Friends with benefits to dating??

Hello , this is my first post here, usually I'm just viewing other post.
Anywho, I'm a Gemini woman hooking up with a Virgo man. This has been going on for 6 months. When we are together , its amazing and intense. When we are not , he text me a few times a week, very brief.. We have hurt each others feelings and its been complicated ... Anyway I want to get to know him better and I want to date him as well, but I'm not sure how to go about this or is this even possible? I would love to hear from any Virgos out there or anyone in similar situations with a Virgo. Thanks in advance☺

for a warm-up:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/advice-needed-on-a-fwb-relationship-with-a-gemini-4962824/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/caps-and-sex-5678556/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/have-you-had-fwb-relationships-4227566/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/fwb-5681942/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/friends-with-benefits-2641731/

also google "dxpnet fwb".

I agree with dwelling ......

This isn't a riddle. It's old news.

At first, women went running towards the shiny glitter, wrapped in a fantasy of: if I sleep with him, he'll love me

Now, the new thing to do is: ummmm no, next

Thank you for the feedback, I will look into it now.

I am in a similar situation so you will not get any judgment from me. I am having an affair with a married Virgo man. We have and always will be good friends. He is not going to leave his wife and I would not ask him to. But what I have found is that they will leave their current situation if you are there waiting. But remember when he says I can't or won't be monogamous heeans it

Oops I meant he means it