so my girlfriend and i have been dating for about a year now, our suns are polar opposites (i'm an aries woman, she's a libra), i'm a libra moon and she's a gemini moon, my mercury is in pisces, hers in libra. my venus in taurus, hers scorpios. and my mars is in scorpio, hers in cancer.. we've had a troublesome start.. she physically abused me, i stayed, she cheated, i stayed.. is this a cycle that'll continue until i put my foot down and leave? or are we past that and have real potential for longetivity? i need to know before i move in with her in three months. thank you, xoxo.
aries + libra
Can Aries and Libra have a lasting relationship
Aries and Libra can build a balanced relationship but face challenges due to their different temperaments. Compatibility depends on communication, boundaries, and mutual respect. Addressing past issues and establishing trust is essential for longevity. Consider relationship counseling to navigate conflicts and assess if the connection is truly sustainable.

Physical abuse and cheating is NOT okay. No you should not stay. What you allow is what will continue and she sounds like a complete asshat!
Do not move in with her....there is no potential for anything when they have already cheated and abused you. Run far away...
*I know it's hard. But you will be better off without her.

OP, some relationships start with romantic infatuation, some start with cheating... (I mean the first few weeks-months, its not uncommon)
libra is a week sign, craving attention all the time, and her gemini moon is not helping... the only thing in your favour is her scorpio venus.... she will stick to a long-term partner, who is a strong character...
but she will flirt with others regardless, so are you prepared for this? and will abuse you mentally and you will end up with a drinking problem... no kidding
you must be strong.... just ignore her silliness, if you can.... obviously you are in love with her..... it may get better, it may not, but for now its evident you are not ready to leave her.... so observe and be strong.... libras tend to incline to strong personalities (they may cheat on them, but they stay with them....)
so, you decide, if you can take it
libra is a week sign, craving attention all the time, and her gemini moon is not helping... the only thing in your favour is her scorpio venus.... she will stick to a long-term partner, who is a strong character...
but she will flirt with others regardless, so are you prepared for this? and will abuse you mentally and you will end up with a drinking problem... no kidding
you must be strong.... just ignore her silliness, if you can.... obviously you are in love with her..... it may get better, it may not, but for now its evident you are not ready to leave her.... so observe and be strong.... libras tend to incline to strong personalities (they may cheat on them, but they stay with them....)
so, you decide, if you can take it
Why would you stay for more abuse? Are you desparate? She is going to continue to treat you shitty because she knows you have no self respect. Leave and work on you. Don't ever let anyone treat you like that.

LEAVE.
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