Its been a year n a half...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by NinaBee2002 on Monday, January 6, 2014 and has 79 replies.

Understanding Your Connection and Moving Forward

This situation suggests emotional ties and unresolved feelings. It may be best to prioritize your well-being and consider walking away from a relationship that no longer serves you. Reflecting on what you want can help you make healthier choices and find more fulfilling connections.

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

Hi everyone hope u all can help me...so i met this guy summer 2012 n we had an instant connection i had jus gotten out of a relationship n it was nice to have someone 2 talk 2. Well fast forward to now he n i still deal with each other but only on an intimate level nothing else. The last time i saw him we messed around n that was that. I get on fb later that nite n he has a status update saying hes ready for a relationship n that in the past hes been careless with women...i guess me...hes only hit me up since then asking if im on birth control which im not ( i kno, im dumb) i jus think i need to walk away from him...i feel dumb 😢

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I swear for every "we had a connection.."..

followed by:

"...but nothing happened"

or

"...we are in a fwb"

....a puppy dies somewhere.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by NinaBee2002
Hi everyone hope u all can help me...so i met this guy summer 2012 n we had an instant connection i had jus gotten out of a relationship n it was nice to have someone 2 talk 2. Well fast forward to now he n i still deal with each other but only on an intimate level nothing else. The last time i saw him we messed around n that was that. I get on fb later that nite n he has a status update saying hes ready for a relationship n that in the past hes been careless with women...i guess me...hes only hit me up since then asking if im on birth control which im not ( i kno, im dumb) i jus think i need to walk away from him...i feel dumb 😢

well at least you're not delusional. now go open the door, get out and never look back.

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@aftershine
13 Years

You need to walk away....In my experience if s taurean male likes you/attracted to you then you have to let them PROVE their love for you BEFORE getting intimate to start a serious relationship with the bull or any man regardless of their zodiac sign IMHO. Otherwise you be stuck as his booty call....

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@Taurusgirl3
13 Years

Posted by Damnata
I swear for every "we had a connection.."..

followed by:

"...but nothing happened"

or

"...we are in a fwb"

....a puppy dies somewhere.

Lots of poor dead puppies.

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@aftershine
13 Years

Posted by Damnata
I swear for every "we had a connection.."..

followed by:

"...but nothing happened"

or

"...we are in a fwb"

....a puppy dies somewhere.

xD you're one of my fav ppl damnata

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by aftershine

Posted by Damnata
I swear for every "we had a connection.."..

followed by:

"...but nothing happened"

or

"...we are in a fwb"

....a puppy dies somewhere.

xD you're one of my fav ppl damnata

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That sounds nice. Seems like you're still a young Gemini so you can be saved from gemininess 😛

I love to give gems grief 😄

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

This situation has made me so strong. I melted a little for him and Im ok with that. It has made me better.

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

Eh...he'll always be around. I kno him. Married or not. I jus have a surprise for him...im not.

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

In the english language they both start with "w", however, the terms wine and woman have been used long before the english language was formed and most certainly did begin with the letter "w".

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@aftershine
13 Years

Posted by Damnata

Posted by aftershine

Posted by Damnata
I swear for every "we had a connection.."..

followed by:

"...but nothing happened"

or

"...we are in a fwb"

....a puppy dies somewhere.

xD you're one of my fav ppl damnata

That sounds nice. Seems like you're still a young Gemini so you can be saved from gemininess 😛

I love to give gems grief 😄

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my venus aries completely shuts off my sun+moon gem when it comes to love, it makes me want to have the best+long term (my mars taurus mayb?) choice in love ^-^ i admit if i did let my sun placement have any control in the matters of love i'd be screwed over a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNGG time ago xD #ih8beingagem #FML

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

Enjoy! Im willing to bet most of yall posting sarcastic, bitter, responses have never even been chosen by a bull lol sorry sweetie try again lol

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

It's been year and a half. You didn't realize how long you spend time with that A $ $ $ hole?

nah... if you're a Scorpio. I doubt. what's the date of your birthday?

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

soultalk,

yes...it was really funny. if you read my update he gave me a huge amount of money just to leave him

alone dec.31,2013. lol. I threw to his face some of his gifts he gave but took the gold one bracelet.

lol... I am not contacting him anymore. I actually had a dinner to his ex wife and she was really

adored and appreciated my presence as she was kept laughing what I did to her ex hub. lol.

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I use my brain and not my emotion... as I said he invested his money to me. lol.

I kept teasing him and annoying him..

Him: (yelled at me)... leave me alone bitch!!!

Me😢sooo low voice)... no problem Hunny. That will happen only if you can do something about it.

Him: Here's the money.. go now and your family, I can't deal your BS to me.

Me: oh well, We are going now. lol

Him😢talking my family) Me and M143 can't get along. sorry for this rush. Happy new year tonight...

Me: No worries. I already told them... they are not bothered too. they are bored here(which is true).

Him: I accused you.

Me: oh doesn't mean you gave me key to your house I steal from you, what do you mean?

Him: mute. just looking at me while brushing my hair.

Me: Oh before I leave let me know what do you mean by you '' accused me''? Faster, my family
is waiting.

Him: My time.

Me: Bull $ $ $ hit. Goodbye A $ $ $ hole...

My family and I were happy leaving him that day. They are bored really. We supposed to exit before

Xmas but I did my best to stick the plan till he blew up.

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

I have no reason to lie about my DOB. As well as no reason to go about proving anything to some internet thugs. Yall can have it. I was wondering what anyone had to say about t-men not what bitter, jealous trolls think. You ppl really believe t-men will sleep with anyone and use and abuse them well sweetie you dont know t-men.

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

As a scorpio u should know better, posting all the play by plays of your relationship to some lonely, bitter, internet bats. Girl, please. Check yourself. That man let your family stay with him and gave you money n ur bragging about throwing it all in his face. Wow. Lame AF. Dont let the wrong ppl gas u up. U should like runnin on e-drake fellow scorpio

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

NinaBee2002,

Lmao. who are you? My mother? You don't know who I am dealing Bull? He is a real A $ $ $ hole. That's why.

I am not bragging he gave me money and etc... when I know what $ hits he was doing... Lmao.

You'd better mind your OWN BUSINESS. I am working as Accountant. FO!

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

As a Scorpio.. you should know better. I think You have to apply that for yourself.

You look so needy and kept chasing that bull.

You made me laugh at you. really. Read my statement above. I had a dinner with his ex wife.

She adored me. She knows her husband was a good liar and manipulator. Now he found his match. lol

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

Youre a clown. Try harder next time. I would sting myself over and over again before I had dinner with my mans ex-wife. That B is an ex wife for a reason. Youre lost. And being an accountant means nothing. You think that gives you credibilty, dare I say it, clout? You cant even write in complete sentences? I hate ppl that title drop! Clown theres always someone smarter and better than you. You need to start over. Back to the womb you go #clown

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

I love when ppl say my name when addressing me. Yes, address royalty before you speak.

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Aww! because you drop a hint that I am interested only his money. You are wrong.

wow. you look desperate with your man. You are using other name... bee22? what? did you hear yourself?

His ex wife... wanted to see me and talk to me...

How poor you are chasing this bull who is not into you? is he your first bull? nah... I had 4 exes bull.

If you are smart... then stop asking any help when you already acknowledged you are not a CLOWN.

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

So? A real woman woulda been like no thank you, we have nothing to discuss. Girl, you are crazy but you have met your superior. You dont want it with me. Bee22 is someone else and i suggest you hide your comment on her thread. Smh. Poor girl is gonna be so confused.

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@NinaBee2002
12 Years

Good to see I got you on your toes. I asked a question and shared a portion of my story. You know scorpio butter. Give a little at a time. Any more buttons i can push for you?

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@GalacticFun89
12 YearsSagittarius

Posted by NinaBee2002
Hi everyone hope u all can help me...so i met this guy summer 2012 n we had an instant connection i had jus gotten out of a relationship n it was nice to have someone 2 talk 2. Well fast forward to now he n i still deal with each other but only on an intimate level nothing else. The last time i saw him we messed around n that was that. I get on fb later that nite n he has a status update saying hes ready for a relationship n that in the past hes been careless with women...i guess me...hes only hit me up since then asking if im on birth control which im not ( i kno, im dumb) i jus think i need to walk away from him...i feel dumb 😢

I'm sorry to hear, i wish i knew more info to this story..but, i think for now maybe u should take a step back from him and see what he does? Im basically on a year situation with a taurus man too (kinda sorta), but even though he still tries to keep in contact with me, ive realized to keep my options open.

Thats prob another thing u should do. You can be respectful to him when he talks to u, but keep it short until u actually know whats going on.

Oh, and dont mind anybody who comes off with something negative to say..There really should be more people that can actually give good advice instead of saying comments that arent really needed. But thats the internet for ya...

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