
Basically i want clarity lass clarity lol


Posted by Brandonb55lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).Posted by MusicologyBasically i want clarity lass clarity lolPosted by Brandonb55How may I help you?Posted by MusicologyConfused.
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.click to expand

Posted by MusicologyWhat state was he in?Posted by Brandonb55lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).Posted by MusicologyBasically i want clarity lass clarity lolPosted by Brandonb55How may I help you?Posted by MusicologyConfused.
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.click to expand
Posted by Brandonb55A...I'm-going-to-rip-you-a new asshole ya two-timing bitch-- kind of state. I guess that just about sums it up. Yes. Yes, it does.Posted by MusicologyWhat state was he in?Posted by Brandonb55lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).Posted by MusicologyBasically i want clarity lass clarity lolPosted by Brandonb55How may I help you?Posted by MusicologyConfused.
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.click to expand

Posted by MusicologyWow. I could never do that to her. I thought about it but i couldnt follow through. I would say fuck her cuz shes being a bitch but like ive said before, im always going to be there for her no matter what.Posted by Brandonb55A...I'm-going-to-rip-you-a new asshole ya two-timing bitch-- kind of state. I guess that just about sums it up. Yes. Yes, it does.Posted by MusicologyWhat state was he in?Posted by Brandonb55lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).Posted by MusicologyBasically i want clarity lass clarity lolPosted by Brandonb55How may I help you?Posted by MusicologyConfused.
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.click to expand


Posted by InstantkarmaJust for the sure fact that i never did anything wrong to her. I was the perfect bf, and then she leaves me and that would happen. Yeah id laugh a little bit on that.Posted by Brandonb55So you are gonna laugh if she were to get cheated or abused by the guy she is with?
Thats an undersatement. Father was mentally abusive, pulled a gun on her for trying to pick her moms car up from his house. One ex was abusive in every sence of the word. Ima laugh if this new bf (looks like a douche btw) ends up cheating or abusing her.
Hmmmm!click to expand
Posted by Brandonb55Welp...it's time to shake and bake.Posted by MusicologyWow. I could never do that to her. I thought about it but i couldnt follow through. I would say fuck her cuz shes being a bitch but like ive said before, im always going to be there for her no matter what.Posted by Brandonb55A...I'm-going-to-rip-you-a new asshole ya two-timing bitch-- kind of state. I guess that just about sums it up. Yes. Yes, it does.Posted by MusicologyWhat state was he in?Posted by Brandonb55lol. I, in a nutshell, did the same thing your girl did. I was in the same situation except the guy was in a total different state than yourself. I held back because I wasn't quite ready. Love is hard to understand sometimes (especially complicated love).Posted by MusicologyBasically i want clarity lass clarity lolPosted by Brandonb55How may I help you?Posted by MusicologyConfused.
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.click to expand




Posted by Taniwhalibra or scorpio?
go back in time and be born 4 months later.

Posted by marissa12Well thank you for the encouragement
She sounds like such a cruel person. Not many men out in this world like you, and I'm sorry you had to go through that. Just remember what goes around comes around. As far as fixing any mistake, you made NO mistake. It's her loss and I'm sure she will be crawling back to you as soon as this relationship does sour. Remember to not give into her and what she has to say 🙂
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.
Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?click to expand



Posted by jane84Good post ðŸ‘ðŸ¼
Wow your relationship sounds just like my young Taurus friend and her EX husband who was a Cancer.
I have seen this combo work, but only when both are mature.
My Taurus friend did the same thing to her ex husband several times until she found a new guy. I tried to understand why and the more I saw her jump from guy to guy the more I realized she really could not be alone. Or didn't want to be. She is not financially stable herself and was looking for a guy to take care of her....hence why she only asked you when she was sick. She was feeling alone and wanted someone there. You happened to be the one who said yes I'll go. Many men ended up leaving my friend once they realized her game. But one guy finally stayed. A Virgo, although they argue all the time now once he lost his job.
I will say....leave her alone. Move on with your life. Trust has already been broken before anything really serious between you both. Do you really think you'll have a great marriage with someone who has lost your trust? Plus do you really want to be in a marriage with someone who doesn't love you the way you would like to be loved? My Taurus friend and her Cancer ex should have never gotten married. Trust for them was already broken...and it ended horribly.
Besides she's stubborn, as you said and as we know most Taurus people are, if she's moved on and made that decision... She won't go back OR jump through hoops for you. Why would she do that if she has already found someone else and knows she can get someone else?
I saw my friend move on quickly from guys who rejected her. It's not like she's a slut or anything like that. But she did want stability and searched for it. Once she thought she found it, the past was a distant memory. She's over you buddy. If she is still hurting from a past divorce then she's probably just looking for a stable ground to stand on temporaryly anyway. Chase someone who will truly care for you...

Posted by Brandonb55Yeah... She's so perfect she fucked off and left, and was a bit of a cunt about it. Ideal. Perfection... Me thinks someone is wearing the rose tinted...Posted by idkShe was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.click to expand

Posted by TaurusBull1977+1Posted by Brandonb55People with big hearts rarely break hearts intentionally.Posted by idkShe was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.
People who are opinionated, speak their minds, will put you in your place...
They will not give vague responses as a reason for a break-up.
What's the real story?click to expand

Posted by AgentP911Yeah its a little hard for me to accept that she's gone but im doing better with each day that passesPosted by Brandonb55Yeah... She's so perfect she fucked off and left, and was a bit of a cunt about it. Ideal. Perfection... Me thinks someone is wearing the rose tinted...Posted by idkShe was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.click to expand


Posted by TaniwhaI offered her the god damn world. Dont u dare try to demish my value just because i am how i am now. Thats screwed up.Posted by ImpulsvHe didn't offer her shit, all he had to give was whining and neediness.
She left u because she didn't value what u offeredclick to expand

Posted by TaniwhaHe's a Cancerian. It's what they do best... Aside from emotional manipulation...Posted by ImpulsvHe didn't offer her shit, all he had to give was whining and neediness.
She left u because she didn't value what u offeredclick to expand

Posted by AgentP911Ummm.... i dont manipulate people... im too much of a nice guy to do so.Posted by TaniwhaHe's a Cancerian. It's what they do best... Aside from emotional manipulation...Posted by ImpulsvHe didn't offer her shit, all he had to give was whining and neediness.
She left u because she didn't value what u offered
OP is only 23! Give him another decade and he'll be ok.click to expand

Posted by ImpulsvObviously... but im done with her, she's been a bitch to me since the breakup and completely shut me out so yeah. Fuck her lol
She left u because she didn't value what u offered


Posted by Arielle83The brogram for bleeping foul language is entertaining and changes B to cookiemonster lolPosted by Brandonb55Ummmmmm post above, you say you're a nice guy.Posted by ImpulsvObviously... but im done with her, she's been a bitch to me since the breakup and completely shut me out so yeah. Fuck her lol
She left u because she didn't value what u offered
HAHAHAHA
Then this post you call her a bitch.
I can't stop laughing HAHAHAHAclick to expand



Posted by SensitiveBluesSince she left me, my life went to shit but i started working out more, started seeing people for their actial worth, started eating better and actually have started doing stuff that i want to do. Im happy but my beds never felt emptier
Funny when my X dumped my azz, i'm eating better, i planned a trip, i am saving lots of money, my home looks better, I've helped my parents financially and will continue to do so, i even got my painting supplies out, yes i was depressed for about 2 months and still am
but i seem to do more for myself, when with him, i was only concerned about his dreams/his goals.
my obsessions have become my money, my eating habits, my weight, and my life.

Posted by Brandonb55The lack here could've been the reason.
Ok, so im not saying im fully done with love, im just done for the time being i cant seem to get ahead when my bed feels the most empty than it ever has. And as far as i know there wasnt anything within our relationship that was lacking. Well besides both of us getting too comfortable and stopped trying as hard, although i did keep trying to keep shit interesting in and out of the bedroom and home but yeah, im not sure if there was ever actually any struggles we were fighting with besides money now and then due to my boss cutting my hours.... she hates me...

Posted by CruellaWhiteWell she blocked me from every thing possible so.... im outa her life
The only thing you did wrong was comfort her after she left you and not put YOUR own needs first. YOU NEED NOT TO BE IN CONTACT WITH HER.
I don't think there is anything else you can do.
She should have realize you are vulnerable to mixed signals.

Posted by SensitiveBluesLMFAO yes!
lol oh we can cry on eachothers shoulders
damn EARTH really treetruks up WATER
Let's call our band the "Miserable Entities"


Posted by MusicologyWe did talk about it, all she kept telling me was to leave her alone and to seek help becaude im aparently unwell. Im not unwell, i just wanted to talk to her and she just saw me talking to her as me begging for her back. I told her im happy for her that she was able to move on from someone she thought was the most amazing man on earth but she didnt give a fuck. Just saw me as this needy little spitfuck that wanted her back so bad.
Why haven't you both talked about this?


Posted by Taniwha
" Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?"
The best thing you can do now is realize that there were no mistakes made in the first place. Things are as they are meant to be right now, your'l meet someone new eventually, you might even meet a more confident you ,and a self fulfilling part of yourself that you didn't know existed. Knowing that part of yourself intimately and being able to grow will be better than knowing any girl, and allot more girls will wan't to know you when you know yourself. Good luck brother.

Posted by JustaVirgoIm trying, but what sucks is i finally get her out of my head and my parents or a freind that doesnt know what happened wants to talk about it and boom, shes back in there and i get ticked off and it takes a few hours of trying not to break into tears to get her out. If u were to talk to me lets say.... three weeks ago u woulda seen ne as a whining little bitch but now, i can actually think about her and be like eh... shit happens to the best of us. Still sucks tho but im doing much much MUCH betterPosted by Taniwha
" Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?"
The best thing you can do now is realize that there were no mistakes made in the first place. Things are as they are meant to be right now, your'l meet someone new eventually, you might even meet a more confident you ,and a self fulfilling part of yourself that you didn't know existed. Knowing that part of yourself intimately and being able to grow will be better than knowing any girl, and allot more girls will wan't to know you when you know yourself. Good luck brother.
defiantly what is posted above. Think of this as your taurus doing you a favor by blocking you... You don't want to waste your time with going back and forth with someone who has reservations. It will take you time to get over it but you will, don't rush it. Don't be phased by the new boy toy in her life... Just live your life and keep it moving.click to expand
Posted by Brandonb55Posted by JustaVirgoIm trying, but what sucks is i finally get her out of my head and my parents or a freind that doesnt know what happened wants to talk about it and boom, shes back in there and i get ticked off and it takes a few hours of trying not to break into tears to get her out. If u were to talk to me lets say.... three weeks ago u woulda seen ne as a whining little bitch but now, i can actually think about her and be like eh... shit happens to the best of us. Still sucks tho but im doing much much MUCH betterPosted by Taniwha
" Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?"
The best thing you can do now is realize that there were no mistakes made in the first place. Things are as they are meant to be right now, your'l meet someone new eventually, you might even meet a more confident you ,and a self fulfilling part of yourself that you didn't know existed. Knowing that part of yourself intimately and being able to grow will be better than knowing any girl, and allot more girls will wan't to know you when you know yourself. Good luck brother.
defiantly what is posted above. Think of this as your taurus doing you a favor by blocking you... You don't want to waste your time with going back and forth with someone who has reservations. It will take you time to get over it but you will, don't rush it. Don't be phased by the new boy toy in her life... Just live your life and keep it moving.click to expand



Posted by Brandonb55Why did she think you were unwell? Maybe it had to do moreso with this than that.Posted by MusicologyWe did talk about it, all she kept telling me was to leave her alone and to seek help becaude im aparently unwell. Im not unwell, i just wanted to talk to her and she just saw me talking to her as me begging for her back. I told her im happy for her that she was able to move on from someone she thought was the most amazing man on earth but she didnt give a fuck. Just saw me as this needy little spitfuck that wanted her back so bad.
Why haven't you both talked about this?click to expand

Posted by MusicologyI completely lost myself and became obsessive without realising it. My mind and complete sanity was warped after she invited me over that night.Posted by Brandonb55Why did she think you were unwell? Maybe it had to do moreso with this than that.Posted by MusicologyWe did talk about it, all she kept telling me was to leave her alone and to seek help becaude im aparently unwell. Im not unwell, i just wanted to talk to her and she just saw me talking to her as me begging for her back. I told her im happy for her that she was able to move on from someone she thought was the most amazing man on earth but she didnt give a fuck. Just saw me as this needy little spitfuck that wanted her back so bad.
Why haven't you both talked about this?click to expand
Posted by Brandonb55Posted by MusicologyI completely lost myself and became obsessive without realising it. My mind and complete sanity was warped after she invited me over that night.Posted by Brandonb55Why did she think you were unwell? Maybe it had to do moreso with this than that.Posted by MusicologyWe did talk about it, all she kept telling me was to leave her alone and to seek help becaude im aparently unwell. Im not unwell, i just wanted to talk to her and she just saw me talking to her as me begging for her back. I told her im happy for her that she was able to move on from someone she thought was the most amazing man on earth but she didnt give a fuck. Just saw me as this needy little spitfuck that wanted her back so bad.
Why haven't you both talked about this?click to expand

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