed feels the most empty than it ever has. And as far as i know there wasnt anything within our relationship that was lacking. Well besides both of us getting too comfortable and stopped trying as hard, although i did keep trying to keep shit interesting in and out of the bedroom and home but yeah, im not sure if there was ever actually any struggles we were fighting with besides money now and then due to my boss cutting my hours.... she hates me...
The lack here could've been the reason.
Why haven't you both talked about this?
Posted by CruellaWhite
The only thing you did wrong was comfort her after she left you and not put YOUR own needs first. YOU NEED NOT TO BE IN CONTACT WITH HER.I don't think there is anything else you can do.
She should have realize you are vulnerable to mixed signals.
Well she blocked me from every thing possible so.... im outa her life
Posted by SensitiveBlues
lol oh we can cry on eachothers shouldersdamn EARTH really treetruks up WATER
Let's call our band the "Miserable Entities"
LMFAO yes!
Was enjoying my evening, hung out with that girl i was talking about, went on a nice walk and watched the sunset then on my return from my solice sunset watching and feeling re-energized then my parents decide to talk about my ex. With one single second my mood goes from amazing to feeling ticked off.... fucking parents not only the best Cblocks they are the best mood killers -.-
Posted by Musicology
Why haven't you both talked about this?
We did talk about it, all she kept telling me was to leave her alone and to seek help becaude im aparently unwell. Im not unwell, i just wanted to talk to her and she just saw me talking to her as me begging for her back. I told her im happy for her that she was able to move on from someone she thought was the most amazing man on earth but she didnt give a fuck. Just saw me as this needy little spitfuck that wanted her back so bad.
Aquarius. And i have plenty of pride... its just shattered at the moment
Wich tends to happen when ur ex keeps bringing her new bf around ur house and u see them drive by all the time. He lives 5 blocks away from me so gimme a break here, im doing the best i can with what i got.
Posted by Taniwha
" Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?"The best thing you can do now is realize that there were no mistakes made in the first place. Things are as they are meant to be right now, your'l meet someone new eventually, you might even meet a more confident you ,and a self fulfilling part of yourself that you didn't know existed. Knowing that part of yourself intimately and being able to grow will be better than knowing any girl, and allot more girls will wan't to know you when you know yourself. Good luck brother.
defiantly what is posted above. Think of this as your taurus doing you a favor by blocking you... You don't want to waste your time with going back and forth with someone who has reservations. It will take you time to get over it but you will, don't rush it. Don't be phased by the new boy toy in her life... Just live your life and keep it moving.
Posted by Taniwha
" Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?"The best thing you can do now is realize that there were no mistakes made in the first place. Things are as they are meant to be right now, your'l meet someone new eventually, you might even meet a more confident you ,and a self fulfilling part of yourself that you didn't know existed. Knowing that part of yourself intimately and being able to grow will be better than knowing any girl, and allot more girls will wan't to know you when you know yourself. Good luck brother.
defiantly what is posted above. Think of this as your taurus doing you a favor by blocking you... You don't want to waste your time with going back and forth with someone who has reservations. It will take you time to get over it but you will, don't rush it. Don't be phased by the new boy toy in her life... Just live your life and keep it moving.
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Im trying, but what sucks is i finally get her out of my head and my parents or a freind that doesnt know what happened wants to talk about it and boom, shes back in there and i get ticked off and it takes a few hours of trying not to break into tears to get her out. If u were to talk to me lets say.... three weeks ago u woulda seen ne as a whining little bitch but now, i can actually think about her and be like eh... shit happens to the best of us. Still sucks tho but im doing much much MUCH better
Posted by Taniwha
" Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?"The best thing you can do now is realize that there were no mistakes made in the first place. Things are as they are meant to be right now, your'l meet someone new eventually, you might even meet a more confident you ,and a self fulfilling part of yourself that you didn't know existed. Knowing that part of yourself intimately and being able to grow will be better than knowing any girl, and allot more girls will wan't to know you when you know yourself. Good luck brother.
defiantly what is posted above. Think of this as your taurus doing you a favor by blocking you... You don't want to waste your time with going back and forth with someone who has reservations. It will take you time to get over it but you will, don't rush it. Don't be phased by the new boy toy in her life... Just live your life and keep it moving.
Im trying, but what sucks is i finally get her out of my head and my parents or a freind that doesnt know what happened wants to talk about it and boom, shes back in there and i get ticked off and it takes a few hours of trying not to break into tears to get her out. If u were to talk to me lets say.... three weeks ago u woulda seen ne as a whining little bitch but now, i can actually think about her and be like eh... shit happens to the best of us. Still sucks tho but im doing much much MUCH better
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trust me I get it... You need to vent... Eventually you will forget about it.
Yeah ik.
I just found a small stack of cards she gave/ made me. I burnt them. I just..... the words she wrote in those cards, it makes it all the more difficult to actually beleive she left me because she fell out of love... and that theres never a chance for us again... "i thank my lucky stars that i found you, i dont think i could ever love anyone the way i love you. You inspire me to be a better person, lover, and one day wife." I just cant accept what she said as being true... not when she wrote everything with careful detail. On one card there was so many different phrasing on what she actually wanted to say and erased to hide the fact that she wrote them. I read that card and threw it into the fire with tears in my eyes. All that remains now is the ashes of a past that i need to forget about.
Thank you for the compliment. And ik, i tried to communicate but when distraught we both would shut down and had to fight to get the other to talk.
Posted by Musicology
Why haven't you both talked about this?We did talk about it, all she kept telling me was to leave her alone and to seek help becaude im aparently unwell. Im not unwell, i just wanted to talk to her and she just saw me talking to her as me begging for her back. I told her im happy for her that she was able to move on from someone she thought was the most amazing man on earth but she didnt give a fuck. Just saw me as this needy little spitfuck that wanted her back so bad.
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Why did she think you were unwell? Maybe it had to do moreso with this than that.
Posted by Musicology
Why haven't you both talked about this?We did talk about it, all she kept telling me was to leave her alone and to seek help becaude im aparently unwell. Im not unwell, i just wanted to talk to her and she just saw me talking to her as me begging for her back. I told her im happy for her that she was able to move on from someone she thought was the most amazing man on earth but she didnt give a fuck. Just saw me as this needy little spitfuck that wanted her back so bad.
Why did she think you were unwell? Maybe it had to do moreso with this than that.
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I completely lost myself and became obsessive without realising it. My mind and complete sanity was warped after she invited me over that night.
Posted by Musicology
Why haven't you both talked about this?We did talk about it, all she kept telling me was to leave her alone and to seek help becaude im aparently unwell. Im not unwell, i just wanted to talk to her and she just saw me talking to her as me begging for her back. I told her im happy for her that she was able to move on from someone she thought was the most amazing man on earth but she didnt give a fuck. Just saw me as this needy little spitfuck that wanted her back so bad.
Why did she think you were unwell? Maybe it had to do moreso with this than that.
I completely lost myself and became obsessive without realising it. My mind and complete sanity was warped after she invited me over that night.
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listen stop replaying over in your head ... Would of could of should of, control your emotions your mind is beating you up over it and seriously it's not healthy... I can tell that you relief heavily on this woman for your happiness which is not good.you need to stop replaying and reliving out What was in the past ... I'm here to tell you that you will meet another woman that will make you feel this way again But you have to allow yourself to heal and be ready and open for that. Focus on you, you are the only one that can make you happy no one else can. I know easier said then done But this is a lesson learn and be prepared for the real deal take what you learned from this relationship and make the next one better. Life lesson breath... The universe is preparing you for something bigger and Better and if it's love that your looking it will only come when your ready for it. I feel for you cause it's not easy and I see how hopeless you are, focus on you
I was just answering musics question. And thats what really happened. I did lose myself but i found me again. Im not playing "what if" over and over again in my head it sucks but im doing oh so much better than i was when we started this topic. Ive found a new muse, a new hope and once i get out of the house where so many memories are held (parents place) i will do much better. But thats a while off still. Im finding old memories between me and her and i began smiling. I feel pain now and then but itl do that for a while. But to see the place where we first kissed, where my tent stood (moved home from college and lived in a tent in the back yard for a while) where our first... uhhh... encounter happened all of it, no longer brings me pain. But talking about her does and itl take a while till im ok with that but other than that im fantastic ☺ seriously. I did rely on her for happiness there for a while but now i look back at the past ima say 6 or so months and say to myself, what the fuck was i doing?
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Basically i want clarity lass clarity lol