I think my bull is bi-polar or broken :o

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by zZOverTheTop on Sunday, November 4, 2018 and has 6 replies.

Understanding Mixed Signals in Relationships

Inconsistent behavior can indicate emotional uncertainty or testing boundaries. It may also reflect personality traits or unresolved issues. Pay attention to how his actions align with his words and consider open communication to clarify intentions and feelings for a healthier connection.

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@zZOverTheTop
7 Years

We met online, all went good over texting. At start he was a bit too sexual, so I told him off, set my boundaries of comfort, and since than he never tried it again, real gent. After a month of chatting and phone calls, we had first date. Now that's when things get a bit weird. He came to my town, some 80 miles away from his town,he greeted me with warm hug and a kiss, he did paid for everything, although I offered also to pay... but on date he behaved very aloof, almost like I'm not even there, he didn't touch me, not even once, was always standing at least 2 steps away, turning me his back and co. Normally can read body language, have to because of the work... and his whole body language was saying ... nope. It went so far that I thought he is completely indifferent.

We went each to our homes, literally 15 min after he came home he texted me, and told how nice it was, and that he looks forward on our next date. That was a week ago, and he text me every day, inform me about his day, what he had for lunch&dinner(yes every single day, hihi) he also sends me short videos about his work and his day. At start he was a bit too sexual, so I told him off, set my boundaries of comfort, and since than he never tried it again, real gent

Now how can 1 person be so different?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Koni

This isn't a fair assessment and is quite rude to call someone bi-polar or broken after meeting just one time.

He was screwed when he did and screwed when he didn’t..

Man followed the rule! Now he is bisexual...well..

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@Pandora101
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@zZOverTheTop

sounds a bit too far away for a frequent interaction... 80 miles can be too much, but not impossible

have you checked him online? any info about him?

I am not sure why you think he is bipolar.... I wouldnt thought of this at all after one meeting... do you have experience with bipolar people? are you one of them? how do you know the symptoms so you can set a diagnose?

and what do you mean by broken?

there must be a lot more behind it what you are revaling?

If he was just nervous on the first date and you promptly asking strangers if he is bipolar without any evidence (revealed evidence) maybe you have a problem?