is being single worth it really?

How many are single and prefer it? Especially after failed attempts.. When you seem to put your soul and heart into someone else in the dating world. You get to know each other and see if there's spark right away. What about after when red flags start popping up in our minds. Do you decide really quick if its meant to be or not. Stay or go? Keep trying? Stay single? Red flags can be flighty and late on dates, or zero phone calls, too many kids, smoke to much weed for examples.

Being single is highly overrated.
Been through the YAY I'm single stage.

I'm done. I want a partner!

yet again we are twins impulsv

I'm currently single but after being with the wrong person I was always stronger and happier when I was by myself. Idk why but I do get weak and put my whole heart into things when I have a partner. On the other hand when I'm single I'm all about me enjoying my own company. I also do the mirror thing idk why maybe its my venus in virgo but I start acting like my partner *sigh

but I've seen enough karmic mirrors to realize to stop picking the wrong partners when I see red flags I don't ignore them like I use to. Now I'm able to just fleet the partners that serve me no good and pick the good ones instead of making them platonic friends lol Idk why i always made the good ones friends maybe I wasn't ready back then but now I'm in 🙂

I don't think many single people say they are unhappy. You would appear to be undesirable in the eyes of everyone. You mean you are single and you don't want to be and you can't find anyone who you like or who likes you? You must be Frankensteinish.

On the contrary, I know tons of committed, married or otherwise attached unhappy people who share no qualms about shouting it from the roof tops.

I sit next to a guy at work who talks so horribly about his wife that I get a sick feeling every time he does it.

Why is it that all single people become much more pleasant whilst in a relationhip?

You can be single and happy and married and miserable. I suspect people who worry about being single are people who worry too much what other people think of them. Meanwhile everyone else is too busy gazing at their navels to notice your status. Ultimately, happiness is found within and not in relationship. At best, we share our happiness with another.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How many are single and prefer it? Especially after failed attempts.. When you seem to put your soul and heart into someone else in the dating world. You get to know each other and see if there's spark right away. What about after when red flags start popping up in our minds. Do you decide really quick if its meant to be or not. Stay or go? Keep trying? Stay single? Red flags can be flighty and late on dates, or zero phone calls, too many kids, smoke to much weed for examples.

I'm not a Taurus, but once several red flags started popping up, I'd go back into observational and analyst mode. Some red flags are workable, some are observation/warning worthy to slow down and check the person out a little better and some are immediate see-ya's.

Oh, as far as the main question. Only you can be responsible for your own happiness. So whether you're with or without a partner, your happiness depends on you. I'm happy either way. But life is a lot more fun with a partner!

i loved being single so much, until i started seeing a Leo, his almost a mirror of me, I gave up dating for awhile, felt like I was attracting the same type of guy over and over again, until him,I am a Libra

I am tired of being single.....It's been 6 yrs now...I have always been the married type. Long term, old fashioned. Single is for the birds. But I won't settle and I'm in no hurry.

^^^^^
When you stop worrying about it the one will come to you. Your future husband is probably still trying to get his self together.

timing is everything

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How many are single and prefer it? Especially after failed attempts.. When you seem to put your soul and heart into someone else in the dating world. You get to know each other and see if there's spark right away. What about after when red flags start popping up in our minds. Do you decide really quick if its meant to be or not. Stay or go? Keep trying? Stay single? Red flags can be flighty and late on dates, or zero phone calls, too many kids, smoke to much weed for examples.

I hated being single. I like a warm body in the bed next to me, someone to eat and chill with, go do stuff with regularly, etc. If you get with someone who gives you space, you can sort of have the best of both worlds.

On red flags, depends on the type, and how willing/able they are to change them if its a deal-breaker. Late on dates? No biggy. That can be fixed. People can cut back on smoking weed, give extra kids up for adoption, etc.

It would be so cool to find that one person to enjoy and be happy with forever. But I can be single for along time. And drop dating and focus on myself whenever someone doesn't work. Maybe alittle too long before I jump into it again. Its too much stress dating. My God it's hard. And I really don't know who I am compatible with in dating...do you ever get butterflies in your stomach when you think they're the ones?

The longer I stay single. The longer I get emotional unattached with the next. Is that bad? Like here we go again. Positive thinking and an open mind is what I think and just hope for the best. Usually within a few minutes I can tell. How long does it take for you guys to know damn I got a good fish or bad fish? Timing is everything.

Is being single worth it really?

No. it's not. It's just too much for me to handle a drama king. so I stayed single and break free.

When it comes to relationships I'm pretty much bi polar in a sense. One minute I want that close connection touchy feely etc the next I want to be alone no drama no paranoia no suspicion etc. I'm not a taurus but I was talking to a taurus man but idk what happened , I miss him 😢 felt like we could of had something big and special....

Yes I feel its difficult. So much my moon sign loves the freedom and what ever adventure a wait. But then my sun sign. Says no stop slow the f down and think about this shit first. I want sex and passionate intimacy at the same time. Lol grr. Drama is unhealthy for us. Not saying stay single people. I hope everything works out for all of you. We are queens. Its like a fairy tale. prince
and princess meet, get along to splendid
ly, and then eventually become king and queen of your castle . Doing whatever your hearts desire kids, animals, and trips(traveling).